Dudeforall:
Lol, you must be the funny type. I won't be moved a bit if I see such that's the truth. He would be sinning against his body and not mine.

womenareapezz:
what bleeped up mindset is this

Don't you ever compare the holy spirit with woman
Are you this daft

SerendipityHIGH:


For being sensitive, rational and reasonable. Above all for not placing so much value on money.

SerendipityHIGH:


Friendship get level.

SamuelTaiw0:


Na because say you get game. You go for the ones that like you and you don't give your attention anyhow

SamuelTaiw0:


But you'll still remain his lover

You'll still cry on his shoulder

womenareapezz:
what bleeped up mindset is this

Don't you ever compare the holy spirit with woman
Are you this daft

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Dextre:


Women get attention from endless scores of men na, if u nor continue to apply pressure, dem go out u aside face who dey put in that call. If nor be your girlfriend, wetin u expect you can’t take it personal, call when u need something only too, life na back and forth

SamuelTaiw0:


She's getting D elsewhere

IamMobisola:


I’m sure you weren’t expecting her to be your FWB forever right? People grow and move on, she did which is a good thing.

SamuelTaiw0:


You get game bro. Women find it repulsive when a man runs after them for attention. They don't like needy guys. I've been there so I know what I'm saying. A normal lady wants to submit, she wants to chase a man, a man's job is to position himself to be the prize that she will sought after. I dey feel ypur parole bro. Keep the Game up

SerendipityHIGH:


Tell them you are in CANADA, come back and tell us the result

SamuelTaiw0:


But you'll still remain his lover

You'll still cry on his shoulder

SamuelTaiw0:


She met you and didn't like you. Or maybe she just wan chop your gbola leave you

Sweetplum:

You dz boys can't eat your cake and have it. Ko possible!

BigDawsNet:


I think it's an issue we have with our Nigerian or African ladies...

They natural believe its the man's job to take the wheel of the relationship... and when you stop doing whatever a man does... then the relationship hit the rocks...

I hav noticed everything you said here... tho I dint do mine on purpose... I was so busy with work...and I couldn't do the calling... after a week I realised the lady stop calling too... like automatic end of relationship...

All this things are just mentality... nothing more... they believe its men job to initiate calls and everythung that concerns the relationship at all times... truly not all African ladies are like this... but majority are...

So if you know, you value your relationship... just make sure you carry out your assignment well as a man or be ready to start looking for another babe

HardMirror:
this applies to only a broke guy. Guys abeg make money, all these girls are fake. Only very few ones, like my dear hardworking ayinke that is a programmer, have my respect. You see all these other ones, na lie pkatapkata. Out of 100 girls, 99 are useless, only one has sense and self-worth.

BurgundyBlue:
forget that thing...woman wey like you go call you oooo....I dey experience ham nau....she go dey call you dey ask if you don chop or not, dey do you like say u be her son....I dey tell you....the ones wey no like you, no go send you if you no call them again ....

IamMobisola:

Other men’s shoulder actually.
Two can play the game remember?

JoshTheStoic:
That dude got high on some new weed and sh!t. Most women are very hypergamous and sonipsistic in nature. It's all about what's best for them at any point in time if you would relate someone with holy ghost it's man with all our sacrifices and shit

gentlegiant95:
not like I care. Im def not the only guy she used to see. but Its just funny cos we didnt have any issues, but she just decided to pull back. This is someone that used to be very submissive. I know the game she's playing, she wants me to chase her.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Not me. I never see that man for this life wey I go chase. No matter how you smart, fine or get money reach. Call it ego or anything, I agree wholly. If I like you, you will know. No mind games. And I expect you to reciprocate the energy. If you go dey do like roundabout feeling high and mighty or waiting for me to always initiate calls or chat you up every time, ghosting straight up.

I don't suffer fools gladly.

Dudeforall:
Cry ko crier ni, I think you should go back to my first post here about ladies being wiser now, maybe you will understand me better. You are not getting it at all.

SamuelTaiw0:


I've always known this that you women don't mean what you say. Your actions are always in the opposite direction of your words.

As long as a man is masculine and in one way or the other is able to make you submit to him, you'd do anything to stay with him. it's the reason you'd see serial cheats and women beaters and women will still stick to him. Maybe because of his money, or he's so jovial or something. As long as he trickles your emotions you'd stay. The only thing that can make a woman leave such a man is if she sees a presupposed better man. And sometimes it may be a mirrage and she'll go back to beg the Ex. It happens a lot of times and history have shown you women are the same. Extremely loyal to the way your emotions.

SamuelTaiw0:


It's not about being wiser, it's about feminine nature. The reason you're saying this is because of feminine men that will be begging. Can a man not beg, of course he can and once he's wrong, he should but the way masculine men beg is different. He will beg you and you'll still respect him not the ones that will turn to fellow woman with you. I'm not a supporter of cheating o especially in marriage but the make up of a man and a woman is different and the way each gender reacts to things is different. Women love masculinity. Men love Feminity. It's just the way it is. But this days, we have feminised men and masculinised women and they are huge turn offs. That's another topic.

Sweetplum:
Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.

Faber:


Yes, dont tell a woman you dont have, or you will not give her... promise you will give her the stuff, but keep on posting her. Coming up with different excuses and assurance you are on it.

They always come to you indirectly, so do same to them and enjoy the fun
You piss them off more, when you are direct and clear that you will not help them with the money