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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Antoeni(m): 9:20am On Nov 11, 2022
Sorry you don’t have a FIANCÉE Yet
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by NigerianAngelo(m): 9:20am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

1. Don't listen to 75% of the persons here.

2. Go and meet her face to face. If she doesn't pick your calls, go and meet her. Sometimes people are earlier confused but end up making great couples.

First plan what investment you want to make with the remaining money. You could even start it up.

Look at the furniture in your house and determine if some need improvement.

Then plan your N1m wedding. Or N1.5m or whichever. You are the one in the situation.


1 Our Father, Three Hail Marys for you.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Nweike1: 9:20am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Pray and fast for God to show u your wife, broken relationship is better than broken marriage
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Allisgud: 9:21am On Nov 11, 2022
Na this type go tell u if u can't rent a flat apartment I wount move in with u,this one will make u poor run ooo

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by longview007: 9:21am On Nov 11, 2022
Stupid ladies that doesnt know what is priority.

Ask her to get 200k she nogo fit.


My brother RUNNNN OO.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by munagi: 9:21am On Nov 11, 2022
My brother, she is not your wife. God's blessing maketh rich and addeth no sorrow. She is already adding sorrow to your life and wasting your richness. Please let her go, she will not make a good wife.

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by benitwater(m): 9:21am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.
My brother congratulations,
Oju to ma ba ni kale,Koni Fi owuro se pin.
When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by infogenius(m): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.


This is a BIG RED Flag.
I am not sure it was God that showed u this lady. It's possibly an illusion borne from infatuation.


If u marry this lady. be ready for series of showdowns when it comes to money.
This is because she's in only for good times and u will be alone during low periods.

Guy, biko wise up!
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by goodman5(m): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
Wait u said na God show u her grin grin,God can't show anybody wife bro

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Antoeni(m): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
The Boy that disvirgined her , only used 2 indomie 1 Egg and cold 7up

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by mabea: 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
To buy furniture for the home? But this is not part of marriage plan. Your story looks more like an excerpt than the real thing. Let's hear from her too.

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Ofemmanu1: 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
When God takes away the trash in your life, you don't go back digging it.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Etosha: 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
[/b][quote author=Nazgul post=118290777][b]Sometimes I ask myself if it's a taboo for Nigerian girls to work, make money and spend on themselves rather than making unrealistic demands from men.

Hehehehe... Even when you try to give them viable business advise, the only thing on their minds is marriage. I was telling one the other day how she can make money through hairdressing (since she already has the skill), the next question she asked me was when I will get married. When you are talking about money they're talking about marriage. One was sitting idle in her mom's shop, I told her to learn how to make buns or meatpie and sell them at the shop, she took my advice and today she sometimes come to make deposits at my neighbor's POS shop.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by havilla(f): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
Forget about that woman she is too shallow minded

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Wapgod(m): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2022
yomi007k:
You better be celebrating.

4 words
Wisdom equivalent to that of Solomon
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by ibechris(m): 9:23am On Nov 11, 2022
In Nigeria of today,try not to marry a liability.

U may be digging your grave without knowing.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Enskynelson(m): 9:23am On Nov 11, 2022
Sweetvie:
It simple
Tell her to bring 1.5m and you'll add 1.5 grin
I don't even know why u guys will be stressing on wedding... Lowkey wedding is simply the best but no you guys will be doing wedding that las las after wedding you will now be paying debt undecided
If she can't understand you in this economy then she is not ready for marriage n she is not a wife material grin
Did the OP tell you he has no money? What if the guy is having like 100m and a big business out there which the lady is aware? Will u still say 3m is too much? Let the OP come and tell us his financial state to allow us know if the lady is reasonable or not.

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by udemzyudex(m): 9:23am On Nov 11, 2022
Which God showed her to you?


Well it's simple, you drop the money you can afford or plan to spend,while she complete the rest to make it #3m.

Btw if my babe stop talking to me after I try reaching out to her for something like this, even if it is God that showed her to me,I'll just believe that it is a false god that bring her.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by iSense247: 9:23am On Nov 11, 2022
Call your family to beg her and give her the needed #3m. She even needs more?
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Toktee(m): 9:24am On Nov 11, 2022
Tokskob2008:

Lol, I was about saying this too. Let her contribute half while the man also do the same but then again she will say he isn't man enough to be requesting anything from her like it's written in the Bible that a man shall kill himself just to please his lady.
Imagine, one violated unsafe hole detecting for the man..... Chaiii
. The simp even say na God show him grin but God no tell you she will request for 3m wedding?
The op is not a man he just carry dik.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Okere18: 9:24am On Nov 11, 2022
O boy begin sing Jesus you love me too much ooo, 5oo much ooo...it almost happened to me but I ask her family to bring part of the money they want me to spend...that was how it all ended yet she is till not married and I have 3 kids already..I wish her well but I never get that kind bar to spend for wedding and I won't approve such for my daughters unless the man is willing...

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Qatar2022: 9:24am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
GOD did not show you this kind of a woman that want to bring you down. She came to destroy you
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Maxhappy01(m): 9:24am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
SHE IS NOT YOUR KIND OF WOMAN.DON'T START YOUR MARITAL LIFE WITH A WRONG FOUNDATION. THIS TYPE OF WOMAN CAN EASILY DIVORCE YOU IF YOU DON'T DO HER BIDDING.BE WARN.

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Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Greattha: 9:25am On Nov 11, 2022
You're still convinced God showed her to you

Continue ignoring the red flags now, consoling yourself.

You better cut your coat according to your cloth.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by LadyExcellency: 9:25am On Nov 11, 2022
The question is "who is she" and "what is she bringing to the Union"? Until you provide the details, every comment is an assumption and balderdash.

If she is El'rufia's daughter, why not, if not?
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by BarrElChapo(m): 9:25am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

If God showed her to you bros, this won’t be an issue… Check well
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Kakamorufu(m): 9:25am On Nov 11, 2022
how much is she bringing in to support? undecided
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by ariesbull: 9:26am On Nov 11, 2022
Dump her... Dude 509k is enough for wedding
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by addexx: 9:26am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

It seems you let her know your networth which is never advisable for someone you aren't married to yet.

She knows you are capable of that amount and wants to blackmail you into it. She's still a kid bro to be fantasizing about a big wedding than the future of the marriage itself. I'd back off and heal and move on if I were you. Shes entitled and very inconsiderate and draining. Imagine what will happen in your rainy days. :-
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 11, 2022
You better use this opportunity to find someone considerate
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by ufuosman(m): 9:26am On Nov 11, 2022
3m. She get mind chai
Re: My Fiancee Stopped Talking To Me Because She Needed A ₦‎3 Million Wedding by ariesbull: 9:27am On Nov 11, 2022
captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
you get sense... Na she make the money for you....


Abeg dump that woman...she go deal with you if you marry am eventually

Even if she agree 300k wedding, bro no marry am abeg

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