jeromestarks:


Shut up. I'm not ready for marriage.
Your mouth is too sharp.

She hasn't even inspired you to get married?

I hope you've told her this oo

Chai it’s just the absolute fact.. it makes me wonder if it’s just a trade and I have a extra resources and finance why would I marry just one woman anyway.. when deep down I know she is just interested in something and not just for love

atheistandproud:


Love doesn't exist for women. I made my peace with this a long time ago. It's a trade. If you have what they want, they'll come for it. It's not love, it's a trade. So you extract max profits for the item in your possession that they want.

1Sharon:


Exceptions don't make the normal dear

Just incase you didn't see this...and since you still want to argue show me one Nigerian female inventor if not just stop digging the hole you're already in

sqlPAIN:
This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.

[quote author=sqlPAIN post=120031658]This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
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Hustle hustle, to spend on women??

Theunbothered:
■The average Nigerian man is not rich, majority of the people in this country are very POOR. At the same time we have so many equally poor women with nothing reasonable to offer demanding MILLIONS because of entitlement. This entitlement now flows to other women, placing stupid and senseless expectations on men just so they can feel better about themselves or brag to their friends. So now the only option you have as a guy is to stay single until you're rich or burn through dozens of girls to find one that isn't a parasite.

And, you rail against this because?

CruelDove:
That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.

Fiscus105:
■On many occasions, third party is the major cause of marital problems. I was in one place yesterday, I overheard a lady on phone discussing Marriages of their school mates/ friends . .....she is the one, who knows that his friend's husband not too handsome, ........she is the one who knows that another particular of her friend dnt use to upload the pic of her husband on Facebook, ........she also talked about another friend that gave birth, in which her skin not glowing up to expectations, castigating husband not rich enough to make his wife happy and beautiful, and several other complains of friends marriages. ........ meanwhile, this is a lady that can beg anybody to give her money, ....this is the lady that currently, it's her mother that feeding her dad and entire household ooo.

1. Don't be deceived. No third party can derail a marriage that is not already on its way to being derailed.

1Sharon:


She hasn't even inspired you to get married?

I hope you've told her this oo

How can I?
Never say that to a woman.
(Oh ! I forget. You calmed to be a woman).

CodeTemplar:
Lol... Only to claim independent woman when they get to eat the dude's money.

Every business needs to obtain investment capital from some source, so?

CruelDove:
That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.

Poverty has really affected your sense of reasoning.

You're a theif and a criminal to think a rich man should be generous with his money. Only a begger can think this way. Instead of encouraging yourself to get a job and work you're Hoping and waiting for a rich man to give you money and bail you and your family out of your poverty?

Did they swear for you Nigerian girls? Will the sky fall if you make money yourself and be rich too? Abi dey cut una hands to work? What kind daft low entitlement mentality is this?

jeromestarks:

How can I?
Never say that to a woman.
(Oh ! I forget. You calmed to be a woman).

Oh right..I hope when you're 'ready'..you won't tell her she's not a virgin anymore and use that as an excuse to seek someone else.

RenerdLiam:
■I need a partner in a woman. Not a leech. A gold-digger that will run away if i face some unfortunate circumstances. I am a lucky dude though. Not cursed with women with the mentality you painted.

1. Then make sure to look for what you want in a woman, not pretend a gun was held to your head or something.

Nazgul:
Dating a comfortable guy isn't the problem most guys have with girls. The problem is lacking the intellect to relate with him on his level.

Most comfortable guys are exposed, so they have vast knowledge about things. They go to places, they keep up with recent happenings in the cooperate world. Now imagine finding an average regular girl who has made up her mind to date rich guys. Obviously you cannot discuss work with her, you cannot discuss happenings in the IT world with her, she basically wouldn't be able to relate with him on his level.

All she would have to commune with him is money, sex and outing... nothing more. Sooner or later, the guy in question would leave her to look for someone whom he can easily relate with on his level.

I can basically tell you that if you meet 50 average Nigerian girls, 30 would have no idea of what LinkedIn is, 18 would have heard it before but don't have a profile there, only 2 would tell you that they have a developed profile on LinkedIn.

The solution to all this is to date someone within your league (whether you're male or female). That way, you two can work towards developing each other and not taking advantage of each other.

Story for the gods.

So na to dey talk about IT and LinkedIn be the point of relationship...haha.

Man! Relationship is all about going out, fucking, playing together, going out, fucking, more fucking, more watching movies, taking about useless and funny things, poking fun at each other, playing mind games, getting angry, fucking and talking about life goals, number of kids, exchanging gifts and if possible marriage. Relationship is not about talking about IT, LinkedIn and corporate world.

If you are looking for a woman that will develop you, then you must be dreaming, you are the one to develop your woman, i never see where 2 people of the same status dey develop themselves, how dem won start with out quarrels

Goodlady:

Like I said earlier this morning. Money is essential.
Only a frustrated broke person ll tell a girl not to marry a rich person.
Money is almost the most important thing in relationship. It's almost same level as love cos you show love with money.

Why did you deactivate sweetplum account??

Akuruoulo:
■Giving liabilities a simpLE reason to be more of a lability. Can't they make money for themselves since they think they need money ?
■Only women of value gives a broke man a chance. They are independent and not gold diggers. A very poor girl wanting just a rich man should be on psychiatric check. What stopped her from making money since she loves money ? A simPLE man will never fail to disappoint

1. Do they force anyone to date them? I mean has any of them approached you with a gun to your head saying, "date me or die?"

2. Women of value my arse! Look, you need to be intentional when going out there yourself. That is the same thing those gold diggers do. They want rich men and will accept only those. Thinking that everyone has to want and desire only that which you decree means you need that psychiatric check you are here prescribing for others.

Kobojunkie:
1. Then make sure to look for what you want in a woman, not pretend a gun was held to your head or something.

Sure, I’ve always insist on the best. So, I’ve always gotten the best.

Rayban25:


Just incase you didn't see this...and since you still want to argue show me one Nigerian female inventor if not just stop digging the hole you're already in

Who's truly in a hole?

If you want to measure male intelligence by innovation,
I can easily say Nigerian men are unintelligent by their lack of invention overall compared to other groups of men


Anyway there you go

RenerdLiam:
Sure, I’ve always insist on the best. So, I’ve always gotten the best.

Same thing those you cast as gold diggers do — no difference.

ibkayee:
Yeah they will have all the requirements in the world for her, especially her physical appearance but get triggered when a woman asks for someone financially stable and doesn’t want a gateman as a partner.

Why you lying. Abi they manage you average looking women.?

If they suddenly get rich, most of them will have no issue dumping the girl that was with them when they were poor and chasing after the ‘upgraded’ girl that wants money.

You see he was managing you cos you thought you can get his mad without having all his qualities
Humble yourself

So basically they get angry because they’re broke and have an inferiority complex

No they get angry cos you jump from prick to prick with no effort

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ibkayee:
Yeah they will have all the requirements in the world for her, especially her physical appearance but get triggered when a woman asks for someone financially stable and doesn’t want a gateman as a partner.

Why you lying. Abi they manage you average looking women.?

If they suddenly get rich, most of them will have no issue dumping the girl that was with them when they were poor and chasing after the ‘upgraded’ girl that wants money.

You see he was managing you cos you thought you can get his mad without having all his qualities
Humble yourself

So basically they get angry because they’re broke and have an inferiority complex

No they get angry cos you jump from prick to prick with no effort
If you don't like a man don't waste his time or resources

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Kobojunkie:
Same thing those you cast as gold diggers do — no difference.

No, there is. I always pay the price to make my women happy. And will always be with them through thick and thin.

Gold-diggers won’t. They don’t know how to build.

And I am not casting hard-working and real women that only want a man that can assist them as gold-diggers. I am talking about the ones that are intrinsically selfish with no care in the world except their own comfort. Even when they don’t want to pay the price for that comfort.

Who made u their spokesman? Wat is ur business with how the other gender runs their life? Did they make u their spokesman?

Autobot05:


Lol dont turn a blind eye to the fact that a number of women cry even on social media due to lack of husbands. The bad economy and terrible behaviour of women are not helping issues

RenerdLiam:
■ No, there is. I always pay the price to make my women happy. And will always be with them through thick and thin. Gold-diggers won’t. They don’t know how to build.
■And I am not casting hard-working and real women these only want a man that can assist them as gold-diggers. I am talking about the ones that are intrinsically selfish with no care in the world except their own comfort. Even when they don’t want to pay the price for that comfort.

1. Have you ever broken up with anyone before for any reason? If yes, then there is no difference.
2. A relationship is a contract between two people. so If you can have reasons to leave a relationship, so also can the gold-diggers out there.

Happy New Year Bukatyne

bukatyne:
@ Topic:

It is majorly men without gold concerned about who a gold digger is. Just how women a little lacking in beauty complain about men's preference for youth & beauty.

While there are a myriad of reasons why women want rich men, a number of them have become wise enough to know that a lot of poor men chase women who they need (believe are resourceful enough to manage their lack) and go for who they want when they have hammered.

That's when they suddenly realize that their wives/women are looking old, badly behaved, looks dirty, isn't sexy enough to cater to their desires, is too churchy etc. forgetting that those qualities were what made her able to manage him in the first place.

People who meet while younger (in university, service, fresh from service, just joined the workforce etc.) can take certain liberties with their choice of partners because they are easier to groom.

A woman in mid twenties and above needs to consider her man's financial status, ability & willingness to earn more, financial responsibility, generosity etc. amongst other characteristics.

Op god pu.nish you.
Mu.mu,carry head like zuma rock.
Nonsen.se.
Sha i know say na lady dey behind the op acct.
manage the insult like that,olosho,carry nyash like fowl wey no get feather for anus.

CruelDove:
That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.

...
Inferior complex disorder indeed...
Girls want rich men...
Men want virgins...
simple demand and supply, 9ja psychologist say na disorder!
abeg, go collect your PVC Jor!!

1Sharon:



Who's truly in a hole?

If you want to measure male intelligence by innovation,
I can easily say Nigerian men are unintelligent by their lack of invention overall compared to other groups of men


Anyway there you go

I used intelligence in general because for you to invent something you obviously
Have to be intelligent..but just like you said in your earlier comment...the exception dosent disprove the rule that men generally(I didnt say all) have a higher IQ than women...so again stop arguing...I hope you learnt something today

Slynation:

Why did you deactivate sweetplum account??

Cos I feel like deactivating it.

Kobojunkie:
1. Have you ever broken up with anyone before for any reason? If yes, then there is no difference.
2. A relationship is a contract between two people. so If you can have reasons to leave a relationship, so also can the gold-diggers out there.

I have never been in a committed relationship before. So I have never broken with anyone before.

I am surrounded by very few people. And my goal has always been one thing: “Make them a better version of themselves”.

This goal, I have never failed to accomplished. And my women are loyal to me, cause of the impact I have on them.

I can’t have any reason to depart from those people. We are partners. We don’t come together for personal gains, we do so to be there for each other whenever we need each other.

That’s how relationship is to me.

The only thing is that, the ones that we understand each other better are more closer to me than the ones that we don't. And that's because I trust them more.

Nazgul:
Dating a comfortable guy isn't the problem most guys have with girls. The problem is lacking the intellect to relate with him on his level.

Most comfortable guys are exposed, so they have vast knowledge about things. They go to places, they keep up with recent happenings in the cooperate world. Now imagine finding an average regular girl who has made up her mind to date rich guys. Obviously you cannot discuss work with her, you cannot discuss happenings in the IT world with her, she basically wouldn't be able to relate with him on his level.

All she would have to commune with him is money, sex and outing... nothing more. Sooner or later, the guy in question would leave her to look for someone whom he can easily relate with on his level.

I can basically tell you that if you meet 50 average Nigerian girls, 30 would have no idea of what LinkedIn is, 18 would have heard it before but don't have a profile there, only 2 would tell you that they have a developed profile on LinkedIn.

The solution to all this is to date someone within your league (whether you're male or female). That way, you two can work towards developing each other and not taking advantage of each other.

God bless you.

sqlPAIN:
This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.

The Female Gender will always be Winning,

Courtesy of your Fellow Men

Una Go Wail Tire

When Una ready, Una go face your fellow Men wey dey suppress/oppress una less privilege and dey use una as SLAVES