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Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 6:09pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
iyke2frankeze:1. Are your other friends who you claim to have overtaken living today below the poverty line, all while husband and wife are working? 2. This isn't about whether you can overtake others, but about individual families being able to escape poverty or not. There are so many more people out there who married women as dependents and are stuck in poverty as a result. Open your eyes to see reality as it presents itself to the majority rather than pretend your fantastical case colors it for all out there. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Juanmike(m): 6:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
lexy2014:Good evening |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 6:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
iyke2frankeze:1. The personality that complements you alone will not dig you out of poverty where it matters. Your case does not color reality for the vast majority of Nigerians stuck even today in poverty with no end in sight for them. Hypogamy, about 83% of the time, guarantees that one will remain at a current financial level for life. That is what the reality in Nigeria has revealed to date. That you are part of the 17% that it turned out different for does not change this reality. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 6:19pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Padipadi:1. What in the world is the meaning of this rambling for Pete's sake? 2. What you call Christianity is a religion created by your mogs and pastors to pour lies and deceive your lot by using the name of God. Appending the name of Jesus Christ to a thing does not make it of Jesus Christ. No, only that which is of the Kingdom of God is in fact of Jesus Christ. He taught this from almost 2000 years ago but you lot refuse to listen to Him as you would rather imbibe lies fed you by ordinary men who conveniently sit, thanks to religion, as gods over your heads and lives. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by lexy2014: 6:20pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:1. I am not one of your pastors and mogs who twist scripture, telling you they interpret it for your own good. Jesus Christ warned you against men who would do such using His name but I see you don't believe Jesus Christ. Anywhos, I accept what is written in scripture as is written and that is what I am telling you even here. The very same God who joined man and woman in the Garden - Genesis 2 vs 24 - turned around and cursed man and woman in marriage - Genesis 3 vs 16 - removing marriage from His person. So when Jesus Christ in His Gospel and Law told you that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36, Jesus echoed God's judgment against marriage from the beginning. 2. Scripture says one thing you all like to conveniently ignore which is that God does not answer the prayers of sinners. Moving on, you claim God gave guidance to the servant in question but if you read that passage clearly, you will mind that it isn't in fact written that God answered the prayer of the servant. What is written in that passage may as well have been a coincidence of luck. The same Rachel that was selected went on to connive with her trickster son, Jacob, to deny her first son Esau of the birthright that was meant to be his, deceiving her Isaac in the end. If we agree that this is of God then we should also concede that your failures in marriage, divorce, and regrets are also of God, right? 3. Rubbish! God promised guidance only to those who belong to Him, particularly those who obey His teachings and commandments. And your marriages are not of His Kingdom so why would God be vested in them as you lot pretend Him to be? |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Juanmike(m): 6:28pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
lexy2014:Dalu |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by gfelo(m): 6:30pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Then they live in the condition stated in my comments Kobojunkie: |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 6:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
gfelo:Wrong! That is an unnecessary generalization. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Prettygirl200(f): 6:38pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:Don't settle down now, wait till u are twenty eight years old. U can start relationships try to know your partner before entering marriage. U can still have a little more fun but then do it with sense. Save more spend less!!! Good luck!!! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Skypoman(m): 6:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:you are good to go since you can Stand your ground. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Emmanuel30a: 7:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Now, av u accept GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST; AS UR LORD&PERSONAL SAVIOUR...? As 4me...: "I wud look up 2d hill...my help? My help...JESUS...Earth" I&I/me,myself&I... It's GOD&...JESUS...serving... Wia are u now learning d or ur mastery, mistery&chemistry,etc...? Calvary,Sanctuary,Seminary,Mortuary,monastery?... |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 7:16pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:You can not accept Jesus Christ while rejecting His teachings. It is impossible to do both. And accepting Jesus Christ means you accept His teachings and commandments, and obey them. You can't get around that by way of your many religious rituals. It is impossicant! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Padipadi: 7:17pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Clearly you are the rambler here. Christians don't follow pastors. You are the one with no basis to your life. You are existing for nothing. Not knowing if you are a girl or boy. Just mo life. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 7:20pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Padipadi:1. I hate to be the bearer of bad news here for you but that is pretty much what the religion of Christianity is built on, the doctrines and traditions of your pastors and mogs, what Jesus Christ described as sinking sand - Matthew 7 vs 24 - 29 & Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 - aka lies. 2. Stop rambling! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Emmanuel30a: 7:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Kobojunkie, d question is; av u accepted GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AS UR LORD, GOD&PERSONAL SAVIOUR...? As much as u are not expediently or totally-let alone ignorantly out of points, on ur submission about marriage; maybe marriages...? It is expedient, dat u accept or dat u should accept GOD&THE LORD JESUS AS ur LORD, GOD&PERSONAL SAVIOUR... Wat is or wat are d ingredients-wat are d salient ingredients...? Silent or negligents...? I wud rada b silent, dan be negligent...? I wud rada b silent&negligent, or only silent...; dan 2bcom an agent®ent of&4d serpent...? I'm not lenient&won't b lenient,magnicent&benevolent,etc-lyk 50cent...? I asks u 2 repent..., if&wen u avn't... U don't matter,if... |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 7:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:You can not accept Jesus Christ while rejecting His teachings. It is impossible to do both. And accepting Jesus Christ means you accept His teachings and commandments, and obey them. You can't get around that by way of your many religious rituals. It is impossicant! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Emmanuel30a: 7:52pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:So, quoting HIS... OR THE SCRIPTURES,ETC; is useless, if&wen u have not accepted GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, AS ur LORD, GOD&PERSONAL SAVIOUR... By d way, I don't know if u are a male or female... Female, most likely...? Male, most likely...? I sure...or I am sure...I want 2b sure or so sure dat, u are not "ugly"... Can u or av u fought&played rugby at Wembley or...d Wembley...? On assembly or at d assembly...? Assembly of wat, assembly of Emily...,etc...?or assembly of&with Bob Marley,Ron Kenoly, Naira Marley,Bahubali, Jetli,Bruce lee,Mohammed Alli,Dele Alli,etc...? Wat of D LILY OF D VALLEY&IN D VALLEY...? Assembly of&with D LILY...at GALILEA...? Bcom an ally of D LILY...,& u won't need...lyk... |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by inforesource: 7:56pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:What about your mental strength, emotional strength, spiritual strength? |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 7:57pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:You can not accept Jesus Christ while rejecting His teachings. It is impossible to do both. And accepting Jesus Christ means you accept His teachings and commandments, and obey them. You can't get around that by way of your many religious rituals. It is impossicant! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by vannessa7(f): 8:29pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
deavicky: And he asked for divine help in finding the right person which he clearly received |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Padipadi: 8:31pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:The bible passages you quoted aren't related to your post I quoted, the topic of this thread. The junk in your name is affecting you. For clarity cos only God knows the junk you ll type next. These are the meanings of the passages you typed. * Mathew 7:24-29: Jesus was telling people that whoever followed his teachings is like a man that bought better market. I.e: Who builds his house on the rock and the person (you kobojunkie) that didn't follow it are like those that built house on sands (bought fake products). Why are you twisting the bible if you indeed understand it? Can you twist koran like this without having your head being chopped off? * Matthew 15:1 and Mark 7: 1-13: Jesus talked that it's not what we eat that defiles us but what's in our heart cos the Pharisees follow traditions only and can't judge by conviction. However, Christianity of today is by conviction, empathy, true love and selfless care. True Christians are known from their heart not their appearance. You have not made any sense with the reason why you quoted the three verses above so far. What are we discussing here? You quoted someone who told the op about seeking God's face before marriage. You said Jesus mo really command marriage. Heresy filled up your posts. You argued blindly, tried to defend your folly and so on. Ok. Leave Christianity alone if you don't understand it. Cos there's nothing they do that you won't fault cos auto fault finder is inside you. That's madness on your part. Imagine you quoting bible that doesn't relate to the topic. Ori e buru ni! 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 8:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Padipadi:1. I can see clearly now that your language comprehension skills are severely lacking as well. I will leave you with my previous post. Work on your comprehension of what is in fact written and then come back when you have resolved that. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Padipadi: 8:39pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Never in your life quote me again. Do you see how people are tagging you, cos your madness no get cure. Never mention me again! You are full of junks. You need to be scanned and junks released. 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 8:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Padipadi:To get your wish, I suggest you delete your account on nairaland and never show up back here again. While you are at it, delete all your previous posts to rid nairaland of your lot. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Padipadi: 8:56pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Ori e ti buru! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by NimiXchanger(m): 9:08pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Bro just take your time 24 is still young, I did it too at 24 but if I had known I will stay till I clocked 30 years, won’t say I am not enjoying my marriage or am enjoying it, but a lot of things I feel I could have done that the constraint of getting married to early denied me. But it’s your choice and this is my 2cent 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by searchng4love: 9:09pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Oyindidi:Why are you stalking him |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 9:30pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
vannessa7:1. Nowhere in scripture did God say He gives husband or wife to any man. Adam was the first and last of such in scripture. 2. You lot love to cite the story of Rebecca forgetting that nowhere in the story are you in fact told that God answered the prayer said, not by Isaac, but instead by the servant sent to find Isaac a wife. As a matter of fact, what happened can be easily written off a coincidence and not an answer to prayer. Additionally, that same Rachel is the same woman who connived with her trickster son Jacob to trick her Isaac into blessing the wrong son and denying the first and deserving son of his blessings. If we are to indeed state that Rebecca is God's answer then we ought also accept that all the marital problems, divorce and regrets people experience in marriage are also of God. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Oyindidi(f): 9:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
searchng4love:I was using his phone. Searching4love the sadist you still dey nl |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by FriendsAndFans(m): 9:53pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Answering your 3rd question? There are many sinners that God answered their prayers in the Bible. Moses was a murderer, David killed his soldier so that he could take over his wife and many more. He was Being a sinner doesn't mean the most high won't minister unto you. To God every human is the same |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 9:58pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:1. So, you think God is a liar then? 2. So, in your understanding, God lied? Or it is instead that you don't understand any of what you claim instead? According to scripture, David repented of his sin and even made sacrifices to the effect of this in order that God forgive him his sin. So how could he have remained a sinner after that? 3. That is a bloody lie as instead, scripture has it that God only values those who are of the blood of Jacob, this in Jesus Christ as well. |
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