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Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by searchng4love: 10:04pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Oyindidi: Sounds better |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by aurecia: 10:06pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01: |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by aurecia: 10:06pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
[quote author=aurecia post=121665650][/quote .are u serious? |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Oyindidi(f): 10:22pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
searchng4love:You no well |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by kenechukwuori(m): 10:26pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
The decision you are about to take is a good one...you have my approval. If you marry a kind and supportive woman, who won't squander the little resources you have now, you are going to be better off forever. My advice: don't marry for beauty, marry for character and understanding. You will be more responsible if you get a right partner...if you are a christian take quality time to pray for divine direction...the only thing that is not good to do early is death... |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by FriendsAndFans(m): 10:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You have started with all these your questions that seem to be the have ulterior coverings |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 10:46pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:1. The probable reason you feel the way you do about the questions is that you fear that by answering them for yourself you may end up up-ending most of the belief you previously held of God. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Melagros(m): 10:48pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Pk01:Best advice |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Melagros(m): 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:This guy you sabi something well wrll |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 10:56pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kingpele:God will do no such because God is not in your marriage. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 10:58pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
DearGorgeous:God gave you all brains to help you decide what you like from what you don't in marriage. Look around at the millions before you who all claimed that God gave their spouses to them and see how most of that turned out. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by TruthnLight: 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Take this advise from me. 1. If the money you have in your possession is enough for you to leave this country, then start processing your papers Immediately, because once you get married and start raising a family, it will be very difficult for you to achieve it. 2. The most difficult part of getting married is finding the right partner, once you get the right partner, all others will work out well for you. 3. if you must marry, marry an industrious partner or a girl with a good handwork, tertiary education is not enough. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EPIJOE:God instituted marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24 and then cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 making marriage of this world and not of the kingdom of God. So, you should make sure to use your head when choosing for yourself a partner. You are not choosing a partner for God but yourself so know this and you will be well on your way to guiding yourself in the right direction. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by FriendsAndFans(m): 12:14am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What do you hold as a belief of the most high? Let's start from there |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 12:16am On Mar 12, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:1. For one He is who He says He is, not who men say He is. God speaks for Himself— He does not need the lies of men to make Him who He is so I accept what He says as He has said it. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by FriendsAndFans(m): 12:24am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Do you believe in the Bible as the direct inspiration from the most high |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 12:26am On Mar 12, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:1. I only obey what God says to do. And as such, I don't believe in the bible because God never said to anyone in scripture that you should believe in your bible. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Connected1: 1:14am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Konjiboii:I love this comment. Though it's funny 😄 but it's the reality. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by lexy2014: 3:22am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by lexy2014: 3:25am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Konjiboii: how did you come by your conclusions above? are they from your personal experience in marriage? how does marrying a virgin guarantee success in marriage? are you a virgin? how is marriage a scam? how did you arrive at the conclusion that "no man wins in this scheme"? |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:47am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Babatunjo:This is nothing but spiritual bullsheet from you! |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:48am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Gratefulheart2: |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:49am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Teeroyzimma:If you don't want to end up sucking the tits of poverty all of your life, you better abandon any ideas to succumb to hypogamy in marriage. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:51am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Juanmike:This na commonsense for anyone who does not want to end up in the claws of poverty later on in life. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:53am On Mar 12, 2023 |
ArewaTech1:No one is against marriage. But the point is that the chances are 83% that you will end up in the claws of poverty if you marry down in Nigeria today. Look around you at the reality that is Nigeria today. Your 200k salary, by the time you divided it into two for living for 2 or 3 people already puts you below the poverty line. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 3:59am On Mar 12, 2023 |
DisLifeSha:Your problem isn't that you didn't marry at 24 as it runs deeper than you even begin to realize. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 4:01am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Pjoe238:Are you among the less than 17% of Nigerians living above the poverty line or are you comfortable seated with the majority instead? |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by FriendsAndFans(m): 5:45am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:OK no problem. Happy Sunday |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by searchng4love: 6:15am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Oyindidi:This isn't the you I left here... Anyways good morning to you ...won ti lae lohun |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by ArewaTech1(m): 8:55am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I understand your point. But believe me, with 200k net salary monthly one can live comfortably here in the north. (maybe I'm being too optimistic haha) |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Kobojunkie: 8:56am On Mar 12, 2023 |
ArewaTech1:Considering the economy, I am almost certain you are being too optimistic. |
Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Juanmike(m): 11:10am On Mar 12, 2023 |
lexy2014:Wev could do this all day. |
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