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Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by rumenase(m): 10:28pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:that’s what you get when you personalize public property |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by nairamaniac: 10:33pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Samantha124: Then I would arrest you in Real-Life for impersonating my Wife. |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 10:42pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
How would I be impersonating your wife when I'd be using a different identity? And in this world, it's believe that every person has at least 4 lookalikes. nairamaniac: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by nairamaniac: 10:46pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Samantha124:If you were my wife and pretend with another identity on social media. If I find out, I would arrest you and pretent I feel it's the person that impersonating you I'm arresting. If you pretend to be dead, I would pretend to bury you |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by YourGFsnatcher: 10:57pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Samantha124: it was after posting I saw it was long. Naaaa, they were not doing it deliberately. All the girls I broke up with end up getting shattered....like really heartbroken.. they still call till today talking about chance and all...but I don't go back to a broken relationship. I'm glad you are not interested in all that Dubai nonsense. It is very difficult to find people that respect themselves these days both boys and girls. I was raised in a Conservative home where marriage and honor is upheld. Nothing irritates me like how relationships and marriages have been defiled in the name of "Socialisation ". People have lost their value. There's nothing honorable in doing the wrong things for money... money is overrated, peace is underrated. We are not lazy but we are not desperate. Honorable wealth will come our way, the kind that will last generations. I'm glad you have honor and you have respect for yourself and family. Its worth it completely. Hope this one is not long 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 11:18pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol🤣🤣🤣 |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Dshocker(m): 11:19pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Samantha124: Coconut head 😂 |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by BALLOSKI: 3:33am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Testiebobo:Your dad is a great man. |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by MEGAWATCH: 4:50am On Nov 05, 2023 |
MS247: If you are not telling lies, expose him here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by tunjilana: 5:53am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: And the day he catches you nko... Some women and this their believe that this small deceit here and there is sustainable |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Enemiesmasquera: 6:00am On Nov 05, 2023 |
MS247:Your father was a police officer ? No wonder. The trait is clearly manifesting |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Swiftgrp: 7:04am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124:Ah! A Sotho... That 's cool. The Basotho's extend right into Lesotho but the largest number are citizens of South Africa. His father must have worked in the mines back in the day. A |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 7:31am On Nov 05, 2023 |
The day he catches me I'll own up to everything and tell him that I wouldn't have joined social media secretly only if he didn't forbid it. I'll turn the tables and blame him for it... tunjilana: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Kanixt(m): 7:51am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124:It's a gradual process.... Before we know we are loss. Disobey your good husband protective advice, I know one day it will backfire. |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 7:53am On Nov 05, 2023 |
But you could be right because I've also noticed that nowadays it's as if my man always knows when I'm up to no good... If I easily agree to something that I normally wouldn't, he'd make sure to keep a close eye on me, even when I'm just being genuine... But on the other hand, maybe I'm just saying all these things about Dubai because my family always made sure that I was well taken cared of and I never found myself in a situation where I'd be looking for financial assistance outside... Because desperation can sometimes push a person to the limits. But I'm not gonna lie, right now the name Dubai still traumatizes me, it's a beautiful city, no doubt, but the stories that I've heard are still stuck in my head. YourGFsnatcher: 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 8:00am On Nov 05, 2023 |
The funny thing about the whole thing is that you're the one who's still going to suffer the consequences of getting me arrested. You'll still come and pay for my bail and if you don't have a family legal aid, then you'll have to pay a lawyer from your own pocket because I'll be stuck in a police cell at that time... Unless you eventually decide to drop the charges after feeling that I've learned my lesson... nairamaniac: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 8:05am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Ah! Comrade, out of everything you just had to suspect that his father was a Zama Zama?😂😂😂 This got me laughing... Swiftgrp: 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by YourGFsnatcher: 8:09am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: You see your man is a great man. We can feel it. Not because you want to leave, but that's how it is. Tue connection is real. That's why breakups hurt. Your family is a dope one. Growing up, if my dad catch us begging? All these primary school begging during break,...you will know how far... he said that's how it starts...when you are always putting eye on someone's things...u ll not learn to be contented with what you have. And praise the Lord, we have never lacked anything till now. Things are just moving well for us with just little effort. I don't even know how I got to the UN with no stress and without anybody. That Dubai get question mark...and stereotype exists for a reason...stay cool 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 8:11am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Few times he has advised me, I didn't listen and it backfired... I'd still go to him for help... He'd scold me, but still come to my rescue anyways and we'll late have some makeup sex afterwards... Kanixt: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Flamemignon1(m): 8:20am On Nov 05, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1:You actually brought up the cheating dynamic first with your original comment and based on the comment section, it's what everyone alluded it to |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by bukatyne(f): 8:32am On Nov 05, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Ema binu sir. |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by bukatyne(f): 8:32am On Nov 05, 2023 |
pocohantas: It is well with them and their women. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by BalogunIdowu(m): 8:33am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: Samantha Samantha Samantha, so gbọ mí... I hope it won't turn out like that basket ballers wife that trended recently |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 8:51am On Nov 05, 2023 |
What did she do? BalogunIdowu: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by od501: 8:53am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Testiebobo: Your dad is a wise man |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by tunjilana: 8:55am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: Well, You now the man u marry or want to marry....but it doesnt work that way for all men. And even if he is lie that, after 2 or 3 emotional blackmail, the marriage wont be same again, he will begin to care less about genuine concerns from you, cos to him, it will all b blackmail then u go say, he has changed |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Well, it would still be his fault either way. And I wouldn't be emotionally blackmailing him, but I'd be telling him the bitter truth, had he not forbid me from having social media, I wouldn't have to join it in secret and if he ends the relationship because of a mere social media, It'd only shows that he never loved and cared about my feelings.. I would've escaped a potential control freak... If he's gonna starts acting like a victim, then that's his problem... And if he starts caring less about me, that's fine, I'll also mind my business and act like he's not around. If there's one thing I'm good at, it's giving silent treatment and acting like the person doesn't exist even if we're under the same roof... tunjilana: 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by nairamaniac: 9:45am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: But on a real; if my wife adjusts her identity on social media without notification, I wd perceive cheating-tendencies and intentions all over it. I mean, why wd she go that far? Also there are some fair reasons due to need for privacies why some spouses wdnt subject themselves to social media. It may come with their kind of jobs, personalities and past experiences. |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I'd also be suspecting some cheating tendencies from you by forbidding me from joining social media when you're on that same social media. The only thing most of you men know is playing victims by falsely accusing your wives of cheating after you started something you can't finish... You can't dig a hole for yourself and start blaming me when fall inside of it. And if we're gonna talk about privacy, then I'd also expect him to delete his social media accounts and live a private life. nairamaniac: |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by nairamaniac: 11:29am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Samantha124: That why I added "if there are fair reasons". However such measures shouldn't be instilled forcefully. Naturally, a spouse has an independent freedom towards social media. But if a fair reason come on board, for a general greater good, one party can advice both partners to abstain from social media. Linda Ikeji and her baby daddy comes to mind. From her story back then, one of the reasons the baby daddy didn't go ahead with the marriage is due to his kind of job having a requirement for him to be completely descreet and dark. That he handles the business dealings of some powerful oil magnates. She being a social media house would expose him and at the end expose his clients. Marriage is about weighing plus and minus. But if it's for a shallow reason that wants to seem like bullying/oppression I wdnt overblame the wife for going rogue. But 2 wrongs don't make a right. I can't stand bullies. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by nairamaniac: 11:45am On Nov 05, 2023 |
BalogunIdowu: Pls what basketball player are you referring to? Larsa Pippen? Or which one? |
Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
That man just didn't love Linda. I mean you can still get married to a celebrity and choose to stay off the spotlight and not even attend any public events with your spouse. Some celebrities have been married for years, but no one knows their spouses... Only their families and close friends do. nairamaniac: |
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