A cheat and a lair. Tell your brother to run or he will regret marrying such a girl..

Tynaclem1:


There is absolutely no attribute to look for here, she lacks respect and manners and this was NOT a mistake.

She even said it's not a big deal, that's just pride and being unremorseful. If she truly loves him she would never disrespect him that way. She will not even compare an Instagram model to her fiance, she will cherish him and hold him in high esteem.

The right thing to do here is part ways and look for a lady who is ready to marry because that girl clearly isn't.

Why not divorce your bf and lemme marry you ehn? You have a good head on your shoulders!!!

Tomorrow she will end up as s single mom. Because of lips.

luminouz:

Why not divorce your bf and lemme marry you ehn? You have a good head on your shoulders!!!

🤣🤣🤣🤣

It's a small world so the 'not knowing him' is a matter of time. On twitter, a lady was shaming a guy because she aired him in his DM when another guy shamed the lady because he also aired her. E fit be your fiancée tomorrow o 🌚

Why buy the cow if another will be getting the milk for free? 😏

I know we have all normalized calling everything red flag. Even if that thing doesn't scream red flag. We just look for excuse and call it red flag.

Now back to that text

Thats a f*cking red flag.. Decision is urs.. Most of those so called insta-models are homos.

Ur bro will wanna watch his back all thru his married life with that girl or even with anoda girl for that matter.

So my advice is.
Scratch that.

I no get advice. I just come here to test my skills of writing.

Good luck 2him

dkidd:
I'm waiting for the "he's insecure" crew to come and defend their member... Oga no flag is as redder than this. She even went ahead to say its not a big deal. Another slap ontop the flag. Such disrespect!!! Bro this na red blanket ooo !!!

When a woman wants to manipulate you to be stupid or do their bidding

He's insecure
He's not a real man
He's not a strong man

luminouz:


So to you those attributes I mentioned in these two girls are PERFECT ATTRIBUTES? Abi you didn't read my story well ni?

As for your advice, it's bullshiiit. When there is no integrity or morals in a woman, which other mumu characteristics she fit get again biko? If she loves him, she won't make such disrespectful statements and if she is well mannered, SHE WILL MUDAFUCKING REFRAIN FROM TEXTING A STANGER LUSTING FOR HIS KISS!!

Jesus!!! That's why I hate engaging some of y'all women on this forum. Your emotions becloud logic and makes it seem as if una no go school.

Favvy or Fatai...just leave me alone biko...

She dey make justification on behalf of the lady because she'll definitely do the same if she come across such dude.

Anyways attraction has it own powers so no too blame the ladies.

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm, so you are still waiting for Miss. Perfect?

As for the Op, my advice is that your brother should think of the attributes of this lady. Does she have good characteristics? If she loves him, is well mannered, etc, then he can forgive her and marry her. If she doesn't possess other good attributes, then he can let go. There is no perfect human and mistakes happen.

Is this sarcasm or what??
I don't get it....Why is that u women like to advise other people's sons badly....but if it's ur own son or brother ..u always look out for their welfare....

How can a u advise a man to marry a woman woman lusting after other men even a few days to marriage.... I mean is cheating and not having proper boundaries not the deal breaker for you women....so since when did being a good man and a community penîs go together for u "

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips and feels like kissing him.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

He should just cut his losses this early cos disaster is what's coming. .. God just revealed to him that she isn't his wife ....

Chibuzoripob:
Nah Blue flag

haha!!

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm, so you are still waiting for Miss. Perfect?

As for the Op, my advice is that your brother should think of the attributes of this lady. Does she have good characteristics? If she loves him, is well mannered, etc, then he can forgive her and marry her. If she doesn't possess other good attributes, then he can let go. There is no perfect human and mistakes happen.

U just posted total crap

orohbirodeysmel:


Omo you be my type...2 seconds I don send you away...
In relationships today na we dey spend the money, so na who pays the pipper dictates the tune. You no fit dey chop my money and you go dey disrespect me or cross the boundaries...I go withdraw my aid as United States of America dey do. If you go on the wrong side they go withdraw their aid and their troops 😎

withdraw your aid as the usa dey do

yinkeys:

I hate the iron fists style of leadership because no one is perfect but I’ve observed if you let most women to feel totally free with you and give them power they’d always abuse it, disrespect you, distort the natural order of families in the universe (God - Man - Woman - Children) and destroy the family union long term
No wonder Arab men don’t take BS from their women
Look at how gynocentric led America is leading to degeneracy, baby mamas crisis all over and drug addictions in large numbers
Most of my North American acquaintances are battling with one hard drug addiction or the other
Our society is gradually copying the west
One has to be firm and very strict with their woman
There’s a saying; women are children, get coddled by the society and don’t really see the world for what it is (dangerous, difficult and harsh)
A lot of them live in Disney fairy world
Women don’t have to self improve and develop mentally to start/keep a family compared to men
So one has to be strict by saving them from themselves
When left to their own tools, they destroy everything (societies in particular)
Better take charge of your life before you get used like the Eve and Delilah story
Choose smart decisions over feelings
There’s so much study on this online already
When you’re not a monster but sometimes must dictate with iron fists
End that relationship, that girl wants to continue with who.redom else you’d regret it long term
The girl doesn’t respect him & is showing signs of a chronic manipulator
Until he gets HIV
Don’t invest in rubbish pump and dump materials
There are good women but you’d have to search thoroughly
Exceptions don’t make the rule
@Mysteriousworld

💯

orohbirodeysmel:


Omo you be my type...2 seconds I don send you away...
In relationships today na we dey spend the money, so na who pays the pipper dictates the tune. You no fit dey chop my money and you go dey disrespect me or cross the boundaries...I go withdraw my aid as United States of America dey do. If you go on the wrong side they go withdraw their aid and their troops 😎

As per USAID, wetin be your name? 😂🤣

DesChyko:
It's a small world so the 'not knowing him' is a matter of time. On twitter, a lady was shaming a guy because she aired him in his DM when another guy shamed the lady because he also aired her. E fit be your fiancée tomorrow o 🌚

Why buy the cow if another will be getting the milk for free? 😏

😣

luminouz:

Naso baba. That girl was wrong and it's so glaring. The fact that she sees no big deal on it is the scariest. I don't mind if she admires another guy as a fine boy but to actively message and lustfully wish for his kisses? Naaaahhhh nigga! I'm done.

Na here the f**k up full.

For someone who should be actively planning her wedding, that’s a no-no.

Op you or your brother marriage don otilo


Make him start to find new relationship for 2024


This one wey everybody relationship just dey crash, abeg I wan find serious partner next year, make nobody come dey drag babe with me, I no get joy oh

luminouz:

Only a mumu will go ahead with the wedding. I will call it off right there and then

You lots don't know women. Any woman who values her integrity will never say "she feels like kissing a random Instagram model'. She doesn't respect her fiance and the fact that she says it's not a big deal...MEANS IT'S A MUDAFUCKING BIG FUCKING DEAL!!! 😡😡😡

Jesus...I broke up with a girl who went to visit her toaster.... They didn't have sex but the fact that she went anyways was enough. Women don't cheat physically without first cheating emotionally. Once you tolerate that, it's downhill from there. There was another girl of EKSU who claimed to love me but at the talking stage, she has a male bestie who according to her sleeps in her room, because she can't sleep alone. She said she can't let him go. I flung her out of my house. She came back saying she has changed but I slammed my door in her face.

N.B: the Lesson is simple. Never tolerate any disrespect from any woman. It always goes downhill from there.

You 100% correct, the day a man even admire my wife's beauty on whatsapp, without she telling the man to stop, she collect slap that sent her to the ground, and I went for the idiot, but he was lucky

Kys because you suck your brother's covk

johnog4sure:
You 100% correct, the day a man even admire my wife's beauty on whatsapp, without she telling the man to stop, she collect slap that sent her to the ground, and I went for the idiot, but he was lucky

you tear am slap.. haba

That's a ho!

TheFinesseKid:
you tear am slap.. haba

Yes na, I told her she is already cheating emotionally, I cant tolerate that, if they admire you tell them you are married, if they worry, I will go haunt them down simple!

Call it off.
This is not about hating women or gender war. It is simply about examining an individual case purely on its own merit.
Most ladies in the present day want the stability of marriage, yet want to still be able to act on their outside sexual cravings for variety.
That is why they fight tooth and nail to blackmail you with the "its not a big deal", "you're insecure" bullshyyyt.
Guys don't fall for it!

Call it off. Hook up still dey her eyeCall it off. Hook up still dey her eye...

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips, so tempting.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

Its not a big deal, girls that flirts easily are the hardest to lay.

I have many female friends as a guy, I'm speaking from experience.

Infact, a girl that wouldn't argue when you invite her to your place is the hardest to lay, sometimes you fit vex pursue her for mid night make she dey go her house.

But you see most of those ones that pretends?
Just persuade your way they will succumb.

Some girls flirts easily, but they are very hard to get.

johnog4sure:
Yes na, I told her she is already cheating emotionally, I cant tolerate that, if they admire you tell them you are married, if they worry, I will go haunt them down simple!

guy you no get joy o

Marry her but always fvck her with condom 😂😂😂😆😆

She should not have sent it to him.

Why did she? To what effect and for what reason?


I honestly don't know whether to term it a red flag or stupid on her part.

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips, so tempting.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

It is a blue flag, there are no issues.

A VERY BIG RED ABOMINATION FLAG!!!

Na street she still dey...leave her for street...

Na who them catch be thief.
If 98% of intending couples check each other's phones or poke their noses into their partners privacy, 98% of soon to be married will be canceled.