Successlane:
The man with all these qualities will not just for the take of any woman.

He too will have specs,

It all now depends on : - if you fit into his

This is what they don't want to hear.

Just because they have a pussy, and a pair of boobs, such men should want them without question.


Grandiose delusions.

ravensckar:
*WHAT A NAIJA GUY WANTS IN A LADY*

1- Faithfulness i.e not fvcking around.

2- Be financially independent such that she can pay her own bills.

3- Peace of mind.

However, an average Naija lady can't offer any single thing on that list. Yeye people with entitled mentality.

LMAO! 🤣🤣

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Because noone in this world is perfect

Honestey:
Yes it's hard because most of them are mutually exclusive. You expect same tall , handsome man with 6 packs and doing well financially not to womanize? If he doesn't, he will always get raped by your friends. Abi it's only because of only you God created good things?

GreatChizzy:


Though it is not as hard as to find a 25 years and above virgin lady. I don't smoke, drink nor womanize.

They will tell you "virginity is not character"

addictiv:
There are so many men that easily meet these requirements, they question is why will they want to be with someone like you?

Most of these men are in the 1% and they re usually attracted to women also in the 1%.

Believe me if you re in this category you will get tired of seeing men like this.

So the question is what does a 1% woman look like?

And do you have the qualities that women in that category possess?

They'll dodge the question(s) like a plague.

ojonugba2014:
I have all this qualities .

Although I never build my house finish.

One thing I know for sure is " any guy with those qualities will never settle with some Random 9ja girl who has nothing to offer. I am an example of those guys I am talking about. I don't do any of those things listed there.

I listens to musics a lot though.

My girlfriend is a virgin, industrious ND beautiful both physical ,front ND back.

But the only issue I have with her is" entitlement mentality " I was made before we met, so why feeling entitled.?

@ bolded:

Even if you're made, she will feel entitled if she has invested financially or emotionally into the relationship.


These should be your own target.

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

May be na the kind men wet surround you dey tell you based on their own reflection...

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

It's easy... If you can mould.... Jet some clay and mould to your taste.

BRATISLAVA:

Lol.

You want them to start frothing and attacking everything about women, don't you?

You know quite well the forum has the dregs of society brandishing themselves as men. It won't be a nice thread.

Lol😂 we have few good ones here, trust me, mostly married though plus that list is pretty basic, nothing out of the ordinary.

Go to heaven and look for him.....

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

There are some men out there who don't do all this. Believe me

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

The fact that I checked 14 of those boxes is scary to me.

princefunm:


I don't drink
I don't smoke
I don't womanize
I don't gamble
I don't do drugs

.....oya talk another one.

The truth is these guys are out there. They are all around you.

Girls with this kind of spec usually don't have the brains to hang around the right circle. (Not referring to you ooooo...I come in peace ooo)

They only hang around the circle of men who are looking for toys and play things that they will dump into the garbage when they are done

@ bolded: LMAO! 🤣🤣


Including the moniker you quoted, she hangs around sagging jeans-dirty boxers-indian hemp smokers, but looking to attract someone like Kaka.

Just one quality that men are asking women for is even harder than what you listed up there...which is !


SENSE!

DO YOU HAVE SENSE?

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

See as her writing fine😍😍😍😍😍😍

Na you Dey waste time… very simple.

One bag of cement
Sand
Small gravels for the head region.
You fit paint am any color.

Your perfect man is ready

Why pay your bills? You no get hand pay your own bills? Six pack? You sef get 6 pack? Small house!!!! etc Rubbish!!!

Girls tend to stick to guys who maltreat them!

If you see with all those qualities do deserve him....
Are you a virgin not pussy that more than 20men have used
Are you a working class lady not only looking for him to buy everything for u
Are you figure 8 in shape not looking like bag of akpu or slim like HIV patients

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

any man that smoke and /or drinks is also womanizing. It goes Hand in hands

alizma:

Hian, this is not difficult Na, I know someone with those qualities, the guy just pass my side some minutes ago, you can exercise patience a little, he will be passing again in 2052.
But what he doesn't like is people that can't be patient with his movement schedule.

LMAO! 🤣🤣

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Na only you like better thing. Any man that has these qualities is probably already married or at the least has a babe. And if he doesn't womanise he won't look twice at you.

I have all these qualities but number 7? Am only fit but no six packs

ASAHWO WEY GET FEATHER

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

I am almost everything on the list. The only draw back is the 6 pack aspect. Mine is like one Pack.

Ballzproblem2:
why is difficult to find these qualities in a woman:



independent


virgin.


accept that men are polygamous in nature.



beautiful.



have front and back.


is too much to ask?

shai!

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

if don't do any of the above he will be a sadist,which one do you want

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

I got all those qualities

So man should posess all these quality for a broke wretched disvirginated hookup slowpoke just because of her stinking p*ssy?
Tirrrrrrr.....

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Because your dad doesn't have such qualities also

GreatAchiever1:


There are lots of guys who are none of the above but the question is, will you find them attractive? are you ready to help them build?

Keep waiting for a woman to help you build you here, Lol... better dey marry rich monkey than build shit!, reason why as a man when you're doing fine always remember your woman and most people loitering around are there because you're wealthy, enjoy yourself and your sweat to the fullest, don't let anyone no matter who they are manipulate or blackmail you!, If you like Jonse e go clear for your eyes later!, it's mean and hard world for a man... so when you soften it for yourself, you deserve every right to enjoy it!!!