op permit me 2 ask wer is ur ex from cuz is vry rare 4 any tribe be it majority or miniority dat will reject an akwa ibom gal 4 a daughter inlaw nt bcus of 4rm akwa ibom bt i hv my reasons n i travel alot so hv seen our daughter scattered all over nigeria in d name of marriage. who no wan chop beta meal. secondly is nt abt d guyz alone even d ladies r guilty of dat personal hygiene has ntin 2 do wit gender. imagine a gal wearin sleeve less 2 sch n her pit is nt shaved or sum wearin one bra 4 months witout washin. hook up wit d right guy n nt humble n low self esteem fellaz. personal i hv doch 4 2 blind dat cuz of u knw it all.....
it pained me bt is wat u went tro dat is y i 4gave u.

irishCream:
Hello Romancelanders I want to narrate my experience with online dating.

Have always been sceptical about online dating but decided to give it a try after one year break of dating. I opted out of my previous affair cos my ex family were against him marrying from my tribe so had to end the shiiit and give myself a break since he was acting so indecisive about the whole thing. Now my experience...

I am one of the few nairaland babes that do respond to pm especially if your contribution to this forum has been matured and reasonable irrespective of the section you frequent.
So of all the pms I do have i sifter and respond to few but so far I'm not impressed with the calibre of men searching online.

After taking risk to exchange my contact and get to meet (in chaperone oh) few of them(about 3) I find out that most men searching online has something terrible about them that makes ladies turn them down in real life that's why they run to online, it either they are unkempt, rass or not presentable, some can't even talk like a real man, they are either too weak or timid in real life, no class no nothing.

Forget all those edited pictures used as dp and the likes most of them in real life are dirty!!!
How can a grown up guy don't know how to clean up and look neat, I mean why must your personal hygiene be zero You're meeting someone for the first time and your mouth oozes, who does that Or is that also attributed to poverty? I have male cousins that earn less than 50k in a month but they still look neat and presentable.

Is there someone that has experienced same be it with male or female or am I alone in this

@ OP, you messed everything up at the bolded I have male cousins that earn less than 50k in a month but they still look neat and presentable. .. With the current Nigeria situation, 50k is not token money, so that means your cousin is a big boy on his own.

About the topic, not all guys. Same goes for ladies

My opinion be like shame on such guys, anyways I don't date online even dating offline babes I do shine my eyes, that's why I always find diffifult to woo any girl I met on first date, do watch over and over maybe she fit in my level

irishCream:
Hello Romancelanders I want to narrate my experience with online dating.

Have always been sceptical about online dating but decided to give it a try after one year break of dating. I opted out of my previous affair cos my ex family were against him marrying from my tribe so had to end the shiiit and give myself a break since he was acting so indecisive about the whole thing. Now my experience...

I am one of the few nairaland babes that do respond to pm especially if your contribution to this forum has been matured and reasonable irrespective of the section you frequent.
So of all the pms I do have i sifter and respond to few but so far I'm not impressed with the calibre of men searching online.

After taking risk to exchange my contact and get to meet (in chaperone oh) few of them(about 3) I find out that most men searching online has something terrible about them that makes ladies turn them down in real life that's why they run to online, it either they are unkempt, rass or not presentable, some can't even talk like a real man, they are either too weak or timid in real life, no class no nothing.

Forget all those edited pictures used as dp and the likes most of them in real life are dirty!!!
How can a grown up guy don't know how to clean up and look neat, I mean why must your personal hygiene be zero You're meeting someone for the first time and your mouth oozes, who does that Or is that also attributed to poverty? I have male cousins that earn less than 50k in a month but they still look neat and presentable.

Is there someone that has experienced same be it with male or female or am I alone in this

I find the fact that you directed your hits at those you met and you emphasized the fact that they're dirty. While this may be true, I believe that it would have been way better if you kept it to yourself because you have succeeded in giving yourself an unpleasant face. Sometimes, our ability of good judgement is not to be necessarily aired but rather, in observing and studying while weighing the odds.

Yes, timidity is a factor for most males but some section of the male folks would as well prefer the real deal to the online thing. Albeit, I believe the problem is

I am one of the few nairaland babes that do respond to pm especially if your contribution to this forum has been matured and reasonable irrespective of the section you frequent.
So of all the pms I do have i sifter and respond to few but so far I'm not impressed with the calibre of men searching online.

You need not respond to several PMs because I've come to discover that people's post are determined by their attitude. That a sulky guy decides to post something nice does not mean he'll remain nice. I believe online datings are even more stressful and more demanding, because impressing the other person becomes the goal rather than being you.

Wuuworld:
I just discovered why ur Ex G family said he will not marry u....The wife material in u is not even enough to sew handkerchief....my dear,itz not about ur tribe,itz about the content of ur character....u need to upgrade

correct!!!

irishCream:


I never said I'm perfect but anyone with zero personal hygiene is a big turn off irrespective of the good character, remember the saying "cleanliness is next to godliness"

so, U're the god in godliness? ...

Your search might end with me... Don't pm me yet...Lemme finish with Geneveive

#i inspire me, I amuse myself

One man's food is another's poison. I can access u and say u are dirty and others. We don't have proofs that what u are saying is true

irishCream:
Hello Romancelanders I want to narrate my experience with online dating.

Have always been sceptical about online dating but decided to give it a try after one year break of dating. I opted out of my previous affair cos my ex family were against him marrying from my tribe so had to end the shiiit and give myself a break since he was acting so indecisive about the whole thing. Now my experience...

I am one of the few nairaland babes that do respond to pm especially if your contribution to this forum has been matured and reasonable irrespective of the section you frequent.
So of all the pms I do have i sifter and respond to few but so far I'm not impressed with the calibre of men searching online.

After taking risk to exchange my contact and get to meet (in chaperone oh) few of them(about 3) I find out that most men searching online has something terrible about them that makes ladies turn them down in real life that's why they run to online, it either they are unkempt, rass or not presentable, some can't even talk like a real man, they are either too weak or timid in real life, no class no nothing.

Forget all those edited pictures used as dp and the likes most of them in real life are dirty!!!
How can a grown up guy don't know how to clean up and look neat, I mean why must your personal hygiene be zero You're meeting someone for the first time and your mouth oozes, who does that Or is that also attributed to poverty? I have male cousins that earn less than 50k in a month but they still look neat and presentable.

Is there someone that has experienced same be it with male or female or am I alone in this

op i agree with u and same applies to women who dey search only online.Its either dem too dey overweight or dey are too old so in other to hook up with a younger man dey post pixs dey took 30 yrs ago

coolest01:
I was hoping you would tell me

You hoped wrong

@irishCream,
Well said, but Putting this as a satire better still not mentioning names, could earn you lots of respect from silent observers. -Ideology.


If they had met your standard probably you won't have told us. When it happened we were not aware.

Vessi:
And if you are as good as you claim to be you would be getting better suitors offline than online.

Lobatan

lefulefu:

op i agree with u and same applies to women who dey search only online.Its either dem too dey overweight or dey are too old so in other to hook up with a younger man dey post pixs dey took 30 yrs ago

Guess you've jam dem also

@irishCream, loving your moniker.

Do you drink Baileys?

I guess some girls are just unlucky to keep meeting such guys.

UchihaMadara:
@irishCream, loving your moniker.

Do you drink Baileys?

Yep, it my best!

irishCream:


Yep, it my best!

Nice!

I love the taste and yours as well.

UchihaMadara:


Nice!

I love the taste and yours as well.

Haba, you don taste her before

I can endure many things, but not odour of anykind. I don't know which is worse between mouth odour and body odour...

Ok

edozie04:
some guys will be forming james bond online and be mr ibu in real life

irishCream:
Hello Romancelanders I want to narrate my experience with online dating.

Have always been sceptical about online dating but decided to give it a try after a one year break of dating. I opted out of my previous affair because my ex's family was against him marrying from my tribe so had to end the shiiit, and i gave myself a break since he was acting so indecisive about the whole thing. Now my experience...

I am one of the few nairaland babes that do respond to pm especially if your contribution to this forum has been matured and reasonable irrespective of the section you frequent.

So of all the pms I do have, I sieve and respond to few but so far I'm not impressed with the calibre of men searching online.

After taking risk to exchange my contact and get to meet (in chaperone oh) few of them,about 3, I found out that most men searching online has something terrible about them that makes ladies turn them down in real life that's why they run to online; it is either they are unkempt, razz or not presentable. Some can't even talk like a real man, they are either too weak or timid in real life, no class no nothing.

Forget all those edited pictures used as dp and the likes most of them in real life are dirty!!!

How can a grown up guy don't know how to clean up and look neat. I mean why must your personal hygiene be zero You're meeting someone for the first time and your mouth oozes. I mean, who does that Or is that also attributed to poverty?

I have male cousins that earn less than 50k in a month but they still look neat and presentable.

Is there someone that has experienced the same, be it with male or female?

Or am I alone in this

you are so on point...
Most of them are very stingy

Vessi:
And if you are as good as you claim to be you would be getting better suitors offline than online.

u just said the truth bro

this na real irishcream, come lemme take you out on a boat ride jare, cos I know what you wrote is false.

This just funny! what will i be looking for online, when i can get the real thing in real life?

This is actually putting yourself through risks!

That's what happens when you dump real guys for whatchamacallit. Asides from sounding kinda irritating, you also came online to discuss/report to people behind computers, that's so childish as f^ck. Good luck in your next try tho.

;DChoi! Choi!! This is one cracked me up. Dude! U dey smoke I swear, I don laff tire. Kai! U get mouth. I pity any girlwey go wan fall ur hand.....mehn! U dey go frontal on the offensive!

Wuuworld:
I just discovered why ur Ex G family said he will not marry u....The wife material in u is not even enough to sew handkerchief....my dear,itz not about ur tribe,itz about the content of ur character....u need to upgrade