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Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Ishilove: Punny odour is the worst. 9 Likes |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by HFOG(f): 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Me is just of the opinion that finding a subtle way to inform those concerned would have been a lot better than this. Not like I'm comfortable with poor personal hygiene but did she really have to broadcast this? Really? What's the goal? How on earth wouldn't those involved feel embarrassed and maybe bitter? She might have even mentioned the persons she met to one or two persons here. I think telling them personally and privately would have been more effective and less controversial. Just my thoughts... Cc IrishCream 3 Likes |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Classicalmusic: 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:Haha. I'm so glad that you're disappointed in him. You can't meet guys like us because you're a mediocre. I wish I could give you some tips on how to get a nice guy here but I can't. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I'm trying to give your logic a pass, but it refuses to pass by itself, even with my nudge and urging. How do you mean it does NOT matter AT ALL? Better explanation required, cos there's no logic there. If you find a guy unattractive, it does matter how he also finds you. You might intend to not follow through with the relationship, and he might have the exact same intentions. I have met ladies who I could perceive didn't agree with some of my views (in a conversation, that is) from the start. And I also didn't agree with their own views. Right there and then, it didn't even matter to me whether we'll continue discussing. Cos I could already see myself not getting along with them. In some other instances, I have in fact completely stopped communicating with them when I saw the differences in views. It didn't matter if they had exact same intentions. Extend the same to perception of physical qualities or attributes and the guy might as well have given up long before the lady did. Trust me, some ladies who claim posh are in fact nothing but disgusting underneath. Back to the topic, is online dating risky? Yes, it is.Is online dating risky? I would say even riskier. You don't see the person to start with, and there's no reason you should encourage liking him or her. If anything, the approach she took is much better. They met each other and things decided itself from there. At that moment, it stopped being online dating. Do all guys who search for women online, have no chance in real life? No, but many.Of course, it's true. I agree. Because it is.Thought as much |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
HFOG: Subtle does not work with men but I agree with the rest and I hope that she has not exposed anyone. 2 Likes |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Classicalmusic: 9:20pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:Haha. I'm so glad that you're disappointed in him. You can't meet guys like us because you're a mediocre. I wish I could give you some tips on how to get a nice guy here but I can't. I haven't met anyone on Nairaland though. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by duni04(m): 9:23pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Ishilove:Nah female facial hair is disgusting! |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by airex(m): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:Is he one of d guys? |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by maxdozie(m): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:U want a Clean man... An already Made man... Very Wealthy I pity You.. Dats why 40% of our 9ja girls dont get married ....... Mrs Op why not Support 1 of dem... show dem how to be Clean... Hmmm... Join in dia struggle and hustle... Give it a try 1 Like |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
goofyone: If I find a guy unattractive for one reason or another, then it does not matter to me what he thinks of me. Whether he thinks that I am beautiful or ugly, cute or disgusting is absolutely irrelevant. And she has not opened the thread to find out what the guys thought of her but to find out if other people had similar experience with online dating. 1 Like |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by tintingz(m): 9:26pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
ireneony:and you are?? |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by HFOG(f): 9:27pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Oh, thanks. What I meant by 'subtle' was 'gentle', 'careful' etc not to bruise their egos. I thought men feed on respect. Pls educate me |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:29pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Lol they ain't all that bad! The ones I have met....are/ were super good looking....except just few |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by passionate88: 9:30pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
lurex2rhyme:It's not only about "better meals". I have a friend that married an Akwa Ibom girl, she's from Oron, when they were dating, she'd come to his house, sweep, wash cloths, cook, phock the guy head scatter... My friend's brother will always tell him "this girl na beta girl o, she go make u happy if u marry her"... They got married in 2012, the guy has grown grey hair, I'm now fatter than him, he rarely sleeps at home, she snores like a rhino, she hardly sweeps the house, expects him to bath the kids while she's still in bed, buys breakfast from mama put... My mom's friend that's from Akwa Ibom told me that even the guys from that girl's village hardly marry from there... This thing called marriage is just useless in this modern time.. People pretend just to get married after that they change. God will help us o, even though we don't attend Church/Mosque regularly 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Yes, it doesn't matter to you. It also doesn't matter to him, if he thinks along the same line. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by stainlex(m): 9:31pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Your mailbox just died!!! RIP Mailbox |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by tintingz(m): 9:31pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
[size=14pt]OP said the online guys she met are dirty and stinky.. who knows they might be acting "coming to America" movie. Don't send the right man away[/size] |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by yungcyrus(m): 9:31pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Vessi:God bless you.....if she is presentable why is she going for online hooking Well am glad I just read d diaries of a lonely ugly gurl. 1 Like |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
goofyone: It doesn't matter that it doesn't matter. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
edozie04: Lolzzz... I am too risk averse to try online dating.. make we finish the offline own 1st. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by UnimkeAk(m): 9:34pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream: In this country? Unkempt , razz and unpresentable guys? With the way everybody is packaging this days? |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Park go left abeg |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:How much do you make? Mature girl...those guys were not impressed too. You think we are impressed with ur wigs and painting? We just want to puuuu. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Classicalmusic: 9:35pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
BecaciaBarbie:Because you knew what you really want. The OP sounds like one of those losers' girls |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
goofyone: Does it matter that it doesn't matter? |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by AdeniyiA(m): 9:36pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
tintingz:a gold digger ... |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Tallesty1(m): 9:37pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:SMH |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Tallesty1(m): 9:38pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
irishCream:So because you met 1, 2 or maybe 3 guys from nland that didn't meet your taste you automatically conclude that millions of guys that are searching for love online av zero personal hygiene Check the attachment in this post. No guy, not even a barrow pusher that is meeting a bae for the first time will appear the way you described them here. Not one. They would rather borrow from friends than fall their own hands. 3 Likes
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Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I no sabi English. This one don confuse me finally I really don't think it matters, I think... |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by AdeniyiA(m): 9:40pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Ariel20:Chu! you sure say the 'market' go still remain, ? |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Me too, cool and classy guys. Maybe she wants to hit a nerve. |
Re: My Online Dating Experience. by smartigo: 9:41pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Nothing is bad having preferences n what you can't tolerate. But let ask ourselves some salient questions. What if that's the only or one of the few turn offs, can't you help? If she/he is a sibling, do you do away with them. Coming online sharing this hasn't helped if you didn't at least let them know even if you won't date them. My only problem is how to tell them without hurting their feelings. I have a fren, she has it but she is a good n honest person. Do I stop being her fren becos of that? Someone with odour because of bad hygiene can be addressed than someone with terrible stretch marks; it is about choices and what we can live with. The truth is,learn to convey ur opinion without hurting people's ego. |
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