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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by faceless04: 10:15am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Tashaamania: No offence taken |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:15am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Daresh: Certifiably insane! Someone that's pretty much stalking her and using threats of violence to keep her with him is "100% mentally stable"? The OP must be in denial. If you read about someone going on a murderous shooting spree and it makes you think your bf can do the same, something is seriously wrong somewhere. Once the OP is ready to truthfully examine why she thought of her bf, she'll see why she needs to run, like yesterday. By the way, the guy is probably married with kids somewhere like others have said. 4 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by chibarbie(f): 10:17am On Feb 03, 2015 |
10 years Now dats sth I cnt do |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by ethylene: 10:18am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04:And by now, you must be close to thirty. wow! u must rilly be a patient girl ooh, keep on rolling with that guy until ur parents Put ur name on OLX. 3 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by bunchyproject(m): 10:22am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Can I see a picture of both of you? |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:23am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: You are obviously in denial my dear young woman!!! This man . . . 1. Cheats on you . . 2. Doesn't respect you enough to make an honest woman out of you . . 3. Is insinuating you become a baby mama . . . 4. Has no regards for your parents and family by wanting to keep 'drinking' the milk without 'buying the cow' . . 5. Threatens your life and calls you 20x a day . . And you still call him 100% mentally stable. I can't believe you think he really doesn't want to get married. Leave him for 2 months and he will become engaged . . I promise you that! Shior, you are 29YO . . . you no be small pickin again so na you know! 3 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by faceless04: 10:24am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by fanex: 10:24am On Feb 03, 2015 |
you are just an idea to him. basically he will not marry u and will never allow any man to marry you. worse part if he ever get married to you he will treat you like a piece of rag. stop making yourself available to him or tell you do not share his views and move on. ps do not marry this guy even if he decides to mary you. walk away it a lost battle. faceless04: 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by 2sa2: 10:24am On Feb 03, 2015 |
freecocoa:how can you say it's made up? I have seen people date for 14 years without marriage, shiitt happens |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by 2sa2: 10:27am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04:i'm sure you stayed this long with the hope things would change. It's just unfortunate you wasted your youth on someone not willing to spend the rest of his life with you, brake off, some else would come for you. Send me a pm let's discuss privately 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Extra9ice(m): 10:29am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Dix critical...plz dn't blame urself 4 staying xo long in da reltnship,yes u never discovered da he waz nt ur type bt u leaving him(running away) ll b dangerouz,u nid 2 talk 2 his parentz<cloze frndz>,let them knw d reason u wanna quit...if his still adamant just knw da his nt ur type...bside no life x worth d luv f any homo-sapien.But dnt 4get wit God al thingz r possible.#prayer. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 03, 2015 |
ileobatojo: Most definitely . . . I once dated a 38YO man who told me a few months into the r/ship that he wasn't the 'marrying type'. Thank God say I never comit myself with kpekusing by then so it was very easy for me to walk away cos I knew even then that he must have been married to say that at his age. Fast forward two years later, I ran into him with his 2 kids (5 and 3+ of age) Boy was I glad I walked when I did? If I had listened to his i'm-not-the-marrying-type-crap I would have been singing OP's story by now. 2 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by publicenemy(m): 10:30am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: If he has the guts to tell you after 10yrs that he wont marry you then He doesnt love you,he is with you cos u have made urself cheap,vulnerable and available to him. Quit the relationship and turn ur back on him,stop picking his calls or seeing him in any way and be hell serious about it. If he keeps threatening you involve the police and if things are getting out of hand you can relocate,your life is more important than ur job,the police can guarantee you absolute protection. You shouldnt twist ur destiny out of fear for someone who doenst care about you. Dont be scared life is about making decisions,dont let the other story scare you into living the rest of you life in misery. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 10:30am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Gaidenk:Lmao ......She's not qualified for any pension and she did all that manual labour without any paper work. Op dun see paya for that guy hand. 3 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:30am On Feb 03, 2015 |
2sa2: Wasted her youth? She is 29YO for God's sakes . . she's is still a very young woman and has her youth ahead of her! |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by diportivo: 10:31am On Feb 03, 2015 |
he wont marry u..dats for sure.how it took u 10 yrs to find out is wats baffling....also,u wont stop loving him in a very long while and he knows it too.the combo of first love and longterm relationship will make him dear to ur heart..ur next guy has my pity..u wont love him wholeheartedly not wit d memories of ur first love lurking around...but u sef,dont u know any family member?report his threats.matured minds will prevail on him to let u be since he just wants a baby factory...10 yrs??dat shii is cray 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by jayne8585yahoo(f): 10:33am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Gaidenk: lol. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:34am On Feb 03, 2015 |
nairabetguru:I dnt knw which part of you this is coming frm, but am guessing it frm ur anus....so its ojukokoro 4 smbdy to be in a relationship? Haven't u hrd of ladies dat got marriaed at age |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:36am On Feb 03, 2015 |
nairabetguru:I dnt knw which part of you this is coming frm, but am guessing it frm ur anus....so its ojukokoro 4 smbdy to be in a relationship? Haven't u hrd of ladies dat got married at age 16? So wats d biggy in being in a relationship at 19? |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:36am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: Lady this is not love. You guys are high on drama. He is not faithful, does not want to marry you and can't let you go. Which part of this drama looks like love to you? The guy is selfish will probably keep you around until he is ready to leave. Don't quit your job because of him that is if its a good one anyway. Alert the police on threats to your life, any day he shows up call the cops to come get him off your doorstep. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by publicenemy(m): 10:37am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Ujujoan: He wasted her youth. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Franknigga(m): 10:37am On Feb 03, 2015 |
mine is 13year now but no sex |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Sarimah(f): 10:38am On Feb 03, 2015 |
babez...10years is just too much d guy no get conscience ni? dumb his arss!! 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Dahjhi: 10:41am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04:Its Now I knew He's Nothing But a time waster.. You are already of age and he's enjoying the free-bangs before now, more than he wanted.. You've made a good choice since you believe in marriage. You've got enof advice. Find love, let the law enforcement know about his treats and my 50cents Never accept his plea when he come begging.. he will never change 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by twinee(f): 10:44am On Feb 03, 2015 |
You should know that we ladies are like flowers so bright and beautiful in the mornings and when it's night time wrinkles are all over. Ten years is no beans and u are not growing any younger... Besides do u knw his family members and do they recognize u has his fiancee? You have to take a stand and don't dwell in feelings and his threats.. If he loves u that much he should make it official.... Go listen to Official girl by Cassie.. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 10:49am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher:stop making jest of OP |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:49am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Baby hang in there for another decade...he may change his mind after you hit menopause 3 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by nairabetguru(m): 10:50am On Feb 03, 2015 |
jewel1993: oga you can call it watever u like but as for me oooOOOOoooooooo yes it is ojukokoro dat will make a 19yr old girl to befriend a 28 year old man for 10 years..... #Guiltypleasures |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by casualobserver1: 10:51am On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: HAHAHAHAHA. Our heart doesn't decide abi? Stay there. The way some people reason sef- how can you stay with a guy for 8 years before you start to think about marriage? You better go and wash your head in the river because they are following you from your village. Stupid pipo. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by nairabetguru(m): 10:51am On Feb 03, 2015 |
moreeni: pause_no_me |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by casualobserver1: 10:52am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Franknigga: LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. That is what we call one chance. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 10:58am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher:Hehe,bad investment. 1 Like |
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