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Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by knxpin(m): 3:28am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome:Old boy, your case is no different from any other person living in the USA, We all went through the same problem you are into.These people will suck you dry before you know it.They term us MUGU1 from America. They have houses, families and exotic cars in Nigeria and they still want to extort from you not minding what you goes through here in America. You open a line of business in Nigeria, they will frustrate you, actually Nigerians are the most insatiable people on earth. Please start building your own things in Nigeria, start investment for you and your children and stop sending fading to Nigeria before they the people you help would say oh he has spent 20 yrs in America and couldn't achieve anything. Don't allow your self to fall in that category. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by flyforall: 3:30am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Helping and being kind when you can isn't bad but when it's done to the detriment of your wellbeing then it becomes a fault. Take a stand and be mature about it telling them know you have other financial obligations. Your true friends/family will understand and those who won't understand simply don't want your well being. A man who gives all he has can't/won't have enough for the rainy day |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by inze(m): 3:33am On Jul 09, 2015 |
sultaan: - - - i don't just get it. Why do people always say "no offense" right before they offend you?. The quoted went further to question the young/old man's academic qualification while he couldn't reply a post without placing proper punctuation to make his statement understandable. "No offense" but you sound just like them . . . @op, demands, wants and needs are bound to arise every now and then as long as man is alive but then again that doesn't give excuse for others to take advantage of. Glorify God more that you have the necessity to cater for your direct needs/wants and having some to spare the needs of those around and far from you. You'd need His grace more to continue, you just have to use your discretion in handling the requests of those you know/believe are genuine. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by okonri(m): 3:41am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Atlantian: bros u dey vex o |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by KelvinC1(m): 3:45am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: you need that quick cure for PRIDE.. pridoline capsules.. Shikina.. How much you even get.. We that have everyTHING don't complain 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 3:46am On Jul 09, 2015 |
When i was in Nigeria i was hustling, busting my ass just to make #300 everyday , people called me all kinds of names,no one wanted to help me, no one fuccks with me. No girl wanted to be my girlfriend. Then, God answered my prayers & i traveled to America, those same people who called me useless & insane are the ones begging me for money now. Though, i bust my ass here working, i make a very good amount of money every month. I don't have a high school diploma but i make over $6000 every month. I work for 5 days a week at $15 per hour. I have many Nigerian girls wanting to date me. Nigerian guys who called me useless begging me for cars & money. I don't block them on Facebook, i only hide my presence on Facebook & chat with those i wanna chat with. [size=20pt]GOD FORGIVES, I DONT[/size] 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by astrodome: 3:50am On Jul 09, 2015 |
KelvinC1: Oh! You have everything. Great! Can I have some of your "everything"? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by uzzyphilip(m): 3:54am On Jul 09, 2015 |
My dear, the best thing is to help those who are really in critical conditions like health issues, bt any friend or relatives requesting money for either wedding,burial, school fees and u knw that your financial couldnt cope it up, simply say no, money have rules and regulations, dont spend beyond your financial power. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 3:54am On Jul 09, 2015 |
KelvinC1: How much is $100 in naira ?? The car insurance, house mortgage, electric bill, water bills, health insurance he pays every month can feed your family. You're just an [size=20pt]EP[/size] :- Enemy of Progress |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by KelvinC1(m): 4:05am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20: all you have MENTIONED minus JESUS you have Just Nothing.. I have everyTHING.. I.e. JESUS.. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 4:06am On Jul 09, 2015 |
From the presentation even to its illustration, There is no iota of truth in the story seeking glory. People believing when Op is deceiving. This is a typical case of ego boosting, attention seeking, Braggadocio and Showmanship. There are loads of people on Nairaland in reality doing same, they wouldn't come to public forum tantalizing their ego. And there are better ways to present it rather than this Epistle with loquacious title. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:13am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20:Big daddy stop lying. How are you able to make $6k a month when u earn just $15/hr. I believe a full time job is 40hr/wk and that makes you earn just $600/wk. tax is not included ooo. Abeg gerrahere my friend. You and the OP are same same 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by EbolaParasite: 4:13am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: You live in a witheld US city?? Your username has already given up your location. You should have used Toyota center or even Reliant center sef 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ishilove: 4:15am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome:Change your contact address. That means emails and phone numbers. Let it be only your parents and siblings who have the numbers. Give them a very stern warning not to give anybody your number otherwise there will be hell to pay. It is the impression you gave them that makes them run to you for money. Facebook pictures, updates, comments and so on often times don't tell the real stories. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:18am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome:Sorry to step in, Abeg where do you work In USa that you make 6 digit Is it 6digit In naira or dollars @kobe79, come get your brother |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ndipe(m): 4:19am On Jul 09, 2015 |
zeezahbee: I said it's all story story, because some people just come on nairaland and other social media to tell lies. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:20am On Jul 09, 2015 |
EbolaParasite:Gotcha He should have used Bissonet |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by TXRunner(m): 4:25am On Jul 09, 2015 |
zeezahbee:So are you meaning to say he is lying? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by nametalkam: 4:27am On Jul 09, 2015 |
hold on...you PhD level in yankee and dont know how to say NO? Really...you must in Utah or somewhere with lots of love LOL :-) Just say NO. Also be careful when "old friends" suddenly IM you and start with stories...give them your OWN stories too. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:27am On Jul 09, 2015 |
InvertedHammer:Why evils ? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:28am On Jul 09, 2015 |
TXRunner:I was asking him a question not you. Thanks |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by beelyjay45(m): 4:29am On Jul 09, 2015 |
I think you should be greatful that you are able to make ends meet and still have extra to give out. Don't go out of it way to satisfy people but don't be rude to them. Give what you can afford and tell them no if you don't have..... |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 4:29am On Jul 09, 2015 |
nametalkam:Phd in Yankee doesn't mean anything. Some people with associate can earn better. All they want is experience. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by friends4ever(m): 4:32am On Jul 09, 2015 |
overdrive: You funny dude |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ademat7(m): 4:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Atlantian:am sorry to say sir that you painted nairaland in a BAD IMAGE I wish u knw what image means Cc:Seun need to c ur comment here,a little is enough for the wise provided u r one 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by deniyor: 4:41am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: 6 figure , 3K ($20) lmaooo |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 4:47am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Dude, you're nice I'll advice you to ignore all the media things include your facebook and email. Change your phone number. Call only your family. When you don't reply their message on fb and email again .they will find there way. You don't need to change your fb pages. Anytime you want to check your fb age let it be 2:00am nigeria time. Becareful o , those pple might be using charm on you so you can turn to their mugun o. You will always pay them |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by TXRunner(m): 4:47am On Jul 09, 2015 |
zeezahbee:Lol. Calm your tīts and stop asking questions as if you were there when they handed him his paycheck. Thanks |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by friends4ever(m): 4:48am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Guy, we're in the shoe. Delete your fb profile, change your number and your new number should be given to any of your trusted family member, warn them not to let the cat out of the bag. Secondly, tell them that you're travelling to Australia or just mention any Country of your choice that you gonna be gone for a while. I did it myself and worked for me. I believe calling every dick and harry means involving your self in unnecessary spending. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by olaopts: 4:50am On Jul 09, 2015 |
@OP, I'm going through the same situation. Let a brother know when you have a solution. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by kobe79: 4:54am On Jul 09, 2015 |
zeezahbee: Hey Zee, even $000100/pay check na money all na six digits. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by kobe79: 4:55am On Jul 09, 2015 |
TXRunner: what do u know abt high paying jobs in thr states?? ur answer will confirm wheda ur a yanshhole or the yansh itself |
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