Chelseafan1:


You have no say about how people chose to live their lives, when you are dating or get married, don't check your babes phone at all, even if she's cheating, fvcking around without ur consent, I guess u will be happy since you don't know about it.

Let's just hope such a Lady won't infect the husband with different kind of venereal disease eventually.

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musicwriter:


That's my opinion.

But, that post wasn't for you, but for the OP who asked for advise. What you have to do is proffer "your own" advise to him.

There's no guaranty the girl will or will not do the same in future.

ONCE A WOMAN CHEAT EVEN IF YOU FORGIVE HER, SHE WILL TOP UP HER MOVE BUT THIS TIME PLAYING SMART. IT ONLY TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD TO REVIEW HER CHEATING LIFE THE SECOND TIME.


I THINK YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCE ANY SUCH.
AND DO PRAY NOT TO EXPERIENCE IT.

LET BE HONEST. YOU WILL MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE

Long distance relationship is like having an imaginary partner that only exist in ya head, or being in a relationship with a lifeless doll/teddy bear. You will just sit there like a loner, in ya own little world, thinking you're in a relationship with a ghost - with vaseline (for guys) and Love Machine (for chics) as ya best friend.

Only lunatics and loners get involved in that nonsense.

SeverusSnape:
Long distance relationship is not for me.

It's just a waste of time.

Me that had one living on the next street and the eediot started dating the boy in the next house to their own nko? To make matters worse the double eediot boy too was now feeling like a don that he got "my babe"

OP do like me

First, you dont owe any gaddemn mother any silly explanation. What good would that do?
I waited for the above mentioned eediots to finally get married, then smashed the stupid girl several times afterwards.

You snatch my babe
I smash your wife God no go vex

Moral of the story
a slot is a slot
Dont feel bad for nothing

God really loves you to reveal this slot to you.
Imagine if it was after going to prostrate?

Hian!

Assuming i ended up marrying the slot in my case no be so she for dey cut corner while i dey office?

Guy rejoice o! Your mama prayer that you will marry a good wife has come to pass...somewhat.


One small fvck up on your part sha, you suppose still smash the babe TDB before leaving then just keep her as a side dish, how you go allow money for guest house waste like that oga?

falconey:


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AfroKnight:
Forgive her but do not marry her for your peace of mind. You don't want to be conducting paternity test every time your wife gives birth.

She is only acting remorseful because you caught her and not because she truly felt bad. I'd advice to dump her àss and when her mother asks why, you should tell her the truth. Cos a girl like that would lie to her parents about why you broke up.

The annoying thing is that she continued to contact the guy after cheating. That shows she would gladly cheat over and over again.

This is very reasonable.... I pray i don't fall into such a rough situation.... I can act worse!

I can not help but laugh when I read comments about forgiving her.
Has anyone of you guys actually caught a fiance,not just a girlfriend,cheating? If he was your brother,will you advice him to marry her? If tomorrow,you see her with another man,what will be your first thought? A friend or a lover!
It is easier for a woman to forgive a cheating man than the reverse! It is a fact. Every woman wants to be a man's last love and every man wants to be a woman's first love! It is in our nature. It is clear from his post that there was no prior misunderstanding or lovers quarrel. If they were quarrelling and she cheated on him,that is a different scenario. I will blame him squarely for not handling their quarrel quickly. But in this case,I will really advice him to run for his life. Except you are of the new age crew,Marriage,like diamonds,is forever!

I know how u feel man!!! let her go cos u wont stop thinking about how they did it, how many times they did it, was she doing it while u were calling her etc. i feel for u sha i went tru same 6 years ago did all kinds of things to forget about it. i was messed up

It will be hard for you to do, cus I know u love her. But if u want to be happy, just end d relatnshp. If u don't it will still hapn again and I bet u, she won't marry you. Suffer d breakup pain now and u will smile at d end. Talking frm experience

Chelseafan1:


But some girls are crazy o, u hear some story at times and u just keep asking yourself what ladies really want....!
Imagine o, the bf is even from a rich home, I'm sure he must be good looking too and has a better chance to make it in life, yet the gf chose to sneak out at nyt to go fvck the next-door neighbor....lmao

Shey d bf no sabi fvck ni abi d oda guy is better, can't she help the bf improve rather than go sleep with his neighbor.

I have a friend who acts like he's a saint to his gf, they may sleep and spend the weekend together, once he drops her off at her place, he'll ring the other girl to come spend the night with him and they wud fvck silly....I'd be like, guy, didn't u just go drop ur babe moments ago?

I'm seriously pitying the innocent gf and hopes she wud find a reason to break the relationship, she deserves a better man than my friend, such a pity I can't tell her, her man is a big time cheat.

Relationships too get wahala o, crazy drama.

Poor girl. Mehn it's a two way thing. Both guys and girls, but seriously, It's worst in the side of the ladies. I'm very very scared of relationship too; Especially a long distance one, I just can't,not with girls of these days.
I'm someone that don't know how to trust, Am a bit paranoid. I broke up with my girl friend some weeks back, She schools in Ghana, The girl left for Accra yesterday.
She's someone who's decent and a bit Trustworthy, in fact, She's a deeper life member, But I just can't take chances. I want my mind to be free.

ElFenomeno1:


Your father is the yaba left patient ... you fu..cking pillock!
May Amadioha blow your balls into hopeless pieces!!!

Lolz,so e pain u!don't always believe u knw how to talk to people anyhow!try to add some useful facts into pple's lives not talking to dem anyhow.me no get any misunderstanding with,as I gatz beta tinz to tink abt.

I know people will blame you for creating a gap. But yhats not the issue. We are all weak in one area or the other but her to be enjoying such terrible "weakness" by initiating a chat after the "fall" makes her a beast.

If you know you can't manage infidelity, keep off cos you may not be strong to erase the memories.

The family may ask, tell them you've discovers their daughter can't remain faithful. You may build a bad home. "She can explain better".

But you must forgive and move on.

issylarry:


Thanks a lot!Its so obvious the relationship is over,but should I tell her family first or I wait till they ask?

If you tell them, what do you think the mother will do next?
Of course she will start that eye service scolding and begin to make you feel like a king. Then beg you. When she begs you to an extent and you still continue refusing, the tables now turn and you start to hear even when we offend God its beg we beg him blah blah blah

Guy you owe her family nadda, let her paint you black + red, is it a job that they will ask for reference from your new place of employ?

Ive told you bone the slot and her family joo.

Or you still like her ni?

Are you ready to live with the distrust?

You honestly think you can trust her again? Guy dont deceive yourself. Its a lost cause.

ElFenomeno1:


Your father is the yaba left patient ... you fu..cking pillock!
May Amadioha blow your balls into hopeless pieces!!!

Your father is the yaba left patient...you fu..cking pillock.May Amadioha or Sango blow your balls into hopeless pieces!!! Guy,u went too far!u have just started bhaving like a kid.

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Me that had one living on the next street and the eediot started dating the boy in the next house to their own nko? To make matters worse the double eediot boy too was now feeling like a don that he got "my babe"

OP do like me

First, you dont owe any gaddemn mother any silly explanation. What good would that do?
I waited for the above mentioned eediots to finally get married, then smashed the stupid girl several times afterwards.

You snatch my babe
I smash your wife God no go vex

Moral of the story
a slot is a slot
Dont feel bad for nothing

God really loves you to reveal this slot to you.
Imagine if it was after going to prostrate?

Hian!

Assuming i ended up marrying the slot in my case no be so she for dey cut corner while i dey office?

Guy rejoice o! Your mama prayer that you will marry a good wife has come to pass...somewhat.


One small fvck up on your part sha, you suppose still smash the babe TDB before leaving then just keep her as a side dish, how you go allow money for guest house waste like that oga?

YOU JUST SAID IT ALL.

A CHEAT IS A CHEAT. IF YOU FORGIVE HER , SHE WILL TOP UP HER GAME.

THOSE WHO ARE TELLING THE OP TO FORGIVE AND MOVE WITH HER, ARE THE INEXPERIENCE ONE.

ARE THERE NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD AGAIN

LEARN TO KILL THAT LOVE EMOTIONS AND MOVE ON. WOMEN ARE MORE THAN MEN IN THIS WORLD

99.9percent of naija chicks ain't loyal

EggovinMma:
Funny we tend to tolerate cheating niggars!
But they don't tolerate cheating Biitches! ! As priccck dey stand, na so pussy dey wet! !
That's the law of KWOKIRIKWO.

Hahahahahahhahahaahahahahhaahahahhaha

This is why I don’t really believe in distance and marriage

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Me that had one living on the next street and the eediot started dating the boy in the next house to their own nko? To make matters worse the double eediot boy too was now feeling like a don that he got "my babe"

OP do like me

First, you dont owe any gaddemn mother any silly explanation. What good would that do?
I waited for the above mentioned eediots to finally get married, then smashed the stupid girl several times afterwards.

You snatch my babe
I smash your wife God no go vex

Moral of the story
a slot is a slot
Dont feel bad for nothing

God really loves you to reveal this slot to you.
Imagine if it was after going to prostrate?

Hian!

Assuming i ended up marrying the slot in my case no be so she for dey cut corner while i dey office?

Guy rejoice o! Your mama prayer that you will marry a good wife has come to pass...somewhat.


One small fvck up on your part sha, you suppose still smash the babe TDB before leaving then just keep her as a side dish, how you go allow money for guest house waste like that oga?

I did the smashing crazily.My Money no waste o!I did d poking for some rounds before this happened.

Konji is a bastard.
The gal got laid..so what

jommysakwe:
if u can swear of never cheated on her since u started d relationship then call it off . anyway u engaged a lady for two years mehn is she d lord of d ring? if u are ready to marry a lady go ahead and do it and don't waste anybody's time. I rest my case

Sis u dey vex oh, take am softly. The guy should move on if he finds it hard to accept her back because lack of trust in marriage can be very brutal. As for me he should tell her parents the truth if they asked what happened.

The problem is not Distance, it's just a choice she choses.
If what you are saying is the truth, just tell only her Parents before you QUIT the relationship. Give them reasons why you are making the U-Turn. Because it's difficult to change an Adult only God can!

sonofananimal:
YOU JUST SAID IT ALL.

A CHEAT IS A CHEAT. IF YOU FORGIVE HER , SHE WILL TOP UP HER GAME.

THOSE WHO ARE TELLING THE OP TO FORGIVE AND MOVE WITH HER ARE THE INEXPERIENCE ONE.

ARE THERE NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD AGAIN

LEARN TO KILL THAT LOVE EMOTIONS AND MOVE ON. WOMEN ARE MORE THAT IN THIS WORLD

i bow o
Tell the OP to learn from my case, you should have seen the way i was magaing over this eediot that time, inspite of the difference in social standing and all. Nothing wey dem no tell me, i refused to listen till she did what she did.

How she would still allow me smash her after her marriage to the guy na him fear me pass. As ispeak with you if i call her now would you believe she would still fall in?

Meanwhile oga girlfriend snatcher is still walking with his head held up high.

This will forever remain my own private joke.

OP i have told you, the best thing forget marriage to that slot, dont announce any stupid break up, for what (well except the s3x is that bad) make her believe everything is ok, sebi she like preeq? Just never give your heart to her again.

If you break up now she has a fall back plan and will be feeling like a star, youre gone and theres another. Will even tell that one that she broke up with you cos of him.

Knack her steady till cut off day, maybe when she now feels youre no longer like you used to or whatever, you honestly cant be bothered.

Best part the guilt in her will avail you plenty great s3x at next to nothing.

You dont know how lucky you are ah swear

issylarry:


Lolz,so e pain u!don't always believe u knw how to talk to people anyhow!try to add some useful facts into pple's lives not talking to dem anyhow.me no get any misunderstanding with,as I gatz beta tinz to tink abt.

There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful.

issylarry:


Lolz,so e pain u!don't always believe u knw how to talk to people anyhow!try to add some useful facts into pple's lives not talking to dem anyhow.me no get any misunderstanding with,as I gatz beta tinz to tink abt.

There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful.

issylarry:

Lolz,so e pain u!don't always believe u knw how to talk to people anyhow!try to add some useful facts into pple's lives not talking to dem anyhow.me no get any misunderstanding with,as I gatz beta tinz to tink abt.

There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful.

Same thing happened here

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i bow o
Tell the OP to learn from my case, you should have seen the way i was magaing over this eediot that time, inspite of the difference in social standing and all. Nothing wey dem no tell me, i refused to listen till she did what she did.

How she would still allow me smash her after her marriage to the guy na him fear me pass. As ispeak with you if i call her now would you believe she would still fall in?

Meanwhile oga girlfriend snatcher is still walking with his head held up high.

This will forever remain my own private joke.

OP i have told you, the best thing forget marriage to that slot, dont announce any stupid break up, for what (well except the s3x is that bad) make her believe everything is ok, sebi she like preeq? Just never give your heart to her again.

If you break up now she has a fall back plan and will be feeling like a star, youre gone and theres another. Will even tell that one that she broke up with you cos of him.

Knack her steady till cut off day, maybe when she now feels youre no longer like you used to or whatever, you honestly cant be bothered.

Best part the guilt in her will avail you plenty great s3x at next to nothing.

You dont know how lucky you are ah swear

Girls of nowadays will tie you down with Pregnancy. Tiny hole for condom no be joke. Just cut ties with her totally. OP don't even need her Public WiFi she call Pùssy.

oreos:


1) I am not ugly nor beautiful. I am average and I love me.

2) I have never been dumped.

3) I don't go about insulting sensible guys on Nairaland.

4) If I am a biitch, so is your mum and all your female folks

You're such a frustrated bastaard for having the gut to abuse my mum. A slut like you shouldn't be someone i'll be wasting my time on

Hmmm, sorry guy... I have been in almost a similar situation before. But she was the one that dumped my ass not that I cheated on her but because she truly could not stand the distance and the urge to cheat on me was great. I was so heart broken..... Cos I loved her beyond what one could imagine.

Anyway, just let go of her....

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i bow o
Tell the OP to learn from my case, you should have seen the way i was magaing over this eediot that time, inspite of the difference in social standing and all. Nothing wey dem no tell me, i refused to listen till she did what she did.

How she would still allow me smash her after her marriage to the guy na him fear me pass. As ispeak with you if i call her now would you believe she would still fall in?

Meanwhile oga girlfriend snatcher is still walking with his head held up high.

This will forever remain my own private joke.

OP i have told you, the best thing forget marriage to that slot, dont announce any stupid break up, for what (well except the s3x is that bad) make her believe everything is ok, sebi she like preeq? Just never give your heart to her again.

If you break up now she has a fall back plan and will be feeling like a star, youre gone and theres another. Will even tell that one that she broke up with you cos of him.

Knack her steady till cut off day, maybe when she now feels youre no longer like you used to or whatever, you honestly cant be bothered.

Best part the guilt in her will avail you plenty great s3x at next to nothing.

You dont know how lucky you are ah swear

MENN SEE STRATEGIZE ADVICE.

SOME NO GET HEART DO WETI YOU TALK OHH.

LIKE ME, I GO PARK MY SELF DEY GO. NA THERE EVERYTHING END OHH

BUT SHALL IF THE OP TOO MUMU. MAKE HE CARRY HEAD GO MEET HER AGAIN, NEXT YOU GO HEAR SAY OP DON MURDER THE GIRL

Personally they are all pretty much the same.

One should just pray that one gets one that will trade being treated right into giving up the game.

But if you're treating one right and she's still double dipping then that one is hooked to the game and she needs to be kicked to the curb.

Take heart Man, if the story is true.