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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by curberstomper: 3:32am On Sep 12, 2015 |
You know what you should do, but you won't leave him cause he looks good and got a big dick. Or maybe he just makes you feel "special" or there's "just something about him" It always amazes me how there are dece looking 20-24yr old girls that have been with 100s of guys. It always blew my mind because 95% of the dudes I know are at 0 to 2. The man you're with, he's been putting in all that work. Only the best can hit numbers like that, and honestly, there's no right or wrong way to handle this situation. You can stay with him because he has so much value, with his height, build, facial aesthetics etc. or you can cut him loose and rent another bf with about the same value. Just know that if you like a guy, there's going to be thousands of other girls that will jump on his dick any chance they get. If he could get you, he could get any girl. You can't change any of these players, just take it for what it is and live with whatever decision you make. Are you happier with him or without him? Are you willing to take a chance and lock down another dude of equal or greater value? I don't suggest dating short guys/broke guys/ugly guys or betas for a sense of security. There's a reason why nobody wants them. If you don't find a guy attractive, don't give them the time of day. You'll be setting up for a major disappointment if you go down that route. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by OluwaChinenyenwa: 3:49am On Sep 12, 2015 |
agarawu23:Are you the married man in question? If you are not, then shame on you for this stupeed assertion of yours!! 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by zheroes(m): 3:59am On Sep 12, 2015 |
one thing is certain, the moment you lose confidence in your partner i guess its time to quit, its not do or die affair, even marriage isn't. to be very candid, its difficult to find a man that doesn't cheat. a man cheating isn't about whether or not he loves you or not, its about the fact that men take pride in two timing. even when a lady knows you are married if you are her kind of man she wants you to sleep with her, there are very few men that don't cheat , so few they are almost not existent, and ladies should understand when a man has good money ladies will come after him and he just has to be a man. i once me a lady who told me no babe bleeps one dick simply because she wanted me to sleep with her and my present babe was cheating on me because i later found out and she confessed , eventually i slept with her and never took her serious because i knew she had other guys, so its a fucking world. don't put your confidence on anyone 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by onunwa21(m): 4:02am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Give him red card or he will be d one to give it to u..... |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Jennifer89(f): 4:26am On Sep 12, 2015 |
the problem with girls dating a cheating boyfriend is that they keep complaining and yet they wont leave the guy. they keep seeking for advice they wont take. I have a friend like that if she catch the guy with another babe she will cry as if she lost a family member tomorrow u see her with the guy. i am tired of advising so if she comes crying all i do is say sorry. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 4:39am On Sep 12, 2015 |
curberstomper: Further proves my point. That's life. It's in them to go after and still fall for the "bad boy". Hopefully you'll share this post with this lover boy white knight simps who are still delusional. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by SexyStrawberry(f): 4:40am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Raymondenyi: How do u expect him to advise her? she will never listen until it happens to her, me too didn't listen until I learned my lessons the hard way, even my own brother warned me n pleaded with me to leave him, it fell on deaf ears, so leave girls alone to make their own mistakes, if u tell a girl now to leave her bf coz of his wayward lifestyle, she will only see u as a devil who's not happy for her. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by francizy(m): 5:02am On Sep 12, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Chai egovinMma the cheating cheater... OP, I noticed you shy away from certain questions such as "have you ever cheated on him" and "is he the only one you're dating"? Simply means that you are probably cheating on him too. I said so because of how you presented your story, cuz you seemed less worried about him cheating (even though you asking for help on how to deal with him) and also, how you dodge those questions. If you have never cheated on him, then consider walking away but if you have, then bear the consequences cuz in the former case, leaving him "will be" a win-win while the later case "is" already a win-win (for two cheats). 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 5:16am On Sep 12, 2015 |
OluwaChinenyenwa:mumu shame on yourself https://www.nairaland.com/2409380/advice-pls-married-man-sends |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 5:19am On Sep 12, 2015 |
SmartMugu:only good ladies deserve a loyal and humble guy . Well, what happened between them is clear to their two 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 5:21am On Sep 12, 2015 |
chizoin:yeah, nothing is impossible |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by arabianights: 5:28am On Sep 12, 2015 |
DatBossAssChick: My dear first and foremost ,the chick lying means shes chap and she herself knows shes a one night stand or side chick.Shes so cheap so as to lie to you ;why didnt she face you? ote that Man is polygamous by nature, ALL MEN ARE THE SAME ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THE FEAR OF GOD AND SELF CONTROL DIFFERS IN DEGREES AMONGST THEM ALL What stage are you in your relationship?has he proposed?How is his attitude towards you? i hope you dont give him money or assist in some financial payments THink deep no one can decide for you,But when you walk out, Dont look back,ever"! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by thepathoma(m): 5:31am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Prayer changes situations
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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by sinator(m): 5:32am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Lies!!!! How can a gal catch her bf redhanded and do nothing..... Even wen dey hear... Talk more of wen dey saw it for demselves You hv broken RULE 8; of nairaland |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by sinator(m): 5:32am On Sep 12, 2015 |
DatBossAssChick:Lies!!!! How can a gal catch her bf redhanded and do nothing..... Even wen dey hear... Talk more of wen dey saw it for demselves You hv broken RULE 8; of nairaland |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 5:36am On Sep 12, 2015 |
ladyF: For once in your lifetime, you wrote something meaningful... oya clap for yaself |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Jetjacky(m): 5:43am On Sep 12, 2015 |
marriedvirgin:Na Wa oh! and assuming you are a girl you would advice to quickly run off from what she has going on when if it was in reverse the man would be contemplating whether he would forgive her. Una girls are selfish! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Jetjacky(m): 5:49am On Sep 12, 2015 |
ladyF:and you girls should top cheating on your men like its free visa! hypocrisy! although I don't cheat, I won't stand for hypocrisy! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Jetjacky(m): 5:50am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Youngpo413:my brother... me too |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Jetjacky(m): 5:52am On Sep 12, 2015 |
osimataylor:lol! I believe |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Kassychuks(f): 5:55am On Sep 12, 2015 |
agarawu23:Oh plzzz....Dat wz rilly harsh! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 6:06am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Kassychuks:hmmmm |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by kyrian1985(m): 6:21am On Sep 12, 2015 |
misssclassy: what a shallow minded advice.......... break with him and maybe start up a relationship with you right!!!!!!!must every little thing in relationship end in breakups? what happens to having a good conversation with him and see how you can both work things out.... if you were married to him and caught him cheating would divorce him,please let be reasonable before dishing out advice, else it ruins someone home/life....... |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by labadydrumz(m): 6:24am On Sep 12, 2015 |
misssclassy:you are a fool ...is that a solution? just dnt tink before acting..... mtchewww...he respects u thats y he needed to lie |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:25am On Sep 12, 2015 |
DatBossAssChick: Bill Clinton cheated on senator Hilary Clinton and they are still living together. Who are you? Men must always cheat. You can never find a Nigerian man that will not cheat whenever he has opportunity. Play your part and be clean; his conscience will be judging him if he truly loves you and he might decide to change on his own. GOING FOR ANOTHER GUY IS JUMPING FROM FRY-PAN TO FIRE COS THE GUY HAS GIRL FRIEND B4 HE MEET YOU. AND YOU WILL BE THE REBOUND GIRL. YOU WILL GET HARASSMENT FROM HIS EX, CREEPY TEXT AND PHONE CALLS + THE INSULT DOES NOT WORTH IT. That fear, apology or guilty conscience in him is a victory for you and other real women. Don't listen to people advising you to break-up cos if you do, one of your friends might end up with the guy if he is doing well and serious in life. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Holuwakemmy16(f): 6:26am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Hmm reading comments. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by chinedujazzy(m): 6:31am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Loving the Player...wise up girl! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Kassychuks(f): 6:35am On Sep 12, 2015 |
agarawu23:Y hmmming,z nt funny.And plz who z dat update 4? |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by doskie(m): 6:46am On Sep 12, 2015 |
DatBossAssChick:what did you see. describe it please. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by NemzySeries(m): 6:46am On Sep 12, 2015 |
probably ure 1 of hiz cousins d family doesn't kw abt....yankuri |
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by tundeotunba(m): 6:48am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Let's cheat on him too! |
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