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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by hensben(m): 8:48am On Sep 12, 2015
AdaNri1:
guilty conscience. Go and find out more about the law of Karma, it doesn't "control" it is not "juju"
check her previous post, she is a cheater too.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 12, 2015
francizy:


Chai egovinMma the cheating cheater... grin



OP, I noticed you shy away from certain questions such as "have you ever cheated on him" and "is he the only one you're dating"? Simply means that you are probably cheating on him too. I said so because of how you presented your story, cuz you seemed less worried about him cheating (even though you asking for help on how to deal with him) and also, how you dodge those questions.

If you have never cheated on him, then consider walking away but if you have, then bear the consequences cuz in the former case, leaving him "will be" a win-win while the later case "is" already a win-win (for two cheats).


My love, person no dey fall mugu these days biko. Afterall mam still get level for tradition and religion pass woman. If I cheat for marriage, my husband go pursue me comot, I i intend not to be chased out, my own mother go still pursue me comot grin grin grin grin.Where I come from we don't cheat on our husbands, else the whole August meeting go use me do yeye grin



*yawwwnnnnns*

Anyway, varieties is a spice of life remember? cheesy

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by mecussey(m): 8:52am On Sep 12, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:
The fact is girls really don't have appetite to resist badboiz grin

So, they stick up wt him , cry their ass out when he fukcs out, run to nairaland for advise , but never really follow the sensible advises . So, they get fukced over again till they age and get dumped. Then they get holy and start looking out for innocent/ God fearing men to settle with. grin

That's the life cycle af an average Nigerian girl up there cheesy

You get A1 for this analysis...so but as a sharp worry boy. U play the baddest boy to teenagers, nack them to a full, play holy and innocent to the advance and nak them to satisfaction. Then select one and throw others to the trash can. Dont reserve any conscience for any woman, bc devil don collect their own conscience tete for garden of eden.

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
I think the case is now 50/50

What abt that married man you were cheating with then wink
That one wey dey send you money wink. https://www.nairaland.com/2409380/advice-pls-married-man-sends
hypocra8 pls reply dix ?
becos u don already dey condemn d guy while u re not innocent.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 9:15am On Sep 12, 2015
johnson157:

hypocra8 pls reply dix ?
becos u don already dey condemn d guy while u re not innocent.
what's this one saying undecided I don't understand u
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:19am On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
what's this one saying undecided I don't understand u
asking her to reply ur quote about d married man
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 9:20am On Sep 12, 2015
johnson157:

asking her to reply ur quote about d married man
she didn't
So why are you speaking for her?
Na you get case?
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 12, 2015
otabuko:
now that's the point... You'd never know the one that wouldn't cheap... That's where tolerance comes in... Until it's obvious that the said person is unrepentant!

No. I don't believe one will ever have to tolerate such rubbish. If he's cheating on you he obviously doesn't love or respect you. No one deserves that. I'd say leave him. If you can't find someone that wont cheat on you, be happy being alone.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
she didn't
So why are you speaking for her?
Na you get case?
guy try to dey undastand post b4 ur blood go dey hot, I saw she did. not reply dat particular quote dats y I pointed it out,I'm not answering 4 anybody. I said she isn't innocent yet calling d guy cheat. grab my gist now.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:29am On Sep 12, 2015
Youngpo413:
the next one may still be a cheat,a cheat you know is better than...

Then you're just the fool, staying with a man that clearly doesn't want to be with you. No one deserves that. I think she should leave him.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 9:38am On Sep 12, 2015
johnson157:

guy try to dey undastand post b4 ur blood go dey hot, I saw she did. not reply dat particular quote dats y I pointed it out,I'm not answering 4 anybody. I said she isn't innocent yet calling d guy cheat. grab my gist now.
no vex bro cool now I get your point
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Deejavuu(f): 9:44am On Sep 12, 2015
Truckpusher:
That's not true.
Some of these girls don't even know what a relationship is to start with.
I'm having a fling with you as a girl and the fling ish got extended for some reasons and you see me with another girl and you want to classify that as cheating ?

Lol. Funny but very true!
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:51am On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
I think the case is now 50/50

What abt that married man you were cheating with then wink
That one wey dey send you money wink. https://www.nairaland.com/2409380/advice-pls-married-man-sends
Nice one but you're not a smooth detective.
FYI he knows about all that details. I'm not a cheat just as you men do because my conscience won't let me be at peace.

I still don't get why u had to bring this up, to prove what?

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 9:57am On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick:

Nice one but you're not a smooth detective.
FYI he knows about all that details. I'm not a cheat just as you men do because my conscience won't let me be at peace.

I still don't get why u had to bring this up, to prove what?
just passing a message smiley
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:03am On Sep 12, 2015
DrGroove:
How does somebody whom one is not legally married to cheat on one?
I don't understand!

I tire oooooo.
How can an unmarried folks be lambasted for cheating especially in a "let's just fuccck" relationship?
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Truckpusher(m): 10:29am On Sep 12, 2015
Deejavuu:


Lol. Funny but very true!
Lmao grin.

And some of them feels that every relationship must end in marriage Oya nau make we enter polygamy dem no go still gree. cheesy

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by MsBliss(f): 10:34am On Sep 12, 2015
hensben:
The both of them are cheating, check her previous post.
grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by ecnuel: 10:42am On Sep 12, 2015
ladyF:
Cheating to me is very disrespectful. How people stay with an unrepentant cheating partner amazes me. There are cases where the husband infected wife with incurable viruses et al cuz he couldn't keep his dic kk in his pants. Let him go, you deserve better.... This goes out to women who cheat too, fear God o!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

LadyF, not only cheating should be disrespectful. Fornication is equally disrespectful.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by hensben(m): 10:47am On Sep 12, 2015
MsBliss:
grin
u don see am na abi. cheesy
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by tohphunmie(f): 10:55am On Sep 12, 2015
OP, a cheat will always be a cheat....pls dump his bleeping a.s.s!! #shikena
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by DrGroove(f): 11:27am On Sep 12, 2015
EggovinMma:


I tire oooooo.
How can an unmarried folks be lambasted for cheating especially in a "let's just fuccck" relationship?
honestly this part of humans I don't understand.You agree to fucck sb who is not you husband/wife n u are feeling cheated the person is fucking another person when d person doesn't owe u any faithfulness,it marvels me...what wil legally married couples do?

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:29am On Sep 12, 2015
DrGroove:

honestly this part of humans I don't understand.You agree to fucck sb who is not you husband/wife n u are feeling cheated the person is fucking another person when d person doesn't owe u any faithfulness,it marvels me...what wil legally married couples do?

We are living in a man's world cheesy grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by bummyla(m): 11:44am On Sep 12, 2015
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by DatBossAssChick(f): 11:51am On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
just passing a message smiley
I hope you got a hi5 for that. smh
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by DatBossAssChick(f): 11:54am On Sep 12, 2015
Truckpusher:
That's not true.
Some of these girls don't even know what a relationship is to start with.
I'm having a fling with you as a girl and the fling ish got extended for some reasons and you see me with another girl and you want to classify that as cheating ?
This your mentality sha.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by agarawu23(m): 12:01pm On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick:

I hope you got a hi5 for that. smh
shocked oh! I am sorry if I was wrong.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick. You can't be a Player and hate a Player.

Ask yourself.....Search Yourself. cool
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by IYANGBALI: 12:57pm On Sep 12, 2015
Nubian113:


shocked shocked shocked
why are you moaning now?abi you too don dey come? grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by dazzlingd(m): 1:06pm On Sep 12, 2015
misssclassy:
What are you still waiting for? Break up with the _idiot before he breaks up with you.

He neither respects nor value you both as his girlfriend or as a person, that's why he can lie and cheat on you without remorse.

He doesn't deserve you.
so you can steal the boyfriend from her....I suspect you are the girl she caught him with
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by dazzlingd(m): 1:11pm On Sep 12, 2015
agarawu23:
I think the case is now 50/50

What abt that married man you were cheating with then wink
That one wey dey send you money wink. https://www.nairaland.com/2409380/advice-pls-married-man-sends
grin you are a great man
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by PAPAPET: 1:12pm On Sep 12, 2015
You see, in the first place. The two of them are cheaters. Bible forbids Boyfriend/Girls friend saga. In the light of this, the matter is a no discussion issue.
Yes, l agree the dating/courtship leading to marriage but bed need be kept undefiled. They (both) need to be very careful and vigilant and put the utmost issue on serious prayer because again, there's no room for divorce except in an extreme case which is a topic for another day.
However, l submit that that this topic has no contributory meaning to a Godfearing individual.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by francizy(m): 1:26pm On Sep 12, 2015
EggovinMma:



My love, person no dey fall mugu these days biko. Afterall mam still get level for tradition and religion pass woman. If I cheat for marriage, my husband go pursue me comot, I i intend not to be chased out, my own mother go still pursue me comot grin grin grin grin.Where I come from we don't cheat on our husbands, else the whole August meeting with go use me do yeye grin



*yawwwnnnnns*

Anyway, varieties is a spice of life remember? cheesy

I thought the bolded is mainly used for luxury items? shocked grin lol

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