aktem:
Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL.

word!! Even couple sleeping on the same bed sef, dey cheat...

blessedly:


really? is that why you stopped chatting me up?
I thought we had something going..... #lastyear#shaa

I"v always wanted to meet d female frnds I chat wit online, buh dey all neva felt d same way..

GahtU:
yes I live in Uyo n he stays in Akure n its going to work whether u like it or not. My parent lived apart for d first 16yrs of deir marriage, now dey r living together happily n till death. So OP its abt wat we want n our determination. So u can go n knock off ur head or neck in fact hit something BT if u think coming here to get supporters to destroy wat we av build is going to make us crack, den I can c how frustrated u r. Mind ur damn biz cos its enough trouble for u. Mtcheew....

Why are you so hurt? I don't think the op is forcing anyone to quit his or her long distance relationship, only giving his opinion.

Different strokes for different folks...

Op, you may be right, but there are exceptions.

What is to one a goad, is to another a load. It works for some and it doesn't work for others.


The downside about distance relationships is that, it's expensive to maintain. It's a work on it's own.

prettythicksme:
Just gerraout here mehn with dis shit u wrote!so men don cheat abi?dey cheat pass devil self

Women are most likely to cheat and women cheat are two different thing ma'am...hope you now understood berra...remain blessed

Wetin concern long distance and marriage? The same thing applies even wen u r dating a girl right across your street. Dating can be fun...If u play it right...no matter the distance between u two. Keep the pressures of marriage aside and enjoy the fun of dating/courtship..marriage will only come wen u two r in sync.

naughtynaughty:
1000000 likes for u biko! Good radiance 2bad rubbish

Thanks!

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50% of first born kids don't belong to supposed biological dad. 30% of all kids don't belong to supposed biological dad .[/quote
Another shocking revelation.

AreaFada2:


People should just accept now that even if you're married and live together, it still doesn't guarantee fidelity.

Women are even more under pressure to cheat now. Be it with her boss at work or clients.

Even a housewife sitting at home can hook up with men via social media. Easy peasy.

Can you realistically 60% expect fidelity from a person you are not married to?

We have reached a moral low. Distance or no distance.
I keep reminding people of research results though people don't want to hear:

50% of first born kids don't belong to supposed biological dad.
30% of all kids don't belong to supposed biological dad.

I have two friends whose kids in 9ja failed paternity test and therefore couldn't join them in UK.

Damn!!!!
I work with facts. My plan is to secretly get all my kids tested, no matter how sure i am of my wife. Call me paranoid but only the paranoid survive

well like someone said it depends on both party, i live in Lagos she lives in Ekiti and we are planning to tie d knot latest 6 -7months time, though am nt disputing what the OP said coz sometimes i have this urge but all i do is call her talk about it and schedule....smiles, anytime she has d same feeling i either i go der or she travel down to Lag.
what am saying is everyone knows that distant relationship is a gamble but all we need is TRUST n UNDERSTANDING...

besides what is the assurance that the girl/boyfriend that lives in the same street with u wont or cant cheat on u...as i said it all boils down to TRUST n UNDERSTANDING every relationship needs it

Men op who told u about me....i'm in a long distance relationship..i call her she calls me and we tell ourselver how we miss each other....notin more

Not seen my babe for sometime now, but e no mean say we no dey grow stronger by the day. When u know wetin u want distance no be problem

Rapmoney:
When dem no know wetin to talk for phone again, the guy go dey ask the babe, 'What did you eat this evening?' !!! Hehehe See problem o! Tomorrow, e go still ask the same question! Is it not just so boring?

Kai this guy you are spot on. Send me your number make i apply some grease to your elbow

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I was banging one babe one day like dat na so her fone rang she picked it as I de give her doggy.....na her BF de feel sorry for her say he will send her money for medicine...shaa haba dis babe don lie...oo omo na so I pra increase my hiting kpa kpa kpa....she scream her fone fell from her hand...lol

When you have long distance plus a girlfriend in medical school... The patience required is stuff of legend

Revolva:
I was banging one babe one day like dat na so her fone rang she picked it as I de give her doggy.....na her BF de feel sorry for her say he will send her money for medicine...shaa haba dis babe don lie...oo omo na so I pra increase my hiting kpa kpa kpa....she scream her fone fell from her hand...lol

Bros why you dey lie like this na

yorex2011:

Bros why you dey lie like this na

Lie for wat naa...wtf do u no how many I ave smashed even oloshos...dat day even told me they have serious BF omo cool down not to talk of a gal with a distance relationship wit a guy...even gal wey get BF koro koro..i de bang dem

GahtU:
yes I live in Uyo n he stays in Akure n its going to work whether u like it or not. My parent lived apart for d first 16yrs of deir marriage, now dey r living together happily n till death. So OP its abt wat we want n our determination. So u can go n knock off ur head or neck in fact hit something BT if u think coming here to get supporters to destroy wat we av build is going to make us crack, den I can c how frustrated u r. Mind ur damn biz cos its enough trouble for u. Mtcheew....

Never have I seen such an immature post like this.

I'm in a long distant relationship and i enjoy every bit of it.#teamlongdistantrelationship#

sisqonite:


Damn!!!!
I work with facts. My plan is to secretly get all my kids tested, no matter how sure i am of my wife. Call me paranoid but only the paranoid survive

Well some women are still faithful sha.

But these days lots of people get married because the babe is pregnant. Often the most eligible guy gets the baby.
But it can also belong to her boss or some 60 years old Alhaji somewhere.

Some babes develop the multiple dating habit in higher institution days. Some habits can be hard to break.

In the West, most countries don't allow fathers to do DNA test on kids without the woman's consent. And sure enough most women don't consent.

With cheap DNA test just years away, many dads will be in for a shock if they secretly do tests.

I like this post, but i really don't get the part where OP said women are more prone to cheat in a distant relationship due to pressure, Abeg that English too high for me unto say I never go school, but are the women not the more faithful ones? especially the determined ones? Men are moved by what they see while women are moved by what they hear, now in a distant relationship, the guy must have come across more good looking and sexy ladies than his GF, and one thing may lead to d Oda, and he cheats! does it not count? but it takes a lot for a determined and well mannered girl to sit down n listen to the bullcrap of another guy bearing in mind that she's got a lover out there who claims he loves her.........
Meeehn! Me sef don dey confuse, I hope the scholars here can understand me n help me out.
Op, long and short be say, its the guys who are prone to cheat more often, under "sight" pressure.

This topic just hit me like lightening. It is frustrating, I must confess. My babe is based in Ibadan while I'm in Lagos. Another thing is that she's a virgin and a spirit koko. The last time she visited me in Lagos, she wouldn't even kiss me, let alone allow caressing- a thing we do regularly when we were in school. Her spirit koko level has gone up higher.

I even wanted to visit her in Ibadan, but her work schedule wouldn't allow it; even on weekends, she's not chanced because she will attend church stuffs and she's this homely daddy's girl(that is one of the reasons I love her), not like normal social oriented babes. The distance na d wahala

Had no choice than to comment and concur on what the OP has just said..... Broke up 3days ago after spending 5months apart, she just stopped CARING and started nagging! #Distant Relationship Sucks..

Sincerely speaking and from experience, I concur to all the points listed by the op. He is as correct as the word 'correct'

Namzy:

Kai this guy you are spot on. Send me your number make i apply some grease to your elbow

Correct man! Send me mail. Na kelvin.ukachukwu.nwosu@gmail.com. Cheers!!!

Well, some of the facts the op listed might be true but it all plays down to the determination, trust, good communication and honesty between both partners and I have a question for you Op. How many successful close relationships have you had Op

Rapmoney:
When dem no know wetin to talk for phone again, the guy go dey ask the babe, 'What did you eat this evening?' !!! Hehehe See problem o! Tomorrow, e go still ask the same question! Is it not just so boring?

Lol, na me and one gal be that.. she dey complain say my love for her has reduced and we live in diff state... abeg after 'have u eaten? Hw was your day and so on' wetin make I talk again o when e don reach 3 months weh I see her last.

Well, some of the facts the op listed might be true but it all plays down to the determination, trust, good communication and honesty between both partners and I have a question for you Op. If Long Distance Relationships don't work out, Please tell me how many successful face to face relationships you've had Op

Seriously speaking I appreciate this write up, it really capture everything about distance relationship, not taking side while giving room for the exceptional case if given a proper interpretation.