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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:32am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Lucky ke. We are talking of two different things here. A guy with a big long and fat diick and a guy that refuse to take you home 6yrs into a relationship.
. WTH is a Big Long Fat Dick. Why don't you just get married to a cucumber?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by dacovajnr: 11:32am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
He wasn't an idiot during those 6yrs after 6yrs he suddenly becomes one..who is fooling who? undecided
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Herrmes: 11:32am On Dec 12, 2015
For the sake of love? What the hell is that? He loves you that's why he's keeping you around.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by miqos02(m): 11:33am On Dec 12, 2015
dachaste:
If a gal sees a guy that's not ready for marriage she should know
some women love wasting their own time
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by udysweet(f): 11:33am On Dec 12, 2015
Hahaha! And one wasted 7 of mine! But its in d past!I guess I believed in love too and tried to make it work by all means,forgetting Bible says lean not on ur own understanding and also said by strength shall no man prevail. I wanted to help God but now,I'm calling Him into my affairs,can't afford anoda time waster o. Infact I'm typing this from Shiloh ground,I've tapped,received and ingested enof annointing(am willing to share some to u o,lol!)
Nobody shd come and label any lady here and be sayin its hard to get we're playing. Fine,we do mak mistakes but it is God dat pardons. That dsnt mean we shd jump at every Tom Dick and Harry one meets or approaches ones. I pray for a discerning spirit,to know henceforth,the ones who wants to come and waste our time or use us to satisfy sexual pleasures. Be gone in Jesus name,Amen!
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 12, 2015
grin
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
cheesy...sorry o
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Sanmel(f): 11:33am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Sweetheart its not funny at all. embarassed
Yeah... But a broken relationship is still better than a broken marriage... wink
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 12, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
doesn't show on the forehead you know?
Shows in his attitude... In his plans and goals.. In what he says.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ehix89(m): 11:35am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
Eyaaaaahhhh,hv yhu recovered now?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ladycomfort(f): 11:35am On Dec 12, 2015
gcof:
what more csn i do but laugh at this.....don't see it as a waste of time but as an experience you once had
. Yes you know experience they say is the best teacher.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Horlawale1(m): 11:35am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
See testimony shocked
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by elmisti(m): 11:35am On Dec 12, 2015
Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together undecided
Did you jst say 4yearshuh......so u mean d gal I will get married to is probably jst entering universityhuh....God will judge U!...If I am made b4 getn married, den all she see is a finished product, smtn she dsnt knw hw hard I wrkd for!..Wat hapnd to getn married to sm1 of equal. Success??....all dis gold- Wearing galz sef, dey dnt care hw d gold is mined!
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by elmisti(m): 11:36am On Dec 12, 2015
Desperate ladies everywr!
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ikbnice(m): 11:36am On Dec 12, 2015
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
IK Be nice! angry
lol
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Rajosh(m): 11:36am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
you mean he dumped you after six years? gosh the guy don chop tire.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by rileydaddy(m): 11:37am On Dec 12, 2015
getting marry is not a day thing,so we the guys need time and money.. grin
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ISLAM4theWISE: 11:37am On Dec 12, 2015
Is like anger and igbos is 5 n 6
obiorathesubtle:
that's her damn opinion.. Whatever she says is her business.. Doesn't change anything!
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ladycomfort(f): 11:37am On Dec 12, 2015
udysweet:
Hahaha! And one wasted 7 of mine! But its in d past!I guess I believed in love too and tried to make it work by all means,forgetting Bible says lean not on ur own understanding and also said by strength shall no man prevail. I wanted to help God but now,I'm calling Him into my affairs,can't afford anoda time waster o. Infact I'm typing this from Shiloh ground,I've tapped,received and ingested enof annointing(am willing to share some to u o,lol!)
Nobody shd come and label any lady here and be sayin its hard to get we're playing. Fine,we do mak mistakes but it is God dat pardons. That dsnt mean we shd jump at every Tom Dick and Harry one meets or approaches ones. I pray for a discerning spirit,to know henceforth,the ones who wants to come and waste our time or use us to satisfy sexual pleasures. Be gone in Jesus name,Amen!
. Seven years . You know life itself is a lesson. No more time wasters in Jesus name
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 12, 2015
Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together undecided
A girl that starts dating @20 may not be looking at getting married when she's 21. So ur one year maximum is quite restrictive.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by akanbiaa(m): 11:38am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
eyaaa hard luck to him
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by tivta(m): 11:38am On Dec 12, 2015
Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together undecided
Beautiful advice, if only girls or ladies would take it.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by tivta(m): 11:39am On Dec 12, 2015
akindap07:
Oh!!! Havent u heard about guys chasing a girl for 4 years....as if she's his university degreehuh
Jobless guys...
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Obynolee(f): 11:39am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
6 whole yearshuh,i believe the guy must have big,long and fat dick that made you to stay that long.If that is the case,the years were not wasted.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by gcof(m): 11:39am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Yes you know experience they say is the best teacher.
smiley
ladycomfort:
. Yes you know experience they say is the best teacher.
i also think there's more to that story sha
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 12, 2015
iAmCharis:
One lady that knows her worth spotted.

Let me take you shopping for Christmas. smiley
...no be small thing cheesy
Thanks smiley
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ladycomfort(f): 11:40am On Dec 12, 2015
Rajosh:
you mean he dumped you after six years? gosh the guy don chop tire.
. Not really dump . He is now married to a daughter of a chief justice in the country. What do we call this?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by skelewu404(m): 11:41am On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
chisos shocked, is he a nairalander?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 12, 2015
princetigris:
guess you've not met my friend Obi.. His parent welcome every Jane, jenny and janet.
Lmao... Now, that's just plainly hilarious!
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 12, 2015
Its always fun to use and waste bitches time grin
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ehix89(m): 11:43am On Dec 12, 2015
dachaste:
U mean afta dating a guy for 2 to 3 months I won't?




Naah I surely will. Reason y. I blAme D so called 5-years-in-relationship-but-broken ladies
is dat hw u hurry men to the alter,,,loads of stuffs goes tru our mind before we decide to tk a woman as a wife,i dnt think women consider a tiny percentage of all wat we do before go into marriage...dat institute no be 4 children
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by tivta(m): 11:43am On Dec 12, 2015
princetigris:
guess you've not met my friend Obi.. His parent welcome every Jane, jenny and janet.
Just like my friend femi whose father allows him to keep his girlfriends in his house overnight...
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ladycomfort(f): 11:43am On Dec 12, 2015
skelewu404:
chisos shocked, is he a nairalander?
. No why the question
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