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Oliviaarims:
I really don't believe in apportioning blames in matters like this. Some men are just naturally selfish and users. They can't be changed. So, it's left to the woman to be smart and put her sixth sense to good use. If a lady doesn't know her boundaries in a relationship, how she should be treated by her man and when to take a walk, then it's such a pity.

artisticallyart:
Leave that girl! She was talking to one of my guy about coming g to Lagos that she is currently on leave! Rubbish.

udysweet:
*smiles* tnx a lot! As for dat church part,infact I've signed convenant wit God two days ago at d shiloh prog,I need to get serios. Overshy no go kill me,mixing up wit pple in my zone is a big issue for me maybe because everyone has caucus,lol!hardly mix wit pple,most times I'm on my own save for social media life o(wat an irony)
Dat cinema own,I shd do dat dis Xmas,need to go out more often. Yeah der are gud men,wat is needed is divine connection,that thing dat will bring u pple togeda.
Merry xmas in advance!

Suigeneris93:
Every relationship should be expected to lead to smth tangible in future. Marriage cannot be seperated from Companionship if u ask me

artisticallyart:
Yes, never ignore a woman's feelings, instincts and foresight about somethings, you never go with her instinct. I forgot to add, weight it well because some of thier instincts are for selfish gains.

Adaobi12:
I concur with you. but most times we ladies are kinda shy and scared of baring our minds, so as not to be termed desperate.

Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together

ladycomfort:
. Yes very cunny. You will ask them to take you to their parent. They will be telling you one story or the other.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

obiorathesubtle:
we said the same thing.. You just didn't see it because you know I'm not a woman just like you.. And you're wired to act that way.

obiorathesubtle:
doesn't show on the forehead you know?

Odunharry:
I so much believe in apportioning blame.
if a lady meet an abusive boyfriend and still continue in that relationship hoping miracle will happen and he will change for her, then she's on a long long thing.

in such case, I usually blame the lady most for seeing fire and still trying to get closer to it.



I believe we are responsible for any decisions we take as human and if the outcome is good ,the rewards goes to the decision maker and if bad, it's vice versa

Cully408:
Guy only babies won't knw u aren't ready, same tin happen to me. My fiancée see it in me dat am a flirt nd nt ready for any tin marriage yet but she took d guts to confront me to quit d relationship if am nt ready nd am scared of loosing her so I had take d necessary step nd we re happily married nw nd we re expecting our first baby soon.

Chicagoesontop:
No We Are Far From That, She Told Me That She Is Praying Earnestly For Me To Get A Good Wife And She Will Love To Be Friends With My Wife Even, So She Can Even Help Lecture Her How She Will Understand To Cope And Be Happy With Me, (we both laughed at this ), She Is Now Like My Blood Sister We Discuss Maturely Now Cos I Know She Is Wise, That's Why I Love Her, And I am Wise Too That's Why She Loves Me, So We Don't Think On That Angle, We Only Call And Not See !!!

ladycomfort:
. No why the question

fabulous85:
read what you wrote as your signature in your profile. the ''Idiot" was actually lucky.he must have realised he will be making a big mistake.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

marvelck:
This goes out to guys who are fond of hurting/deceiving girls intentionally... Don't think that girl you have been dating for like 3 years, and who has been giving you enough love and care all this while is happy just being a girlfriend when all her mates are getting married every weekend while you are busy delaying things and enjoying all the privileges of a wife from her.

If care is not taken, she might start having or looking at other options, since her biological clock (or goals) runs faster than yours. And before you know it, you wil be surprised to hear she's getting married soon to someone else. Bros, stop wasting time, and stop playing with the hearts of ladies. When a woman loves a guy dearly, she'll be willing to make sacrifice for the guy. She will be willing to wait and also endure. But mind you, there is a limit to every woman's patience. Women work on time... Lets do what's right for the sake of love!

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

Godmother:
You sef, why would you date a guy for 6 years, haba! Nothing was forthcoming and you still stayed put. Babe you tried o.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

bigcil2:
There are serious ones that are ready just that the responsible girls are very few. It's like picking stones from beans. You can count the stones but not the beans.

GeoOla25:
Pele...let me have your number.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

DeeTus:
Hahaha bad boy.

You want to waste her another 6 years? Making it 12 years, huh? God's watching you.

Love Machine:
Hurt no be love rara.

Tundeiab:
Sorry dear...
Hope you have finally found Mr right?

iceberylin:
Who is fooling who

DeeTus:
Hahaha bad boy.

You want to waste her another 6 years? Making it 12 years, huh? God's watching you.