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My Conscience Is Pricking Me. I Am Consumed By Serious Guilt And I Cannot Help M / I Had Sex With A Girl Unconsciously Am Feeling Guilty And My Conscience Is Killi / Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by jairusben(m): 12:18pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
poseidon12:as in ehn,,it might sound cool to others, but it is against all medical ethics |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by teelaw4life(m): 12:19pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
JustHere2Observ: So does that right include deliberate unwillingness to disclose their HIV status to someone they are in an intimate relationship with? Abeg jare...Una wey be say una don read book tire lyk dis, na so una brain go dey misfire. The nigga did good as far as I'm concerned even if I don't support the manner in which he discovered the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:19pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Analysiscorner:how do you know that's her plan? She might not be aware of her hiv status |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by tochez24(m): 12:19pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Tamee: u r jst a FOOL...u r talkin abt d right of someone dat purposefully wants 2kill anoda person,witout any atom pity.yet u come hia nd talk rubbish!!! |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Analysiscorner: 12:20pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
MsSantaClaus:This is why jungle justice persists in Nigeria. The burden of proof may be hard to present in a law court, but that doesn't mean that the case lacks merit. The op is not, by this post, celebrating drugging and obtaining any body fluid by force; he is only happy for saving a life, wishing that none of us falls for such lady. 1 Like |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 12:21pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Tamee: Alright then. |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 12:21pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
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Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Moana(f): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
olutunde12:you clearly have no knowledge of what human rights are and what they are there for. Everyone has a right to human dignity, privacy and a right not to be treated in a inhumane or degrading manner. All these rights were violated by drugging her until she was unconscious and taking a test without her knowledge or consent. But let me enlighten you, no doctor or medical professional is allowed to do any form of test which includes blood test without the persons knowledge or consent of the person on whom the test is being conducted on. He can be banned from practising if he engages is such conduct. In a normal world with civil people it is regarded as a serious misconduct. There was always an option that he could break up with her on the grounds that she isnt being open and honest with him. Its as simple as that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
iAmCharis: Una don divorce? |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by homesteady(m): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Onegai: All these girls here are shameless set of evil witches! SMH! Did Dr Adadevo know Patrick Sawyer medical history before detaining him and possibly sedating him? Stop displaying your sexist ignorance, Almost all sedatives are safe for everybody! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by tochez24(m): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: she wld hv follow ha man 2da hospital or beta stil go alone nd disclose ha status 2ha partner....she owes him dat u knw because he life s always on d line anytym he goes inbtwn ha legs.y cnt ppl jst reason?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 12:24pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: 1 Like |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
tochez24:all these are baseless assumptions. The guy should have backed out of the relationship. What they did to her is just not right. It's got legal implications |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Tamee:We aren't saying he's all right in what he did. Judging from the circumstance that surrounded it, it's pardonable. He saved a life. I won't shy away from hammering on this, cos if you really want to be honest, women and girls are worst hit in terms of violations in several aspects and everyone who fight for women shouldn't be termed sexist..Women and girls don't get their rights violated in Nigeria by Nigerian men only like you've been yapping about. It happens everywhere, even in your street. The bolded part of your previous comment I quoted gives light to you been a sexist. You wouldn't be bleeding all about this thread if it was a man's right that was violated by a lady to save a female friend.[/quote] [/quote]Btw, if all is well, Docmann wouldn't have had the guts to post this on social media. Imagine if he lives in USA and posted this on facebook, he would lose his job and get jailed. So don't blame me for insisting on protecting the right of women in a society as flawed as this.[/quote]Go protect the lives of women in your country. What country do you live in btw that's so perfect and not flawed one bit? Sorry for the long essayYou're welcome. |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:26pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Tamee:my ghost friend who disappears and reappears |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:Abegi not aware kwa. The lady only wanted to tie him down by infecting him so they can tie the knots. 1 Like |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 12:28pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
iAmCharis:Happy Holidays |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Onegai(f): 12:28pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
homesteady: You are not educated. If you were, you won't say that. Is this what Nigeria is producing as graduates? So Lexotan and all Barbiturates are now safe for everyone?? 1 Like |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 12:29pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: Lol I see you flirting everywhere though. How's your holiday going? |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by tochez24(m): 12:30pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: luk at how easy it sounds in ur mouth neglectin d favt luv nd emotions r involved..as far as m concerned,d gal got exactly wat she deserved.nd if i m ha man,i wil hrtlessly deal wit haaa ma own way. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by homesteady(m): 12:30pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Onegai: Sharrrap! The man knew he had Ebola and he came to Nigeria to seek spiritual help from a MOG! It was well recorded that when he was taken to the hospital, he was struggling with the medical personnels around and even removed the drip they gave him, spilling blood everywhere! The Liberian Ambassador was even telling the hospital to release him, but the hospital resisted 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
iAmCharis:Bros, do you think all ladies like condom? How many people go for hiv test? What if she's only trying to make the guy impregnate her? Btw, who said condom is 100% protection? |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:33pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
tochez24:ok sir. The guy was right |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Nobody: 12:35pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Tamee:You know that's not true so you do see me without saying hi? That's interesting No hols. Just had few days off |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by edward1984(m): 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Op you committed a crime, by drugging her, taking her blood without her permission and I can't believe people on NL are supporting you and happy about what you did. So now what, did you report the girl to the right authorities ? Is she freely out there with another guy? If you ask a girl to go for HIV test and she refuses, you call off the relationship, it's as simple as that, not violating her right. I believe your story is a lie, you just wanted to hit the spotlight. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by dachin(m): 12:38pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Guy, you bleeped up big time! How could you drug someone's drink? How could you take her blood without her conscent? Do you actually know the implications of what you did? What you did is as bad as stealing from someone to feed your poor family; it is unacceptable despite how beatiful it looks. You should ve advised your lovy lovy friend to just quit than committing this abominable crime. You are just wicked! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by MsSantaClaus(f): 12:38pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
homesteady: Please DO NOT BE TOTALY RIDICULOUS! How in your tiny mind are the two cases the same? Patrick Sawyer Presented himself to a Hospital for Treatment of what he did not even know, so it's the hospitals duty to find out what was wrong and treat him , he had already given permission to be treated! Dr Adedavoh was a trained Doctor employed by that hospital, she was also mandated by law to report any infectious disease that may put the populace in danger. By the time Patrick Sawyer was refusing treatment he was already in a state of delirium brought on by the Ebola! In this instance the lady was kept against her will in a flat, ( by being drugged, which is tantamount to kidnap ), her blood was taken, again , against her will, as she was not aware, a test was conducted on her sample by a person who we are not even sure is a trained medical personnel , again , against her will, Which part of this story, do you in your mind find similar to the Patrick Sawyer saga Please, in trying to justify what is wrong, don't sound utterly stupid!!! Several crimes were committed, whether Nigeria is a lawless country or not, those who are reasonable cannot be deceived by his cry of fear of HIV!! The right thing to do would have been for his friend to walk away from the lady. Two wrongs do not make a right! The OP is just lucky the lady woke up and walked away, if not he would be singing a different song by now!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by homesteady(m): 12:41pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Onegai: You are surely not educated because I clearly stated Almost all! Well I forgot I was not discussing with a fellow medical colleague so your range of thoughts was wider! Even sniffing fuel can act as a sedative. I was referring to the legal ones. |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by homesteady(m): 12:42pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
MsSantaClaus: Search my posts, I've given a reply for this issue. |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Tamee(f): 12:42pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod: You want proof huh |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Analysiscorner: 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:Yes, chances are that she doesn't know her hiv status. But what could be her motive for insisting on having it raw? I feel that she is very much aware of her hiv status; but, as she doesn't want to lose the guy when he eventually finds out, devised this means of insisting to do it raw, so that if he is infected too, it would be the point of no return in their marriage - they would just marry. A brother to a friend of mine married such. And despite his wife's knowledge of her hiv status b4 marriage, did not disclose such to him, even after marriage and giving birth to their first baby. It was not until the baby became persistently sick, and the hospital ordered for hiv test ,on the baby which came out positive , that his wife opened up to him that she was aware of her hiv status before marriage .The happy part, though was that the husband tested negative. |
Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by nduchucks: 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
homesteady: What the OP did is unethical on all levels. Fullstop. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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