gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

OP my advise to you is, invite her over, take her out, buy her your last maga crunches, seduce her, have sex with her and then tell her it's over after the sex..

Thank me later..

IamMissMarvel:
You are dating a girl and not a woman. Shikenan.

A woman would use the money you would have spent on fast food to cook you two or three different small portioned soups.

As a means of your appreciation, you'll buy her gifts even without her demanding it.

Most fast food and gifts demanding girls are unemployed so the only means to having their way is with men who are drooling after them.

Who fine geh help? Marry a woman who will add value to your life first, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and finamcially by helping u save.

That one no mean say u go be aradite o. No woman wants to marry a stingy man or one who can't maintain her standard or improve it.

Intelligent comment

What's your definition of being stingy because some ladies, once a guy cannot buy IPhone 7 or other expensive gifts for them, he is automatically tag a stingy dude. So u can shed more light to your meaning of a stingy guy.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

Dump her already!

Bro the girl is not yet ready.. buh I would advise u to test her in some aspect.. like reducing the things u normally do for her for a period of time and see what her reactions would be. If she remain positive and wantin to stay with you den you she wants to stay. Just try and take things easy with her and act reluctant sometimes... watch what she say and how she says it to you that how is you will know if she really love you.

Let me give you a piece of advice. Dump her ! When you have done that ,come and tell us the testimony. I dated someone like that .Everyone told me to dump her but I refused . Later she dumped me when I had nothing . I mean nothing on my bank account. Please take my advice and you will find someone different.But make sure she is not less than 26yrs old.Matured minded ones are few below 26

All she sees in u is just a mr biggs or tantalizer and nothing more.

Mypeople2:
Let me give you a piece of advice. Dump her ! When you have done that ,come and tell us the testimony. I dated someone like that .Everyone told me to dump her but I refused . later she dumped me when I had nothing . I mean nothing on my bank account. Please take my advice and you will find someone different.But make sure she is not less than 26yrs old.Matured minded ones are few below 26

O ga o

Baba why 26

STFUareyouGod:
Looks like one of them

And my age? Old enough to be your uncle

Old enough to be his uncle? Then you made yourself sound like his nephew

fast food and always demanding for money, when i finally got access i did it like a IndecentStar, i have not set my eyes on her again and she now ignor my calls ( but na only her waka come oo)

streetzdreamz:
bless your soul for this, we still have reasonable ladies around us, my girl wouldn't even let me take her out or buy her stuffs from the eatery,she'd rather cook with the money than go eat out, most times I get pissed at her attitudes, no request whatsoever, do things at ma own time and pace, yet she'd still complain its too much, of which I do reply her with, a lady that demands nothing deserves everything good, I hope you good ladies will keep meeting deserving guys, not those hungry sex starve9d mofos ruining men's reputations out there.

Reasonable ladies like ur gf does dat but these days, ladies tend to b unreasonable towards material things and food. At Op, ur impression of spoiling her with fast food in d beginning was ur fault bt nw u have to sit her down and talk sense into her and see if she changes bt if she doesnt, u shud knw by then that u are jst one of her maga. Relationships shouldnt base on gifts bt love and understanding

You know all this,so why are you still dating her?

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luminouz:

Why won't she call u? U think anyone would be happy to lose their ATM? Coz Ur an investment to her bro!

If I were a girl, I'd be waking my magas up from sleep with calls and sending them to bed with soul touching love songs.. The OP never jam self..

dollyjoy:
To all those advising the op to dump his girlfriend, breakups doesn't occur that way, breaking up should be op's last resolve if all means of correction fails.

I think the OP has really tried bearing the hungry nature of his girlfriend which already has become an inherent gene in her.

I don't think she can change and the best way for OP is to call the relationship off. A broken relationship is better than divorce. She may do worse in marriage.

Tajbol4splend:



Old enough to be his uncle? Then you made yourself sound like his nephew

Is that a coincidence? Isn't that how his uncle sounds?

gedtalks:


to be sincere I'm actually looking for a reason to keep her. permit me to say this : my "demand" is really higher than the average guy.. and I know it like I know my name.. I just don't allow it intoxicate me

You are only keeping her basically because of her looks, don't tell me you haven't meet girls that has the opposite of all her characters but you will ignore them or threat them badly. Instead you prefer to settle with one that possess the secondary traits less than that of virtuous woman.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

what you just said here is the exact trait now commonly found in today's young women or women of this upcoming generation. Its really a shame but our women are FAST losing their core values all in the name of civilization through the imitation of western values which we are already paying a heavy price for. I really pity the upcoming male generation becos they might never get to experience or enjoy the sweet taste of virtuousness of the true african woman, wife and mother like our fathers did...

So bros, from what u have explained, you have already gotten an answer... You have the signs, take the CON..

henrydadon:


bros abort mission and run as fast as your leg can carry you..this one will dump you immediately she sense you are going broke..dump her before she dump you..you are not charity

As simple as ABC

streetzdreamz:
bless your soul for this, we still have reasonable ladies around us, my girl wouldn't even let me take her out or buy her stuffs from the eatery,she'd rather cook with the money than go eat out, most times I get pissed at her attitudes, no request whatsoever, do things at ma own time and pace, yet she'd still complain its too much, of which I do reply her with, a lady that demands nothing deserves everything good, I hope you good ladies will keep meeting deserving guys, not those hungry sex starved mofos ruining men's reputations out there.

hian, she be village girl and you are in the city? please marry her 1st and you will see all that is a charade, no one hates good things in life, but its not good for any lady to remember her tummy, or her hair, phones only when he sees her man/bf.

lmao...I have the best girl friend

STFUareyouGod:
Is that a coincidence? Isn't that how his uncle sounds?

The guy only wants advice about his relationship but seems u don't believe his story or not take it serious

gedtalks:
Another thing that is really confusing me is that most of the girls I've dated frequently ask for money. I don't know if its the same thing all guys face. in fact honestly I see it as a Nigerian girls character.

this one is annoying me cos I want her to pay attention to more important things.. but she is not. I am really the one reading her. I am seeing a lot of her secrets. Contrarily she doesn't know ANYTHING about me.. she hasn't seen my bad part.. The only way she can discover this is when her interest is in SEEING AND KNOWING MORE. like I am reading her glutinous characters

Why won't they keep on asking you for money when you go about forming Bill Gates for them. I've once had serious issues with my ex in the past. She knew I was jobless and broke, yet she called me and asked for money. The way I scolded her and avoided her for months afterwards, she knew that really, this guy condition bad pass her own. But some Mumu guys would go borrow money just to impress girls.

Dat a serious bad bus stop bro u need to move to d next bus stop she aren't any good

henrydadon:


bros abort mission and run as fast as your leg can carry you..this one will dump you immediately she sense you are going broke..dump her before she dump you..you are not charity

ikp120:
A committed maga has been spotted!

He's committed to commit for as many Maga lovers as possible..

She have turn you to MMM

kindly look for someone else like me,no forget to bring the food tooooooo

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

Chairman na wetin she be to you? Girl friend or Fiance and if na fiance like u stated. Didnt you see or notice all this traits in her before she graduated to fiance level? U better shine ur eyes o before them go use u as sacrificial Lamb. A word is enough......

STFUareyouGod:
Is this another palmchat story?

It is people like your type that have made Romance section so childish the way it is!!! Someone posted an experience seeking for advice. Since you didn't have any worthy advice to offer, commonsense should have told you to keep shut!

Billyonaire:
Keep on fast-fooding her naw. Why you wan stop ?

I wonder

Finally the ban is over

gedtalks:
Another thing that is really confusing me is that most of the girls I've dated frequently ask for money. I don't know if its the same thing all guys face. in fact honestly I see it as a Nigerian girls character.

this one is annoying me cos I want her to pay attention to more important things.. but she is not. I am really the one reading her. I am seeing a lot of her secrets. Contrarily she doesn't know ANYTHING about me.. she hasn't seen my bad part.. The only way she can discover this is when her interest is in SEEING AND KNOWING MORE. like I am reading her glutinous characters

Your tactical approach is wrong. If you are painting yourself as a big guy in order to attract a good looking lady when u suppose to present yourself as a normal person, then u will become their ATM machine. Bros, not all these big and beautiful babes are fascinated by money. You are not the only one who have showered money on them as bigger boiz have done much better in the past.

Be yourself and know when necessary to spend and when not to. Ladies are not just looking for financial security in a guy.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

Good evening all, this is Lestat once again.. and this time I bring to you another putrid , vomit inducing post!
Posts created by a subset of a subset of nauseating emotional man-boys! No I don't mean your regular still living with mummy and daddy 30 something year old baby daddy's..no. these are even worse than those these are a lower subset of angry , delusional , masturbators who belong to a wretched. Disgusting pit of fvck!
Did you just read this sh1t?
Do you all put yourselves through the torture of reading this poorly worded rant of a weakling attention wh0re of a man boy?
The OP deserves to be alone and sad for this garbage he made us read.
Shame on you OP. No pints for your id1ocy!
Go to bed and rethink your life.
No one wants to read your pathetic post because it's an insult to intelligence and imagination