DaisyII:
. Will you marry me?

i gladly will if there is a connection and i really love you ,

MykOnyxo:
For the love of reproduction and multiplication; for the fulfilment of God's first advice to man; for the continuation of my lineage; and for crying out loud for my peenies who would be subjected to serious digging and fluid pumping without solid result, I will just divorce her and marry someone else ni......
Ask me why I won't keep her for love...

Because she herself didn't love herself fa

You are supported 200%.
You brought point and sense together.

grandstar:
I will go ahead with the wedding as long as I know she has changed. I will really miss kids though.

Whats most important is the knowledge that a new world is coming in which righteousness will dwell. In that world, all our needs will be satisfied including children. We are only temporary dwellers in this system of things. (Read 2 Peter 3:13,Isaiah 65:21-25, Revelations 21:3,4)

We live our lives thinking this is the only world there is. It is not. Lets keep praying for that kingdom to come as Jesus advised.

For more info about the promised new word, please visit www.jw.org

The moment i read 'promised new world' i knew it was kingdom hall things loading.
Your views and sacrifices are inspiring and appreciated too.

nellyelitz:
I'm not sure I'll divorce her

Nice of you all the same. so you share same views with grandstar and the sacrifices that go with it.

PaperLace:
1)Impotency doesn't mean he can't father a child. You can have kids via ARTs (IVF/ICSI...) except he is also 'infertile'. Impotency is treatable.

2)Most women who have issues conceiving due to abortion complications still produce eggs, it's most times the uterus affected. So_ she can also have her own biological child. Thanks to surrogacy/ARTs.

3)That marriage was conceived on deceit(that's me assuming the partner knew prior to the marriage). You reserve the right to walk away. The choice to forgive is strictly yours. Either way,it's not going to be a smooth ride. Put on your seatbelt
What will I do? I can't say for now.

You've covered this intelligently from every aspect.
This, coming from a lady while some virtual-males like cas/trol180 shamelessly prattle insane nonesense.
i'm proud of you girl.
thumbs up.

Alphamale2017:
i gladly will if there is a connection and i really love you ,

There will be.Papi will post our pre-wedding pics here on NL.

DaisyII:
There will be.Papi will post our pre-wedding pics here on NL.

I see chemistry here.
Nice one girly. Alphamale in his idealogy sure looks like a dream man to any lady.
I hope to get an invitation oo.

Meanwhile, i'm proud to be the first to like your picture, girly.

LoveMe4real:
Adoption

nice and you'll be loved for real. IJN

menthomatics:
Re-marry.

Does that mean having two wives?.

illicit:
I wont divorce her but I will still have kids, If she is understanding we can have a big and wonderful family

i like this. well done guy.

greggng:
Since am a guy I will answer the one applicable to me. I will not send my wife packing. If she truly repented and ask for forgiveness from God I will accept her. We now ve to decide about adopting children or we can both decide I get another wife. I won't treat her with disrespect cos if God has forgiven her, who am I to condemn her

There are surely good men left in Naija.
who says all men are the same?

rhymesnoni:
as a nothern man na 2nd wife things na, no time to waste!!!!!!!!!

I understand.
Being entitled to four.

cybriz82:
evn in play play...in film trick...in example..iz will never b my portion in jesus name..

Hahaha LWKMD!!!!

thornapple:

The moment i read 'promised new world' i knew it was kingdom hall things loading.
Your views and sacrifices are inspiring and appreciated too.

Thanks a lot. I know of many couples who are childless but are more concered about keeping integrity down to the end!

Come join us {Revelations 22:12)

thornapple:

Nice of you all the same. so you share same views with grandstar and the sacrifices that go with it.

I'm still single but I'll make up my mind to for any eventuality ... But God never disappoints me anyways.

thornapple:

nice and you'll be loved for real. IJN

Amen nd u too sis

Jay542:
I'll dislike her instantly. We won't be able to stay together anymore.

.I sense nwa Igbo commenting.

Caseless:
you de understand english so? You think say she be decent girl, that's what u married her for and turned out to be something else. What will u do?

Nice clarification.

ikp120:

And so? You no read where OP talk say the babe do the abortions before we met? This is simply a case of one's ugly past surfacing in the future to haunt them.

I will love her to the point that she no go even remember her past again. I don't know why people dey make too much noise about other people's pasts like say they themselves wey dey form "holy" no live bad life before.

Every saint has a past! Kini big deal ni?

I married her because she IS a decent girl, not because she WAS a decent girl. It's only a fool wey go marry a girl because of her past. We've all got a past for fvcking sake mehn!

Nice defence. Credible.

Lush100:
sorry folk, I am already married and we have kids already.

better luck next time

congrats

wahyasay:
the barren and the impotent should marry each other #faqottt

Lmao
u wicked o.

Toay:
I will ask my mum for advice

I hear u, like u actually will.

oforij:
DIVORCE

u have a point though umunna and divorce be like 5&6.

EmpresFIDEL:
married couple make love while God make babies so allow God to take control. . it's not a big deal

Nice one,

pLord:
I will simply divorce her and let her go peacefully than keep her and cheat or try to have a child outside wedlock. I can't be the victim of someone's youthful exuberance.

lol

i understand ur views but you can still keep her and work out a solution with her.

DozieInc:
After going through so many comments, for me. IT IS A BIG DEAL.

Yes, it surely is.
In fact the situation i gave as the background made is a big deal. So i support your views.
However, some comments have suggested solutions too.

Aderola15:


Hiannnnnnn... Don't mind those girls, they know nothing about real men like you hun.

Oya oya, wee you marry me?

Hahaha,
Nice one, nothing do you jare.

eazisky:



u sound like a kid... that is y its not a problem to u

@ thornapple though difficult but take it to the lord in prayers

Really Work out a solution to a destroyed or non existing womb?? My sister that won't work for me, I don't have time to be moving from one prayers house to another or from one fertility specialist to another. Amicable breakup will be the best solution. I wasn't there when she was skin diving from one bed to the other. I cherish my peace of mind abeg.

thornapple:


lol

i understand ur views but you can still keep her and work out a solution with her.

pLord:
Really Work out a solution to a destroyed or non existing womb?? My sister that won't work for me, I don't have time to be moving from one prayers house to another or from one fertility specialist to another. Amicable breakup will be the best solution. I wasn't there when she was skin diving from one bed to the other. I cherish my peace of mind abeg.

Hahahaha, looool
That's logical any way

Collyno82:
@ thornapple though difficult but take it to the lord in prayers

Thanks a lot.
you are a good friend.