alexialin:




Good! Then don't whine neither should broke guys complain when girls are not dating them.

There are 3 surprise packages I have for my fiance on our wedding day and after wedding day. Which he's is not aware of. And trust me. He will be blown away when that time comes . He will be thanking God everyday for been helpful,extremly loving and standing by me. I told one of my male friend about the surprise, he was like wow! Your fiance is a lucky guy! Jeez! If I had known! Alexia Mehn! I just look am with one bad eye. but these are much o! And seriously don't tell him yet.. I said nope am not telling him.. It's a surprise from me to him. So in his next life, he will keep being a nice guy.
I like loyal friends and bf. They bring out the best in me. Am not tightfisted.

So it's good u don't date Broke Girls.

Why is your last statement always summarizing and contradicting everything. You loved your soon to be husband because he was there when things were tight for you and now you are telling me not to be good to those that things are hard for? You can't use your situation to make a summary of all other relationships out there. I have seen broke ladies who doesn't demand anything, they know it will be well. A lady once visited me, and during her stay, one of her friend was calling her that she is in dire need of 2k. She was telling me to pay it up, not that I don't have it but I declined. The reason is that I can't solve her problem and that of her friend. If Nigeria is good, this question won't even arise in the first place. Have you thought of how relationships goes in US? They are far ahead of this issue.

When I read threads like this.

I start to wonder...


Who are these girls doing a favour.?

Again I ask..


When did MEN BECOME WEAK.?

Alesandese:
Na so Mama Kelechi sit with vision, twenty years later ordinary mirror them no get. Abegii

Is she your mum?

WriteBoy:


What is an unrealistic dream? What is a realistic one?

Evidently, you do have immense comprehension issues and I would encourage you to go back to that post and read up. When you have done that please come back and ponder on the following:

1. Is a girl who coops up with a guy because of his dreams and vision not one gullible gold-digging fellow?
2. What measures and factors would you use to determine a man who is destined to be broke? If you know of any one, please do tell.
3. What is wrong with a woman planning her life without factoring a man into the equation. If they do it, would they fall and die?

I know what your problem is: You think you are smart. I also think a rock is smart.

If you were close, I would have given you four bottles of whatever you take. You are damn right.

Don't. mind those shallow thinkers

Alesandese:
Exactly! If men are not ready to marry liabilities why should women do? No one should be a parasite in a relationship/ marriage.

WTF re you saying Nigeria women are always the parasite in a relationship

Where is the Love that birthed great things in Nigeria.
Materialism has eaten deep into us all as a nation.

A lady that wants money without the cost is joking, nothing is free. You want a rich dude! Ok, that's cool. Me...

I am broke but can feed myself, I have a promising sales career, I don't have a car, my parents love me because I am a son not because I am poor or rich. My salary is not enough to bring me out of broke ness. The question is;

WILL I PERISH BECAUSE I AM BROKE?

the Nigerian society let's you know that when you are broke, you are useless. I think not; my only goal now is to save enough and leave this country and settle someplace else never to return, not because of the hardship but because of the hard hearted-ness of the citizenry.

Op dem ladies don hear, even me self don tap from ur advice, girls no dey kukuma gree for me b4, so i don triple my hustling so as to be successful in every aspect of my life... Thank u op

Wat's all these brouhaha for?
Girls ain't forced to be in a broke ass relationships.
It's your life... Y not njoy and lead it to the way u want.


And for u op, keep ya advice to yasef. Girls in relationships are responsible for whr they're.
Before you enter into any relationship, guess u should be mature enough to know wat you want.
Save the preaching to yasef.

mrphysics:

Why is your last statement always summarizing and contradicting everything. You loved your soon to be husband because he was there when things were tight for you and now you are telling me not to be good to those that things are hard for? You can't use your situation to make a summary of all other relationships out there. I have seen broke ladies who doesn't demand anything, they know it will be well. A lady once visited me, and during her stay, one of her friend was calling her that she is in dire need of 2k. She was telling me to pay it up, not that I don't have it but I declined. The reason is that I can't solve her problem and that of her friend. If Nigeria is good, this question won't even arise in the first place. Have you thought of how relationships goes in US? They are far ahead of this issue.

Well Said brother..

The ideology of Nigerian Girls towards Dating/Relationships is Ridiculous.

Everyday a Child is born.

When guys stop going out with broke ass ladies they will wake up from their slumber too so they will realise that making money isn't easy like opening up your legs to get it.

mrphysics:

Why is your last statement always summarizing and contradicting everything. You loved your soon to be husband because he was there when things were tight for you and now you are telling me not to be good to those that things are hard for? You can't use your situation to make a summary of all other relationships out there. I have seen broke ladies who doesn't demand anything, they know it will be well. A lady once visited me, and during her stay, one of her friend was calling her that she is in dire need of 2k. She was telling me to pay it up, not that I don't have it but I declined. The reason is that I can't solve her problem and that of her friend. If Nigeria is good, this question won't even arise in the first place. Have you thought of how relationships goes in US? They are far ahead of this issue.

I purposely say u shouldn't help Broke Girls.. cause u were saying it as if Broke Girls av disease or something, so am backing u up on your philosophy not to date any broke girl, as that's your choice and decision. I don't need to change your decision about dating one.
Read your first mention.
And pls this is not US, this is Nigeria.

Isookayy isookayy. Let me solve this problem for everyone.
Everyone should abide by this rule before dating or getting married :
1. Broke guys should not date or marry broke girls.
2. Broke ladies should not date or marry broke guys.
3. You must provide original copies of your bank statement with a minimum of 10 million Naira in it before formally dating or getting married.
I believe the above rule will help all of us. We all deserve the best out of any relationship.

Safiaa:
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

OP I must commend you on this one. This question goes to those bashing OP: would you let your sister marry a broke guy with a fantasy?

women be leading men to early grave since 19 adam.what if i say that guys should date only rich girls.fellow guys should be careful cos the women folk sees us as a means to their goals.there is no LOVE BETWEEN THE SONS OF ADAM AND THE DAUGHTERS OF EVE.

biz2get:


Well Said brother..

The ideology of Nigerian Girls towards Dating/Relationships is Ridiculous.

Everyday a Child is born.

Very ridiculous. Don't mind them. I have had the opportunity to work with most of them in terms of hustling, they always quit because they can't make it. Yet, when they see a struggling guy, they won't value the fact he is trying

FelixFelicis:
Only an immature person will reason with you, you don't even know that vision + work isn't guaranteed success. Oluwa ni shola

please preach on, girls better not take this as an advice cos it can be very misleading.

Smellymouth:
Ok o

Baba,some ladies are very funny,your meme na the bomb#weldone sir

Alesandese:
Exactly! If men are not ready to marry liabilities why should women do? No one should be a parasite in a relationship/ marriage.

You can stay away from marriage honey. Its not by force

Maxcollins042:

OP I must commend you on this one. This question goes to those bashing OP: would you let your sister marry a broke guy with a fantasy?

What is your definition of "A Fantasy"?...

mrphysics:

If you were close, I would have given you four bottles of whatever you take. You are damn right.

Don't. mind those shallow thinkers

Lol bro -- I hands-offed women's matter a long time ago. Something triggered it. Perhaps you can take a minute to think about it too:

"In ten thousand years of recorded civilization and history, women have never in any instance been the leaders of any culture or civilization. Could this be attributed to a fatal flaw in their makeup that seeks to pull down instead of build?"

When you realize that the success and future of the world indeed rests upon us as men putting women in their place, lest all the work men have done to make earth the thing it is today be lost, you will not take prisoners.

biz2get:
When I read threads like this.

I start to wonder...


Who are these girls doing a favour.?

Again I ask..


When did MEN BECOME WEAK.?

We brought upon ourselves,most men think the only way to get a woman is by paying up.

Maxcollins042:

OP I must commend you on this one. This question goes to those bashing OP: would you let your sister marry a broke guy with a fantasy?

Why this question. Why will my sister be broke. What am I doing. I pay my sister on regular basis so she won't have to depend on guys. Do the same and no broke guy will come close to her. But when you want her to bring a rich guy who will solve your family problems, then you are of all me most stupid

Safiaa:
No, that's not the issue. If you're going to counter my thread, have valid points. That's all. Make sure you read through my thread, so you don't repeat what i've said.

I was the first person who countered it, stop saying read through my thread like there's a puzzle on here, can you see people's opinion? And would you conclude that when they log off Nairaland na back to garri? At least that's what you were insinuating about me

Must people read the thread but are bashing the girl based on the subject. You have to be very objective to see the message she passed.

Life is in stages, and each stage depends on how much effort you put into it. Indeed, there are guys with big dreams and visions but are doing absolutely nothing towards these dreams. Some even deceive the very successful ladies into marriage who later tend to be liabilities to their wives.

For me, get an education, broaden your horizon, get a job, and you'll attract your kid of man. No two ways about it.

Eveezy:

i was going to agree with u, but i got confused wit "feed myself and a grown ass" are there really guys who expects u to feed dem?
I think the term broke has been misdused, a guy dt is capable of taking care of himself nd could even feed a lady, bt wen dt same lady asks for a phone nd d guy is unable to do so, some ladies would term this guy broke. But should dis really be d case?
So i have a question, WHO IS A BROKE GUY?

...There are more women and ladies who feed men/husbands these days than the other way round...Lots of men i know have confessed that their mom was the pillar that rescued them from hunger and illiteracy..Their Dads were no where to be found most times,and never bothered about their well-being...Nigerian men are becoming less and less financially responsible towards their family,and thats a shame.

...It is only on nairaland Nigerian males foot bills that are not theirs...Real life is a differnt thing altogether.

WriteBoy:


Lol bro -- I hands-offed women's matter a long time ago. Something triggered it. Perhaps you can take a minute to think about it too:

"In ten thousand years of recorded civilization and history, women have never in any instance been the leaders of any culture or civilization. Could this be attributed to a fatal flaw in their makeup that seeks to pull down instead of build?"

When you realize that the success and future of the world indeed rests upon us as men putting women in their place lest all the work men have done to make earth the thing it is today be lost, you will not take prisoners.

It's indeed taking prisoners. I gave up on them when I realized that they can slow you down yet quit anytime they get a better option in terms of money.

biz2get:
When I read threads like this.

I start to wonder...


Who are these girls doing a favour.?

Again I ask..


When did MEN BECOME WEAK.?

When men start chasing after gals that are not their size. No matter how financially comfortable a babe is, she has been wired by nature to want to depend on a man's finances to a large extent. Ask Agbani Darego, ask Linda Ikeji. Or what do you think led to Tiwa Savage marriage issues (she kept paying some bills, she isnt wired to and when it got too much for her, she snapped).

Safiaa:
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

You see why a lady should make her own money...

https://www.nairaland.com/3743337/lady-buys-herself-range-rover

Safiaa:
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

Wow! @ poster u on point. Ladies be wise and open your eyes.

henryhemon:


We brought upon ourselves,most men think the only way to get a woman is by paying up.

Woman has made some low self esteem men brain washed to social Psychology.

Even after God created The Beautiful Garden Woman(Eve) wasn't Satisfied. She went to get the Apple.

It's Practical. And it explains itselfs. .

bemyguest:



Wow! @ poster u on point. Ladies be wise and open your eyes.

I am not be in judgemental...


But I ask you that has opened thy eyes...


What have you contributed to the world and humanity in general?

Though is difficult to key to dis secret of wealth. bcus if all guys can key to it there will b no broke or poor guy in dis forum anymore do it diligently. Read Malachi 3:10