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biz2get:
Treat Their Fuvck up and LET THEM GO

Teach 'em a lesson.

I no dey learn work naw.

cooldood:
There are hundreds of gals that will value you and appreciate your financial capability and status. Go for such gals, stop giving yourself headaches. You dont have to date someone that feels you dont meet up or feels you dont match up to her. Let her go.

You my friend is Deluded.

Op has still not thought it wise to answer the questions below. I shall be reposting them till we get answers before we continue further discussions.

tobianthony:
@ Op , I want to say something but I want to just continue lurking .

I want to ask you a couple of questions some of them will offend you ... but I just want to understand where you are coming from with this topic .

Please do not take offence .

Here goes ?

1) be truthful and be honest how old are you ?

2) what do you do for a living ?

3) what goals have you set for yourself and how many of these goals have you accomplished ?

4) what has to physically happen for you to call yourself successful ?

5) I'm assuming that there is a fellow who is (broke) that dated you or someone you know ...is this true ?

6) answer questions 1-4 for him ?

7) finally right as this moment what is your net worth ?

Do not take offence I just want to learn more about you .

Ravenclawgirl:
Safiaa you see? Shey I warned you, both male and females have commented now, you think we are all wrong and you're right? Smh.

I know her type.They think they got it all figured out until life throws them a curved ball they cannot deal with.

Her type will definately end up unhappy. Her view is so shallow she did not even accomodate ladies that are poor.

She thinks everyone can be rich and all dreams or plans end up with positive results. Best of luck to her as life happens.

biz2get:
What are you saying..?

What is your Purpose as a Man to a Woman?

Isn't it to Lead Them..? They should follow.

If they can't follow up.. Then it means the female specie has problems with her mendula.

As a Man you cannot bring yourself so low(t"terms" for any Female. Ask a Man.

Exactly the point, find a lady that will accept you to lead her. Stop fighting the ones that are refusing.They are not your type.

zolapeperenpe:
I was about replying you like you an adult until one spirit told Me to check you out by reading ur posts on NL. Alas,you are still a fetus who still depend on 19k NYSC allowance,who cook with 100naira pepper without fish/meat.
So,you are forgiven(from the bottom of my heart)

But I would like to advice you: DO NOT have the mentality of a wretched soul, just as winning Is an attitude,making money is also an attitude. I made my first one million at 23! By selling my handmade stuffs,so you see why I cannot understand some lazy ediot here on NL attacking OP as if they are comfortable with their wretched-lazy lives.

Take my advice or attack me further, I care less, whatever mindset you have towards this topic,na ur funeral

And you claimed you are reasonable. When they say that age is just a number, you are just a complete manifestation of it. You did well to check my profile and if you have gone deeper, you would have realize it was beyond what you saw. You are not in anyway better than anyone here and you shouldn't assume so. Get a life and think objectively. You saw such thinking in me and you made your research and still came out to type trash.

A clear analogy is when a living Faith Church member sees a deeper life church member as poor because they preach about money more in their church. Fallacy

Oh!!! So it is now we guys that wanna say Yes to a broke dullard babe right

rman:
I know her type.They think they got it all figured out until life throws them a curved ball they cannot deal with.

Her type will definately end up unhappy. Her view is so shallow she did not even accomodate ladies that are poor.

She thinks everyone can be rich and all dreams or plans end up with positive results. Best of luck to her as life happens.

Don't mind them. And to even think that some guys think that anyone against the op's opinion is poor. Most of them come from a poor homes and that is why.

mrphysics:
And you claimed you are reasonable. When they say that age is just a number, you are just a complete manifestation of it. You did well to check my profile and if you have gone deeper, you would have realize it was beyond what you saw. You are not in anyway better than anyone here and you shouldn't assume so. Get a life and think objectively. You saw such thinking in me and you made your research and still came out to type trash.

A clear analogy is when a living Faith Church member sees a deeper life church member as poor because they preach about money more in their church. Fallacy

Your funeral dude!

ikp120:
Even your English is "broke" beyond repairs. Hehehehehe

You have quoted the babe thrice


Are you broke with a fantasy

alexis007:
The God I serve supports the extermination of foolish, redundant people. As He declared in the book of Exodus "Suffer not the witch to live."

So...My mindset is clean before him.

You have made my day.

cooldood:
Exactly the point, find a lady that will accept you to lead her. Stop fighting the ones that are refusing.They are not your type.

You and who is fighting...?

How old are you if I may ask?

Don't quote me again. Tnx

Women and needing help! @everyturn the need help

biz2get:
You and who is fighting...?

How old are you if I may ask?

Don't quote me again. Tnx

lol.you de vex...no vex egbon.

zolapeperenpe:
Your funeral dude!

Well you are on Nairaland just last year. I don't argue with you. Sorry for even replying you in the first place, I thought you have a brain. it's filled with poverty.

nelson7777:
one of d richest man hv ever met, hs 5 grown kids with just one woman, n they just got married last year, because there was no money since d man was broke as f.
d oldest daughter is 24..
he did his birthday last month n 2face idibia and patoranking came..


my guy a jobless broke ass guy always going to play table tennis evryday cos of no job, and always wit a girl dat makes hair n people were always laughing wat does she see in him,
d guy nw works 4 rano oil, bought n fj cruiser on Saturday n we celebrated his success on sunday
it was held in d same club/ resturant were he always go to play tennis n d whole club was shutdown 4 his sake... on Friday we are going to buy a small toyota matrix 4 d girl friend, its gonna b a surprise...

u shud nt b advising a girl to chase money but love trust me evn though d marriage jst last i yr, she will knw dat she pursued wat she wants n lived...

my friend edith in d university who married a very rich dude has always bin calling crying everyday dat she cannot kiss her husband since they got married cos she dosn't feel attracted to him, it makes her irriteated.. she said her sexual life is just a duty not in anyway passionate, even though d man has a very big thing..
she wants her husband to relocate 4rm their estate to students environment in awka, telling him, she wants to b close to her mother in d village, but she told me is a lie dat she wants to get close to young university guys b4 she dies of unpassionate sex...

a word is enough 4 d wise
d rich also cry

So you think the two people you talked of don't have their problems and everything just became perfect just because they became rich

EdithS problems might not even be up to half of what the others are facing

its crystal clear 80% of guys on this thread are damn broke to the core..... if you read what she wrote, then you guys would applaud and not criticize

I would not even date a broke version of myself not to talk of marriage

girls bookmark this page, the force is with this one

Safiaa:
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

THERES NOTHING WRONG IN FEMALES BEING WITH A GUY THAT IS STRUGGLING. AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING. YOU CAN'T BE SELLING A FAKE DREAM TO SOMEONE, AND EXPECT THEM TO STAY.

OP U should have skipped using the term "broke". U should hav said visionless and unrealistic men. U make it look like U are in it for the money. Have u been scammed by a fantasizing broke-ass nigga before? I can understand. It can be a nightmare being scammed so.

Alphamale2017:
the only reason am not going to argue with you is because if this part of your write up.

''. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. "

you didn't completed rule out dating a broke guy in your write but you did in your post title .

have u seen E-money's throwback pix ??

i bet thousands of woman will still like to marry bishop David oyedepo today and become the 700th wife , sure . because they want to ride in a private jet and live in the best houses .

but I bet you 98th of those woman would have passed up the chance to get married to him over 30years ago when he was driving a bike .

what of mark zuckerburg ? he didn't come from a billionaire family either . but today he is among the top 35 richest people in the world at such a young age .

ladies if you see that ur man has got a dream and makes concrete plans to achieve them and your instincts tells you he will succeed then stick around .

money is important yes. but life is not a one way traffic . at least stay for a while and see if they materialise .
who knows , you may become the celebrated wife of a public figure and a celebrated achiever .
Gracias

A lazy mman with dreams?

Even the bible says faith without works is dead

sirfee:
Baba,some ladies are very funny,your meme na the bomb#weldone sir

Hahahaah.. Naso babaly

chi4ik:
well said dear, I'm Corper now but I can't meet up with my babes financial needs. I have ask her if she can wait for me because I can't tie her down since I'm financial handicapped. she said she can but I'm not happy seeing her with just little financial issues which I can't meet up with. if she decide to go now, I can't be mad at her because I understand that love is money & money is love & I'm not ready to enter another relationship if she decide to go now. my decision is to make money first. I can't object ur ideology, it's just d fact......shalom

Broke people fall in love as well. Money aids. Love but love is money.......Be mindful of the people u date many ppz out there get into relationship because they need help.

This op must be high on something...
Why giving your fellow ladies such kind of Reckless Advise

Don't worry sha...
One day you'll end up in the hands of a Ritualists.

And you'll be used for OGU-EGO

As for my Fellow Broke Guys, just keep faith and watch how money will locate you today.

"LIKE" if you believe in miracles and see how your ways will open ASAP

Im going to take my time to reply these mentions, once i get home. I have time for you people today!!!

Safiaa:
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

Aunty simply go and hustle to make your own money na cos no man owes any woman anything. Make your money and leave we guys alone. We are not the architect of your problems. You can take a cue from your Aunty Linda Ikeji . All these greedy Oloshos wey just full everywhere these days. Them go want make man do wetin even their own Father no fit do for them. Shame

UIA04:
A lazy mman with dreams?

Even the bible says faith without works is dead

where did u see i talked about a lazy man ? Didnt u read where i said 'if he has concrete and tangible plans' on how to achieve his dream , dis ur comment nor follow at all. read my comment again and read ur own reply to it and tell me how does that follow ? There is no argument here. And for the record , not all broke people u see that are lazy

naijaboiy:
As a woman you'll attract men but it depends on the kind/type/class of woman you are.

If you're a wealthy woman you'll hardly find a poor man who wants to go into a serious relationship come to you except you approach him yourself.

Your thread is not telling these girls to be smart while entertaining these men. Your thread is advising your fellow girls to use their feminine touch to attract the rich and already made men and avoid the broke ones. That's what your thread is saying and even a dumb reader will deduce that fact.

Yes women should hustle hard and make their money because there is a very high probability for them to attract another rich guy. If you want to marry a rich guy then also try to be financially capable yourself and not using your beauty to entertain the men.

Your post is filled with sentiments and wrong advise to your fellow girls and I'll only laugh and shake my head in pity at the dumb ones who wouldn't be able to be subjective about what you wrote.

Now you're saying you're encouraging fellow girls to hustle. That's right. But you also said you women want to be treated like queens.

Does a queen work? Does a queen fight battles or hustle? No!

The moment you girls want to begin to feel like queens when you've not done anything that warrants a man to treat you like that then you're getting it all wrong.

You're a lady and you know your girls better than we guys. Ask yourself these questions...

How many girls in your circle are really looking forward to hustle hard to make it without thinking of using a man to get there?

How many ladies TRULY want to work hard at all?

How many girls want to go through the real stress of working hard and coming out successful?

We both know the answer to my questions.

So tell your girls to fulfill their lives first before coming to look for any guy at all. We are also Getting wiser.

The lazy ones we side chick them, the hard working ones we wife them.

Well said.

No Body Wants An Half Baked Lady.

FelixFelicis:
Smh, don't marry broke guy don't marry broke guy, you know what? Go back to some 20 years ago and warn your mother you're obviously venting on your dad's incapability to provide you the luxury you didn't work for or need.

I thought the nuclear weapon was the worst with incomparable destructive capacities. That lady's soul may not find peace eternally with this verbal obliteration...

Safiaa:
Im going to take my time to reply these mentions, once i get home. I have time for you people today!!!

Lol ... babe u really have strength oo. There are some mentions that aren't worth replying because no matter what you say they would not wanna understand. They wanna argue to feel good about themselves. Making noise to feel relevant.

Safiaa:
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

THERES NOTHING WRONG IN FEMALES BEING WITH A GUY THAT IS STRUGGLING. AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING. YOU CAN'T BE SELLING A FAKE DREAM TO SOMEONE, AND EXPECT THEM TO STAY.

Check your third paragraph and you will realize where your greed lies!!!

No one wrote the OP for you but see how you are trying desperately to disassociate yourself from the shallowness of your thoughts. Let me save you the stress of going back to check that foolish paragraph 3. In that paragraph, you advised girls to use their YOUTH and BEAUTY, not even a mention of gift or talent, to get the best man (best to you means "financially stable". When you advise a girl to use her youth and beauty, you can't convince me that you aren't trying to advise her to consider gold digging.

The op has a point. But I agree with prophetfire , op should have used 'visionless' unambitous or unrealistic , but i get the point she is trying to pass tho cc safiaa

Santi69:
Say no to broke ladies, Guys be smart!!

3 bottles of star bear for you

dharamanil:
Broke people fall in love as well. Money aids. Love but love is money.......Be mindful of the people u date many ppz out there get into relationship because they need help.

you are right bro but to distinguish is d problem