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Xtopher123:
NO MAN Should Ever Spend their Money on a Girl too No matter the circumstance too.. So Guys are the Mugus abi? WTF is wrong with you all..

So the Guy should do all the spending while you sit your lazy self and squander it? I don't blame you I blame the Igbo name ORIAKU if you know what that means

Xtopher123:
Lol, was in the BUS some weeks ago and this woman travelling with us was Lamenting how women use to be called ORIAKU But now it's no more, that she wished those days could b reverted..

I just laughed, looked at her and told her blatantly that that name was a full time deceit, and women should better stand up and work in their lonely rather than waiting for a Man to do all the earning and then come and give here to Spend

2dugged:
hehehehhehe, I am literally laughing here, you sound so pained, well his money will actually be useless if she already has hers, and a man who is broke has no business dating, full stop

2dugged:
you are talking a different matter here,there are women out there who can actually pay for their own hair, pay for their own data subscription and buy their own clothes without any man, so tell me why such a lady should after doing all that for herself, give her body to a man all in the name of dating (of which the dude most likely doesn't know her father's house) and still give him money ontop,does it make sense?

zainmaxwell:
see fact be told most ladies never went into relationship base on love...it just for the money

mrphysics:
@who does that. It doesn't make any sense and it happened last century ago. Nigerian girls have no money for that now.

2dugged:
hehehehhehe, I am literally laughing here, you sound so pained, well his money will actually be useless if she already has hers, and a man who is broke has no business dating, full stop

Quinn22:
It's your fault na....na you dey chase those kind of girls.

funmisticqueen:
i forgot to add something in the definition and it is 'as the need arises' you asked for the definition of broke and i gave you one but you chose to attack me. First a man must be able to provide for his family, so i really did put it intentionally, no girl should marry a man who cant treat his family right becos it shows what he will do to the one they start together if they marry. Two a man should provide for his girlfriend and a woman should give to a man too. I give to my man with the little i earn cos i intend to build a habit of giving. If you dont provide for her when she is your girlfriend, you will be overwhelmed by responsibilty when she becomes a wife infact you wont provide when she is your wife. He who has proven to be faithful in little will be faithful in much. If you earn 50k salary and ur gf asks for an iphone 6 it shows that she is girl not a woman. We are not saying become ATM for a girl, but provide the little within your means. If that is not enough for her she can carry her load and go, it is not by force. After all there are richer guys out there. And if she leaves you for one pls dont judge. Thank you.

2dugged:
some still do, it's just that they don't say it out so as not to crush the ego of their man,it's when the relationship goes south that you hear, but if it doesn't, it stays between the two of them, and that's a fact

crazymommy:
Na wa oooo..... even Ikeja prostitutes are claiming "they cannot date a broke guy because them are independent ladies and not broke ladies" Abeg shut up jare.....the true independent and rich ladies don't make too much noise like you all are doing on this thread.....and concerning this topic,a broke lady looking for a guy to take care of her financially does not deserve a rich guy,the rich guy should just stick to the lady that is financially okay if that is the case and see how many of these ladies will remain single for life...you cannot give what u do not have ,it takes two to tango...u cannot keep shouting you cannot date a broke guy meanwhile you yourself cannot boast of 500000naira in your bank account...

zainmaxwell:
u knw colours seen at night is differ from d tym at first u will never knw:

chronique:
Hmm. I don't think a lady is behind this moniker but kudos to whoever wrote this, assuming such a person practices this. Too often, we have seen people talk like this online and do something entirely different offline. But whatever it is, I've come to the conclusion that people should be allowed to live their lives the way they deem it fit. We won't always share in the repercussions. If a girl doesn't want a broke guy, leave her alone. If she is lucky to meet Mr rich, fine. If she loses her life in the process, it's her business. Just let her be. As a guy, if a girl won't date you cos she thinks you are broke, don't be disturbed. Work hard and pray to be successful. When you are made, make sure you don't date below your financial and social class. That's the only way you would be able to escape leeches.

ruggedised:
girls running away from this thread like

Quinn22:
Why not chase bread sellers like olajumoke, peppers and tomato sellers dem, even a house girl? If broke guys could chase girls on their level, there won't be a problem

Go for those girls, then you would stop wining and complaining about girls being gold diggers

sexybbstar:

zainmaxwell:
why u no follow this type too.....see am nt saying those peeps are not trying but yet most guys dont stick with them cos of level

Lionofdjungle:
not everyone who claims to be female on this platform is a female.

mrphysics:
Sorry for attacking you.
To your post, it's laughable too. When I read your post, I see someone who constantly tells herself what she does not believe. It's amusing how you keep attaching family to this case, methinks you are trying to sound reasonable and a good lady but the intention is well known. If I can provide for myself, then I am not broke.
Maybe I am not too good in this angle but if you think the guy should be solving the monetary problem of a lady then I give up

kimbra:
Excuse me. You could have passed if my comment didn't seat well with you. Next time, type in English.

funmisticqueen:
you know what i wont bother with you anymore think what you wanna. Dont quote me again goodnight.

mrphysics:
I think

Quinn22:
If you can't stick with them then stop complaining
Shikena!

zainmaxwell:
not that am complaining just appreciate is enough but they wont.....beside in d end they tagged u maga when u give nd stingy fellow wen u did not

kimbra:
You asked a nice question, but she won't answer. They should ask themselves the reasons why the rich keep getting richer and the poor, poorer?.

QueenSuccubus:
.naaah, this message is NOT applicable to everyone juz bcoz u want to stroke these broke boiz egos...infact, juz go out and see how the earth revolving. U will see there are lot of working class ladies out there with high paying jobs & u addressed them as a BROKE juz bcoz they dont wanna date a broke guy? Really, for real?

Quinn22:
Eyaaa...