26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

I'm faced with the same dilemma.... The matter tire me

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

Cleopatra4:

I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

.. only her moniker says it all. Broh she's expensive oo. Run for your life

LEBEfirstson:
.. only her moniker says it all. Broh she's expensive oo. Run for your life

Chill na have you dated me before no put sand for my garri

Cleopatra4:

Chill na have you dated me before no put sand for my garri

.. op you wan try?

Cleopatra4:

I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire.

BrainArk:

Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire.

.., hahahaha I said it earlier.. that moniker is enuf to tell you who the person is.. she will obviously finish 25m in one week looool

LEBEfirstson:
.., hahahaha I said it earlier.. that moniker is enuf to tell you who the person is.. she will obviously finish 25m in one week looool

Yes o

Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

Cleopatra am tempted o
respond to my pm

BrainArk:

Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire.

with all my experience

I pray o

212

As the saying goes. The day you ask a Nigerian lady out is the day you start owing her money.

26andsearching:


For how long

I mean I suffered to get a job

Now I must also suffer to get a gal

if you have a job in Nigeria at 26, uncle, you no suffer.

As for the girls you date, they are simply a reflection of who you are.

Ypu people need to stop disturbing us about these gold diggers you encounter on a daily basis, na wetin you find enter market na im you go see.

There are good girls o, but those ones do not do waka waka, they don't live the life you guys expect and you don't see them starting threads on how they can't find good guys.

GOOD FOR YOU

kimbra:
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing.

it is not the impression he creates, its his taste. there are diff kind of girls, and impression or not, they want what they want. I hope d op undrstnds

Your first impression says it all.give the impression of an all sufficient guy and you may have a liability on your hands.Also try not to rush a new friendship, take your time and build it gradually over time.good luck next time.

26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

1st comment don give u clue. I don date fine/rich gal many times without number & dont spend on them. stop playing Mr Nice Guy ok

A mere 3k?

Cleopatra4:

I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

Cleo ur own go worse from the way I see it.

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

lol. Shabi u dey show ursef? U dey learn work.

I have to agree with Safarigirl. It's something I've observed, the kind of ladies/girls men/boys meet are simply a reflection of who the males are. It's not just impossible for a cereal dude to meet a less cerebal lady.

This certainly defies the law in physics where like pair repel and vice versa.

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

This is a Nice Story Bro. If you send it to deardapsondapson@gmail.com they will post it on their platform and you will get mature advise and feed back

Man up bro.

ekefre4:
A mere 3k?

people like u cannot give a girl ordinary 1k without thinking of nyashing her in the first place.

That was how I was chatting with an old female friend on FB, next thing I would hear is "can I get like 50k"
Anyway OP, 95% Nigerian girls are like that,
there is serious hunger in the Land

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Me too, I've been having same issues.
Come and date me

I have met n helped many girls with financial issues....if God has blessed you. Do not hesitate to help others..

Even some ladies who are currently hooked up still ask for financial aid...
That's how we roll

26andsearching, you probably don't know but you maybe come off as rich, I wouldn't ask somebody for money if he didn't tell like me or if I didn't think he's rich.

26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

Na that natural beauty go finish your enemy!!

It's normal op, it's not easy to be a female in Nigeria, esp when the parents are struggling.

Goldenheart:
I have met n helped many girls with financial issues....if God has blessed you. Do not hesitate to help others..

Even some ladies who are currently hooked up still ask for financial aid...
That's how we roll

yimu, Mr Goldenheart if its true why are you the one bragging about it?
do your good in silence oga helper!