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Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 7:44am On Jul 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:that is not the point to back a claim Not even in the field of academics Even the last head of census board disputed the figures The point is you can not quote statistics that clearly has bais in it If you use your discretion you will realize the statistics is fraud Some men in the north alone marry more than 10 wives yet hardly will you find any man not married at certain age 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Aye101: 7:44am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:You are still young, talk to me in 10 years. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:46am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Aye101:You're foolish I hope in 10 years you'll be wiser. Maybe then it will be worth talking to you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 7:55am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:eh eh,now let talk,what the whole issue you re blaming men for? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 7:59am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:using a lot of grammar doesn't change the truth Oh oh you think every side chick is just some cheap hoe I am not talking about cheap here cause they hardly ruin marriage Do you watch Nigerian movies at all, do you think the story line were gotten from heaven Have you seen where a woman goes to the extent of using charm to get a man because of jealousy Think again sis, even in sa me have muti and sangoma 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:00am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:wait lemm ask you something,are you by anyway from a rich family,or you yourself was rich,because I think he was actually intrested in what you are..so tell me what were you like then?Financially ,and what were u made of,he was probably intrested in something you did tell us.. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:03am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0: Whatever he was interested in his wife should have it at home for him. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Aye101: 8:03am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:Kids of nowadays sha, always thinking they know it all. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lalas247(f): 8:03am On Jul 20, 2017 |
If you live in a mansion You go out leave your gate open all your doors open Your gold, car keys left on the table .. code to safe on the table now you get robbed !!! Wtf yes they are theives worthless low lives .... BuT why did you advertise to them .. why didn't you padlock that gate .. now if police come catch the theives lock them up tomorrow you live your house gate open again u get the logic At some point the husband is to blame and wife .. you cannot stop sidechics but men can honour their vows !!! Side chics do not rape Men the married ones leave their fuvking gate open to thots and you say its the thots fault The mentality of some ppl is shocking I repeat this is why that country will NEVer progress the majority people are so thick it's unreal .. barbaric views and cave man ways stuck in 18bc Even ladies don't know their worth anymore it's to get married be their goal after that they let the men ride them ..... like grow some back bone !! |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lalas247(f): 8:08am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:So it's Juju So nothing is the man fault I'll keep praying for Nigeria .. mentality is peak 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by adontcare(f): 8:09am On Jul 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:my dear some side chics got no chill. There was one I advised to stop d relationship with a man whose marriage was just 6months old. She got angry o. She said she is in love with d man. I just apologised to her. Later d wife caught her in her matrimonial home and also advised her not to engage with married men. She thanked d wife and later sent lies and messages to d man claiming his wife want to initiate her into a secret cult. Some gals gat no chill 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:10am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Oma307: What she appears to be implying is that a woman should make her deal more attractive to a man if she doesn't want him to migrate to other women with potentially better packages. Implying, again, that a pencil owes no loyalty to any sharpener, and will patronize whichever one has the sharpest blade. A pencil is selfish and will only be concerned about keeping its lead pointed. Alright. If we are speaking of non-binding relationships that depend on fiduciary obligations, or trust, or the morality of the individuals involved; then, yes, a pencil should be allowed to do what it wants. Being an asshole isn't a crime, and the sharpener is aware it has no security. No guarantees of patronage. But when a pencil has signed a contract with a particular sharpener, to patronize only said sharpener, forsaking all others; then thats binding. And if it carries it's business elsewhere, it is in breach of that contract and has to pay the penalties for it. (The pencil is responsible for the breach, not the other sharpeners). It cannot come and say "the other sharpener was better", there's a contract. It should have gotten of it first. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:11am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:you see why sometimes I don't agree with you ladies,now u want me to blam the man,you both are at fault.. The man was 70% wrong And you were 65%wrong Now u wanna tell me you dating a man and u never visited him,you never try putting up something that will bring families together like a party that will bring relatives together,you never even for once try to know more about him,and you finally let him inn before the secret came out hmmmm this is serious oooo... Honestly coco I know you don't want me to blam you but don't you think you also at fault The man was obviously playing his games with you and you keep falling,don't you have instinct in you?? Wait lemm ask you one more question when he was talking about marriage did you try to go know his own family,like try to hear more of him from people!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 8:14am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Asorockqueen: What do you mean blame the men in a way ?. Whose responsibility is it to keep the marriage vows, isn't not the responsibility of the couple ? . If the wife goes around sleeping with single men who pursue married women, should we blame these men for her lack of discipline and loyalty? After all they are the evil ones here right? She's just a victim of hoes who won't stop pursuing her till she gives in. Don't make me laugh. There will always be temptations in life , everywhere you turn there is something that will catch your eye . You can go to a grocery store and you will notice by the till they always put the chocolates and fizzy drinks to tempt people, but only the strong minded , disciplined and focussed will pass over the urge to buy. Same applies with prostitutes, there are many men who will pass the prostitutes in a street corner like they are not even there and continue moving . We can't deny that there are also many married men who will fall into this temptation. The difference between these two sorts of men , is that the other has self respect and reasons with his brain not his penis and values what he has at home. The other reasons with his genitals and knows the wife will join him in blaming the " evil prostitutes" for doing what they do . The more you continue blaming some cheap hoes who were born to be hoes and exempt the main players , the more your man will push the knife deeper into your back cus he knows you will belive that he did so because of some outside forces 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:14am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lalas247:if you read my post from the beginning you will realize I keep saying men are no saint I use the senerio to properly explain to zarzar that the cheap hoe hardly reck homes but the ordinary ladies just jealous of the wife at home 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by buJu234: 8:14am On Jul 20, 2017 |
dont forget that the so called side chic is a woman with feelings too... with the rate at which men whom are ready for marriage are decreasing day by day and women whom are ready for marriage are increasing day by day.. then u have a case of too many good women ready to settle down but there are lower no. of men ready to settle down with them. so my solution is polygamy with respect & love; with a good man that can take care of them women should learn to live happily & peacefully with their other women in same roof under a good man thats ready to settle down... just like u see in the northern part of the country. if not side chic wahala will forever remain in this present monogamy southern Nigeria.. like i said she is a woman also with feelings to be loved but no her fault that there are fewer men ready to settle down. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lalas247(f): 8:15am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:Oh oh I see Ride on |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn:again you make it sound as if you are not in Nigeria Have you seen the extent some of these ladies go to reck a home 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lalas247:thanks sis |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Safiaa(f): 8:17am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Now that I'm a bit older, and gained experience they're few signs that you can prrobably use to catch him out He's above 35 and tells you he's never been married, had kids or been in a very serious relationship. Sometimes its true,but most times its not. Just keep your eyes open. Hes using a very old phone eg nokia 3310, and tells you its his only phone. Most likely its his second hidden phone that he uses to cover his tracks. Claims he doesn't have any kind of social media. Esp facebook. Only see him certain hours of the day and certian places Doesnt like to talk too much about his past relationships, or his life in general. He seems very secretive. Dont be fooled if he introduces you to his friends as his girl/iyawo. They normally all play the same game. Their friends are normally the best actors. You just have to be smart and get as much info as possible. Guard your heart ah beg 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by tosyne2much(m): 8:17am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Pataricatering:So, who is the lizard? The husband or the side chic? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG: What extent do they go to? Not a rhetorical question. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Ugosample(m): 8:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Asorockqueen: Things don't work like that... |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:24am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lalas247:hmmmmmm |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:25am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lalas247:I don't understand,interpret abeg |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:26am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0:blame anyone but the culprit Who said I was dating him? Comprehension issues. I said he was asking me out supposedly for marriage. I did mention that I didn't even know the fella well which made me all the more wary Honestly coco I know you don't want me to blam you but don't you think you also at fault Read please. Thanks Why would I? You're assuming that I even liked him. Much less consider marrying him. I was young but not foolish. His ploy was just to sound serious so I'd think he's not coming for a fling and then give into having sex with him. Yo this is not rocket science. My first post was self explanatory. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn:yes I understand you want some anwers Some use diabolic meams, others use black mail. The cheap hoe senerio is quite diffrent. I blame the man more than chick That doesn't mean the chick is innocent too, cause she is just aware of what she is doing Now let me use some of your previous thread to ask you a question You once created a thread on how some women are not satisfied in bed right So if these women were still not satisfied in bed in their marriages and decide to cheat on their husband to get satisfaction Who will you blame That is not a rhetorical question too |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 8:29am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:I don't watch Nigerian movies and even if I did it wouldn't change my stance on this topic. You must think too, the man went out of his house to another woman's home to have an affair , now the side chick does everything in his power to keep him. Who do I blame here ? Ofcourse I would blame my husband he started this shyt didn't he? . Yes there are women and men out there who would use whatever to lure someone's spouse without their participation but they are a minority compared to the willing cheaters, now think about that why don't you? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by ekpesa(m): 8:31am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Side chick are really helpful, ask any married man who had more than one girlfriend before marriage. God bless all the ladies, married or side 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:31am On Jul 20, 2017 |
tosyne2much:the lady was seriously defending side chick yesterday She started to contradict herself 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Martin0(m): 8:33am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:See young lady do u know why I put my statement in that way,because all what you said doesn't seem like you telling the real truth,so I had to assume in my own way that It happend like dat...what you just said are crappy lies,who's normal to believ that... So u mean u re not dating and he just walkup to say and like talking abt marriage abegeee, |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:no no no You are missing the point Some men don't even go out of their home Some of the friends of the ladies(wives) could be responsible for using diabolic means So what are you saying sis , do you still blame someone for the actions they take while under the influence of diabolic means ? 1 Like |
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