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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by studM(m): 9:21pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Nice dp..can i pm u
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by classical15(m): 9:22pm On Aug 13, 2017
klenton:


am an exception
but our kind are rare
if ur lucky am still available
I pity you. Fall for her trap at your own peril. oniranu
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Oluola89(m): 9:22pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
Is there anything bad if you ladies are there for us?

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

Truth is, you've been receiving pm's from the "wrongest" kinda guys!
There are still some of us that like good conversation.

Yes, money is important as you said, but majority of you girls just go after the money and nothing else! Then these guys you talk about, know what you lots are after, so they initiate all kinds of sex and nude pix ish! Nothing goes for nothing!


#you really have not encountered a good guy.......but they are there!
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by madjune(m): 9:22pm On Aug 13, 2017
Blame Jonathan.

It started during his tenure.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by autonomous22: 9:25pm On Aug 13, 2017
Effizy12:
Guys are now wise, #OurMumuDonDo
Korect....
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by maxzzo1(m): 9:26pm On Aug 13, 2017
ahahahaha 4 dis buhari govt.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Aug 13, 2017
Chukazu:
When you keep taking them for granted undecided

I beg go receive treatment for injuries
Hahahahahahaha
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by studM(m): 9:27pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

How matures r u?if u dont mind can i c ur dp
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by zeusdgrt(m): 9:30pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick
Quite matured I must say
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Ezionye(f): 9:30pm On Aug 13, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lol

well you girls reply the mentions of the crazy ones who you wrongly judged to be the good ones cos of their sweet cool monikers

when in truth those with the crazy monikers eg pussyhunter are the real cool and good ones.....................

Hmmmm
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by sconp: 9:31pm On Aug 13, 2017
I don't see the need for r/ships though, that's just me anyway

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:31pm On Aug 13, 2017
Pusyiter:
You are on point my dear.....taken by the caring one also. Those looking for would recall that they had earlier despised the caring and true ONE
funny but u re so factfully nd badly on point on this one grin smiley

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by talebearer123: 9:32pm On Aug 13, 2017
For one single reason its so hard to find a supportive caring lady who is not money concious these days

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2017
Just because they want to Bleep all the dicks that comes their way nowadays grin grin grin

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2017
y do we even need gals wat do dy offer apart from sex anything else?

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 13, 2017
Buhari is the cause...
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Aug 13, 2017
goodnewscliff:
y do we even need gals wat do dy offer apart from sex anything else?
Gay alert!
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thesuave10(m): 9:38pm On Aug 13, 2017
Check yourself op grin
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by chigoizie7(m): 9:39pm On Aug 13, 2017
Since all u ever cared for was money.

He will just give u that to sort urself out .




Since u have started making money a priority in relationships, men started making the pursuit of the money a priority as such all the attentions he would be giving u, went to chasing money.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 13, 2017
Benita27:
Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.
Can i tell you a honest brief story?. Twice in my life i have being too nice, supportive and caring to a fault to the only two women i truly loved. But twice have i being terribly disappointed by them.
Now, i hardly think of a relationship anymore. I just want to remain casual to the whole stuff. How do you explain a situation where a girl you had absolute trust on wakes up one morning to tell you that, she's pregnant when you know you never touched her nor suspected/got the tiniest clue from her eyes that she's into someone else?.
Anyway, no long story.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 13, 2017
talebearer123:
For one single reason its so hard to find a supportive caring lady who is not money concious these days
Not hard. Seek ye and ye shall find.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thesuave10(m): 9:43pm On Aug 13, 2017
The truth is that most men don't really know how to date a woman. It's the hard truth. Most men think they're doing the right thing but what they're actually doing is total crap
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by OKPAGAFREDRICK(m): 9:44pm On Aug 13, 2017
Abi?. They are born to suffer, keep waiting for a man who will kill himself for a lady.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by harriet412(f): 9:45pm On Aug 13, 2017
my sister , I'm with u on this
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thesuave10(m): 9:46pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

I see. My dear things are about to change for you in Enugu grin
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:46pm On Aug 13, 2017
Nma27:
Gay alert!
to girls like u yeah am gay!!! we cant be pussyin all da time wif gals wit em brainz in d puusy!!!!

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 13, 2017
After those 5 nairaland guys don tear tear your totex finish na now you dey reason true love abi,dab outta here
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Femoje(m): 9:48pm On Aug 13, 2017
Rorachy:
Lolzzzz. Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.
I'm caring supportive and not taken
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 13, 2017
OrangeDream:
Can i tell you a honest brief story?. Twice in my life i have being too nice, supportive and caring to a fault to the only two women i truly loved. But twice have i being terribly disappointed by them.
Now, i hardly think of a relationship anymore. I just want to remain casual to the whole stuff. How do you explain a situation where a girl you had absolute trust on wakes up one morning to tell you that, she's pregnant when you know you never touched her nor suspected/got the tiniest clue from her eyes that she's into someone else?.
Anyway, no long story.
Shìt happens. My ex fiance was caring; was the kind of guy who would call and talk for almost an hour just to know what's up with you in all sphere. He was supportive, both in my dreams and finance, was loving beyond doubt. Those are things I still like about him even though we're friends for now. Never hurt him sha.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by chiraqDemon(m): 9:48pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
Cos they are good guys and u want bad guys

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:50pm On Aug 13, 2017
Nma27:
Not hard. Seek ye and ye shall find.
seek who!!! wanna go toastin guys not bad!!!! cheesy...seeking for good guys is way different from seeking righteousness #sundaythings

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