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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 02, 2017
makydebbie:
It's one of our nl boys stupid assumptions since we need men to be happy. Fvck! Is it sex? I'll get a dild© and feel happy.


woman what did you type up there

better take your time

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 12:24pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
LOL. Why do you ask?

I wan know why there are few hardworking ladies there na.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by FvckShiT(m): 12:25pm On Nov 02, 2017
gringringrin
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 02, 2017
pocohantas:


I wan know why there are few hardworking ladies there na.
It's not about where i live. It's about the society.

Social media is a reflection of the society. Don't you think?
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by NightHound(m): 12:27pm On Nov 02, 2017
@OP, You're on point with this, sweetheart. You don't actually have to call yourself a feminist to be a feminist, if you don't want to. Maybe being subtle about labels is even better for the collective struggle. The important thing is that women out there are thinking like you, and that it gets the job done.

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 12:29pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
It's not about where i live. It's about the society.

Social media is a reflection of the society. Don't you think?

I don't know which to believe again o.
One minute the guys are saying women are taking all the jobs, so nothing for them. The next...they say women are jobless.

NightHound:
@OP, You're on point with this, sweetheart. You don't actually have to call yourself a feminist to be a feminist, if you don't want to. Maybe being subtle about labels is even better for the collective struggle. The important thing is that women out there are thinking like you, and that it gets the job done.

This is deep...very deep. I just learnt something.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:32pm On Nov 02, 2017
pocohantas:


I don't know which to believe again o.
One minute the guys are saying women are taking all the jobs, so nothing for them. The next...they say women are jobless.



This is deep...very deep. I just learnt something.
LOL. Did they? I missed that part. grin
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 12:34pm On Nov 02, 2017
pocohantas:


I don't know which to believe again o.
One minute the guys are saying women are taking all the jobs, so nothing for them. The next...they say women are jobless.



This is deep...very deep. I just learnt something.

Seriously babe... You gonna keep arguing this? Lol...

This is serious. Guess you are chanced today so much...

Smiles...
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 12:35pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
LOL. Did they? I missed that part. grin

Yes they did. On several threads on why ladies are not getting husbands. I saw so many say women are being favoured, taking all the jobs and men are left jobless. Men don't have stable finance to come marry these women, who end up setting very high standards.

I think they change stand depending on the topic at hand.

You're beautiful...nice dp.


BiafranBushBoy:


Seriously babe... You gonna keep arguing this? Lol...

This is serious. Guess you are chanced today so much...

Smiles...

We're not arguing. I'm very gentle on my 'sisters'... grin grin
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:39pm On Nov 02, 2017
pocohantas:


Yes they did. On several threads on why ladies are not getting husbands. I saw so many say women are being favoured, taking all the jobs and men are left jobless. Men don't have stable finance to come marry these women, who end up setting very high standards.

I think they change stand depending on the topic at hand.

You're beautiful...nice dp.




We're not arguing. I'm very gentle on my 'sisters'... grin grin
Lmao...I really missed that part.

Well, Tbh...Men are hypocritical. Most of them.

Thank you for the compliment.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 12:39pm On Nov 02, 2017
pocohantas:


Yes they did. On several threads on why ladies are not getting husbands. I saw so many say women are being favoured, taking all the jobs and men are left jobless. Men don't have stable finance to come marry these women, who end up setting very high standards.

I think they change stand depending on the topic at hand.

You're beautiful...nice dp.




We're not arguing. I'm very gentle on my 'sisters'... grin grin

Lol... I have been tryna see your stand on the issue, but I just can't seem to get it. Sarcasm has replaced your real stand...

What is your ideal/perfect relationship?

What are you championing for?

Meanwhile, check out what I sent to you...
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 12:42pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Lmao...I really missed that part.

Well, Tbh...Men are hypocritical. Most of them.

Thank you for the compliment.

Lol... Don't you think pocohantas is tryna cajole you to drop your ideology?

Hehehe... She is doing it subtly...

You skipped the part she said..."I wana know why there are few hardworking women in where you live"

She is playing on your Ego defence.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:44pm On Nov 02, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... Don't you think pocohantas is tryna cajole you to drop your ideology?

Hehehe... She is doing it subtly...

You skipped the part she said..."I wana know why there are few hardworking women in where you live"

She is playing on your Ego defence.
I didn't miss it. That's why I directed her back to the society. LOL.

Play on my ego defence? LMAO. That's something not possible.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 12:53pm On Nov 02, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... I have been tryna see your stand on the issue, but I just can't seem to get it. Sarcasm has replaced your real stand...
What is your ideal/perfect relationship?
What are you championing for?
Meanwhile, check out what I sent to you...

I have said it plenty times, I love feminism...its genuine cause. When I come on NL, I see them reduce it to brain draining arguments, I have seen some feminist educate them over and over, but their minds are made up. No need stressing oneself anymore, just play along with them...sarcasm it is. grin

Once you don't agree with an average NL guy, you're a feminist. That's so dumb!! angry angry

BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... Don't you think pocohantas is tryna cajole you to drop your ideology?Hehehe... She is doing it subtly...
You skipped the part she said..."I wana know why there are few hardworking women in where you live"
She is playing on your Ego defence.

Don't you think you're intentionally trying to create undue conflict? You wanna jam our heads, then say women hate themselves ba? She gave an ideology I like, I simply rephrased it to get her view.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:57pm On Nov 02, 2017
Rubbiish:

U see your life...So posting rubbishh on NL is the meaningful thing u do with your time?
Does the image below not contradict the bold statement?
Why are u in a relationship at all?
So because your relationship is shaking, u want other ladies to be like u?
Who are u deceiving?
U don't need to depend on another human being?
Guess u fell from the sky & took care of yourself till now?

It is time i tell u what u are.... U BE AGRIC FOWL...
The relationship is not shaking, it's over
If you actually took time to read and understand you would have seen that I'm not discouraging relationships. I would take my time to explain to you but the childish name calling tells me that I would be wasting my time so have a good day!
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:02pm On Nov 02, 2017
Danhumprey:
You couldn't sense that Picohantas was being sarcastic? SMH.

where did you left your sense of sarcasm?
clearly i missed it
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by kozmicity: 1:03pm On Nov 02, 2017
trustyshoess:

This is what baffles me about some women. Why would I need a man to make me feel emotionally fulfilled or loved? I love myself enough for me. A man? Yes I might WANT a man but I most definitely do not NEED one. Why would I want to depend on another human being? It all begins with loving oneself. Love yourself

You see dem pretenders...keep deceiving yourself...until you learn to accept the fact that we'll always be here,before a new chapter will be opened for the progress of feminism.

BTW,Even lesbians need us,so what are you saying??

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by FvckShiT(m): 1:03pm On Nov 02, 2017
gringringrin

Another fuçkin one

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Nov 02, 2017
Danhumprey:
there's nothing to understand about feminism. just a clogged-up and confused ideology. especially the Nigerian version of feminism.
There isn't a "Nigerian version"of feminism as far as I'm aware. Feminism isn't even embraced so how is there a Nigerian version?

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by kozmicity: 1:06pm On Nov 02, 2017
DeadRat:
never Knew You Had Sense Like This Until I Came across This
Lawlahdey go give yah smackdown oo
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 1:07pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
I didn't miss it. That's why I directed her back to the society. LOL.

Play on my ego defence? LMAO. That's something not possible.

She is good with psychology,and moments extra with her...... You can't tell...

Her ideology isn't bad, but I think it isn't stable either.... Goodluck all the same.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:07pm On Nov 02, 2017
NoFavors:
I have no problem with being a feminist, I only have problem with your type who completely have no idea what feminism entails.

The real feminists, the ones who knows feminism ideology are seen all around the world with men as their backbone. Check out Wendy William, Michelle Obama, Chimamanda and even your Beyoncé.

Keep going like this and you'll end up like sister Amaka
Okay lets say I completely have no idea about feminism like you said. I'm not averse to education, so please could you tell me what is wrong in the way that I view feminism and what's different about the feminism that the women up there believe in? What is feminism to you, I want to know. thanks
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Nov 02, 2017
kozmicity:

Lawlahdey go give yah smackdown oo
No We Are Good Now... We Even Hang Out Yesterday cool
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Nov 02, 2017
kozmicity:

Lawlahdey go give yah smackdown oo
I am a tad nicer now.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Nov 02, 2017
FvckShiT:


Can't fuçkin imagine how fuçkin much u fuçkin hate yo ex grin it's so fuçkin terrible cheesy , Dude basically turned you into a bloodyfûcking monster grin .
grin grin I don't hate him. I was a feminist before I met him soo undecided
not sure why everyone keeps mentioning my ex. you don't need to have an ex to be a feminist. 0 correlation
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by kozmicity: 1:12pm On Nov 02, 2017
DeadRat:
No We Are Good Now... We Even Hang Out Yesterday cool
Story...


Errm!please when are you getting married
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by kozmicity: 1:13pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
I am a tad nicer now.

Touché

So...when are you and Deadrat wedding??
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:14pm On Nov 02, 2017
kozmicity:

Story...


Errm!please when are you getting married
that Would Be When She Is Ready
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:14pm On Nov 02, 2017
kozmicity:


Touché

So...when are you and Deadrat wedding??
Would it be nice if I wished you to get married with an inanimate thing?
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:15pm On Nov 02, 2017
kozmicity:

Touché
So...when are you and Deadrat wedding??

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Nov 02, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Would it be nice if I wished you to get married with an inanimate thing?
angry

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Robynwelo1(f): 1:18pm On Nov 02, 2017
trustyshoess:
I know you're here for my head but hear me out first. So in the space on an hour, I have come across two threads relating to feminism. This is not a counter or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However I can't help but put my 2 cents in.
I seriously believe that feminism is highly misunderstood

First things first, let's define feminism; it is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Notice it doesn't say feminism is a drive towards matriarchy? Well that's simple, it's not.

There are many different types of feminism but I won't be discussing all of them as that will take too much time so I urge you to use good old Google!
So I think that the kind of feminism that people think of when they hear Feminism is Radical Feminism-: Radical feminism is a movement that believes sexism is so deeply rooted in society that the only cure is to eliminate the concept of gender completely or for females to dominate.

Now that's not the kind of feminism I'm talking about. Another type of Feminism is Liberal Feminism. Liberal feminists strive towards gender equality in all areas of life. Gender equality includes men too!

So why am I a feminist? Or why do I believe in gender equality? No, it's not because I believe that men and women are equal or because I'm against submissiveness or because I want female world domination (although that would be pretty cool)
I believe in gender equality for the same reason I believe in racial equality, tribal equality and anything that has to do with fairness in general.

Of course men and women are not equal, physicality being the main difference but they're both humans and both deserve to be treated equally as a result.

Believe me there's soo much more to say, but I don't want to make this too long. Feel free to ask questions, let's see if I can get you to see why feminism isn't all that bad

Give Femism a chance, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. We all should be feminists, we all should be striving towards equality

Read in some post that you're 19. Same here! Totally agree with you. I believe there is more misogyny than society presents. Though you may not agree with me on this one, religious is the major cause. Curb religion , Curb misogyny, Progress gender equality, Progress freedom.

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