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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by FvckShiT(m): 2:07pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Seems she got some fuçkin huge leverage |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: What if i said? Never mind. It will happen in our generation. I won't give details |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
tessygirl: Sowwie. I know how we feel. We feel that way when one party jumps off the ship. Perhaps he was inexperienced or indecisive at the time. Did you try reaching out to him after then? to try resolve issues? |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by tessygirl(f): 2:11pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: are you scared that I would open up our history? I won't darling till you provoke me to do it. I wouldn't mind to entertain Romance land with our Drama. No one has seen me except you, but I know you have so much friends and the shame would be on you. #Idiot. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Griffon: 2:11pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess: It does. The ‘feminist’ label has always been contentious. This is partly because it connotes militancy and an 'anti-men' stance. You could push for equality of the sexes without going under the 'feminism' label. You could decide to love yourself more, challenge yourself and compete against your male counterparts, all these can be attained without you calling yourself a feminist. Hun, imagine if this thread was just about how women can give the men a run for the cents, no sane mind would want to argue with you in that regard. You're getting all these vitroils cos the term 'feminist' was used. I even saw one calling you a depressed girl, just imagine |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:12pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Griffon: Lol @ This is partly because it connotes militancy and an 'anti-men' stance. You're getting all these vitroils cos the term 'feminist' was used. This is another good wordsmith. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 2:13pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Jupxter: I hope so. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 2:14pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: Feminism is a very boring topic to discuss in Romance section. A guy created a thread asking if it's relevant in Nig, the thread was created in this section. First set of responses were the usual, feminist are pained...who will wash plate and who will wash pant talk. Then a smart mod moved it to another section. Oh Lord!!! The conversation took a different turn, we talked on sexism as it affects males and females. We talked on the excessive victim mentality played by some women...the thread was lit and educative. What you see happening is different from what is. I have never been affiliated to a man who declared himself superior to me. There are men who loved to be challenged with reverence. Arguments like who will cook and who will be on top during sex is only belittling the cause. I will cook and wash, it's a hobby. I don't care what you do in your homes, so long as no one feels used. There are men who are also used by their wives. It isn't a female problem. So, marry the type of person you want, no surprises in marriage. All hands on deck, except you both want otherwise. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: Nigeria as it is is at a halt |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 2:14pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
tessygirl: Smh. Just continue and make yourself feel good. I don't blame you sha... Smiles... Continue... |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 2:16pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas: Hahahahaha... I think it should be moved to the business section ... Poco, are you business minded? What if I give you 100k today, how much profit can you turn-in in the next 6 months? Let's see that aspect of you... Or... You don't have it? Lol |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:20pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: Perhaps we should set up an intuitive contest between both genders that bothers around project management and execution as a contest for the argument, the winner earns the bragging right, while the gender that loses out,shuts up permanently. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by NightHound(m): 2:21pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: Without resistance, what is to stop it from succeeding? If Nigeria wanted to be the world power today, she would have to face the serious contenders who have an interest in keeping things the way they are. I'm sure those countries would have a long list of cons that would result if things were to change. And so they stay interested in preserving the order. What's the danger in letting women thrive that we have to resist feminism? Is it just a pride thing? Or are we seriously expecting a socio-economic calamity? I'm sorry if it seems like I'm putting you on the spot, bro. I'm not attacking you. I just think it would be valid to try to fully comprehend why people are so paranoid about feminism. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
shaybebaby:wow, I knew it! I knew there was no way that I the only one who thinks like this I'm also concerned about the next generation, thats why i try to encourage women to be independent and raise their future kids to be independent too. Yea from what I can see, the term FEMINIST is a real trigger. thanks hun 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Everyday...
same old shiit feminist thread..
This is why they are still 40 and unmarried. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Griffon:Yea I can see your point. But why do people automatically think "anti-men" when feminism is mentioned. I don't think feminism has ever been used in such context |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Rubbiish(m): 2:28pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Oh i see the cause of the frustration at bold Why not work on the flaws that led to the breakup, instead of this bitterness u are exhibiting all over nairaland? It is bad for your health... 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess: Violent Independency threathens the norm. Copedency, and train your sons to treat females right will be better. In a large part of my academic career, i came across brilliant, i mean genius females. It took the grace of God and some tricks to outwit them, but guess what, i loved the challene, they helped me improve on my performance indices. They ewouldn't come to close to me today if we competed, ( I saw a few recently ) Guess what helped shapen my ability to perform, " those ladies ". I won't raise up my daughters to suepr-egotistical, and by this i mean that anti-men stance, i'l rather train them to see the opposite genders as humans, and let them sort things out themselves. We need to be careful, too muhc independence of opinions, ideas and position threathens the core values in a normal relationship, which is why the feminism movement attracts many attacks. Independence when it's too tough, threathen a core value in relationships " cleaving ", because people can't easily compartmentalize their minds, when they become fixated on my ideas, my ways, my principles, it messes things up and affects cleaving process in relationships. Like i always say, why i lend my voice to women emancipation, i believe a healthy relationship is better as the needs of you ladies are catered for in such a relationship. The labels are confusing. I reiterate, i'm yet to meet a feminist that can tell me the history and objective of feminism and what they want, most times, it's saddled with confusion and theatrics that are not clearly defined |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess: Most time feminism views are expressed, it is buttressed with an anti-men undertone. Trust me. We all feel it I'm also yet to meet an unconfused feminist 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
walepackage:@bolded, how? interesting perspective though |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 2:30pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: Your ROI is largely dependent on lots of factors. I'm sure you know that. It's not something I am overly enthusiastic about, maybe because of the inherent risks involved in running a business in Nigeria. I have never bothered to know if I 'have it'. Jupxter: It's not up to you to determine the test of intelligence. CR7 might fail at your contest, but can you have more bragging right than him? |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Rubbiish:not even gonna waste my time on you anymore |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 2:33pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
tessygirl: Hmmm. Sis, let it go please. Whatever happens offline should remain there...trust me on this... |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Griffon: 2:33pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess: Because the ideology threatens the default ordering of humanity - Men were created to lead. I guess feminists across the globe need to be more elaborate and concise when they talk about striking a balance. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas: Lol @ It's not up to you to determine the test of intelligence. CR7 might fail at your contest, but can you have more bragging right than him? Success isn't about possessions, what we have, things we do not have. Success means different things to different people. Perhaps you are attracted by such largesse, success to me starts with my peace of mind. However little, that i sit and enjoy whatever i'm capable of achieving without sleepless nights or restlessness in any form. I noticed CR7 is also your profile pic, what's your obsession with the dude? Cause if you're crushing on him, i hate to tell you, he's hooked. Mentioning CR7 in response to my innocent comment connotes the fact that you seem to be hooked on rich guys. How can you prove to me that i won't dwarf the achievements of CR7 in this life time? Patient my dear. Patience. He that's patient will eat the fruits of abundance. Impatient people are filled with regrets, i hope you don;t make subjective deductions too hastily? I'm also sure i have departments i have more bragging rights than him.Except if material possessions is all that matters to you with men, it it is, it's very bad and high regrettable. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
tessygirl:Jezuz.. Take it easy ahbeg |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Lsofdk(m): 2:35pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Okay GOOD LUCK! |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Asianguy(m): 2:35pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess where do you live Nigeria or Wales ? |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:36pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
tessygirl: Don't bring anything on the forum. We've been there, the aftermath was terrible and highly regrettable. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Rubbiish(m): 2:36pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Chommieblaq:God bless u real good for being honest Cc: trustyshoess Don't think i am trying to stress issues with u, i am just trying to tell u the fact...Come see what a fellow woman like wrote....Are women denied anything in your country? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 2:38pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
Jupxter:I actually agree with a lot of what you're saying especially the bolded. Seeing each other as human and deserving of respect is essential I disagree with some things you've said as well but im tired of typing lol |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BiafranBushBoy: 2:38pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas: Lol... You see poco, I can feel the enthusiasm behind every single word you drop here. It would be nice to see the same passion in other things of same value to you too. Always keep it real, see you on another thread... Someone already messed up the thread. #Safe. |
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