Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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ultimate77:

amebo... E never marry yet. E day plan marry. U day find gossip athink?

Dimples129:


You don't wash, make up etc? How can you be out of bed and on road in less than 30 mins?

You be man?

Blackhawk01:


Napkin material

Realitycheck007:
Told her on 2 occasion... She just laughs and secondly she's not Jobless. She's a working class lady

Blackhawk01:
I wake up 6:30am, leave for work 7am... What exactly is your problem, Sir?

Gofwane:
don't mind the op. I thought he was going to say something serious like the lady only knows how to party, smoking and chasing men upandan

ifex370:


Or like say she de shit for bed

crookes:

Woke up 6:30am and go to work 7am? Abeg, no vex with this question, WHEN LAST YOU BAFF GO WORK?

classicfrank4u:


may dat kind of lady fall on ur brothers. nonense

wristbangle:
I thought the problem is much profound until I read the story which got me disappointed in you OP.

Is this reason enough to conclude that she won't make a good wife? I understand you are scared as she may not do the required domestic duties during marriage but judging her by this, is shallow and degrading

Nobody would tell her to caution her hours of sleep when the cry of her baby, laundry exercise, cooking and other domestic itinerary will make her sit up.

olafestid:
You can't call this an excuse to dump ur lovely fiancé, u should be happy she doesn't have a bad attitude worsen than this, I don't even see this as bad attitude. Did she late to her working place? I Believe the answer must be No, so when she know that she has responsibilities to care for, she will adjust by herself not even till you tell her. Anyway, try to correct her on time if u think she may not change

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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Realitycheck007:
Her work hours are from 8am-4pm, So if she wakes by 7, Break fast and Kids nko? I Will assist definitely but She shouldn't just be Rolling on the bed.

bekpo:


My sympathy goes to that ur house help, sorry ur hubby,na him marry u or na u marry am? Him for kudu d kook d food naaaa!

Dimples129:


My brother is a real man!


He works 12hrs a day, 5 days a week. His wife works 12 hrsa day, 5 days a week, they have 2 children.

Within 4 years into his marriage he'd learnt to cook (wifey taught him). He works night shifts; so he gets home by 7.30am. He gets the children ready for school, makes breakfast, does the girl's hair, collects everything they need (by himself), from homework to whatever else the school requires that day.

He takes them to school, comes home by 9 am and sleeps until 3pm... I hope you're still following BOY!

He then wakes up at 3pm and brings them back from school, cooks and goes to work by 6pm when his wife gets home because she left 7am.

That's how partnership works! Everybody is in for the family! Loyal to their family. But you would never understand that. You guys want slaves like your

If you were bought up right, you might be half the man he is.