Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

Don’t beat her but collect ur phone and insult her small also don’t forget to update us tomorrow.

Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

please am waiting for the full gist tomorrow don't forget to update us

FreeConCiencE:





I am the guy that snatched your girlfriend. We just set you up. We have arranged how we are going to deal with you if you do anything funny. You saw a fine girl, you think you have seen your wife

Who is this one?

That's why is good to be a player. Try to be one it will save you this heartache.

Get your phone from her but don't beat her so you wouldn't end up in prison while their relationship still continues. When dating a girl make sure is 50/50 at most 60/40 and expect the worse.

You can impress a girl with your intelligence, personality, bedmatics but never with money. If she calls you stingy don't mind, is rather a girl leave you because she thinks you are stingy than stay knowing you got money to spend.

Innobee99:
U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need. Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me.

She get mind o.
She still wants to collect gift.
She is a thief.

Innobee99:
U won't understand bro

What if u slap her and she dies? You'll stuff her in a pale to dispose like that psychopath of last week? Just let it go. Karma will catch up with them.

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

if u do all u mentioned here, that u wanna do to her, my guy u be small piki with bear bear. Let go, she ain't for u...and to me she is still childish.

Innobee99:
I pray God touches my hrt over night cuz she's coming tomorrow evening

u are even praying? Despite the advice u seek for? Smh

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

What I will advice is that you should not invite her, the devil has a way of spoiling plans, you plan to slap someone and before you know it your beating the person. Your plan on just collecting your phone, what makes you think she will just easily give it to you? And when she refuses to give it to you then you decide to use force and in the process no one can really predict the outcome. Bro, just let her be, move on with your life, because she is not worth it.
#justmyopinion

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

LIFE IS A TEACHER. WE KEEP LEARNING EVERY DAY. JUST LET GO AND ASSUME YOU WERE ROBBED BY A DEADLY ROBBER.

So, what me I want to know is did you have sex ? With her ? If yes. Good if No, you are maga. And the bf will still break up with her after he found a girl who is rich. And she will come back begging you to forgive her..

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

LIFE IS A TEACHER. WE KEEP LEARNING EVERY DAY. JUST LET GO AND ASSUME YOU WERE ROBBED BY A DEADLY ROBBER. ATLESAT YOUR ALIVE TO LEARN. THE DEAD PRAY FOR SUCH OPPORTUNITY

She doesn't deserve you. Forget it.

Bro, dnt beat her pls. Dnt do anything unlawfully or something dat u wud regret later. Am a victim worse than urs. We v been with her for 4yrs. Doing all manner of things to her. She was in SS1 by den n I work with a reputable Federal government agency Abuja. I treated her well. Bought her phone worth more than 40k.To b sincere abt our relationship, I introduced myself to all her family members n dey later loved me. I buy things for all d family members every December when leaving Abuja to d village cos we r from d same place. I proposed to her in 2016. We were together in December 2016 in d village. We had a good time. She was to go d university early 2017. She cudnt get d course she was given due to her low JAMB score. We opted for remedial. During 2017 Easter, she wanted to come to Abuja but I advised her not to come. In fact, I told her not travel to anywhere, stay in d sch n focus on her books for d mean time since she has lost one yr already. To encourage her, I promised her dat if she passes her exam n maintain second class upper, I will buy her a car. Before I knew it, on Good Friday, I called her in d morning, there was no ans. I called her in d afternoon, no answer, no reply. Called in d evening, no ans, no reply. Same thing happened on sat morning n afternoon. In d evening, I called, same thing happened. I asked a guy near to use his number to call so dat I will knw whether she has been avoiding my calls or something bad happened to her. But in case she answers, he shld tell her dat he wants to talk to John. He dialled d number n she immediately answered n d guy did wat I told him. For not to suspect dat d call was from me, I called her after an hour. Same drama. No ans, no reply. Same thing happened on Easter Sunday morning n afternoon. When she answered my call around 3pm n I asked y she cudnt ans n reply my calls for 3days, she said her phone was on silent. Dat was d begging of our issues. She told me dat as far as she is concerned, she didn't offend me. But if i think dat she offended me, I should find a place in my hrt to forgive her n leave her alone. I was angry n upset. I said some annoying things which I later apologise to her, despite d fact dat wat she did was suspicious. She later told me dat she has a boyfriend dat she will marry d following yr. 1month later, on her birthday, d guy posted their picture together, wishing her happy birthday, which replied "thank u my love". He is a medical doctor but I doubt if he earns more than me. I earn more than 300k in a month. With all my allowances, I earn N6.5m in yr. I thought of revenge in a lawful way but cos d way d parents love me n d respect I v for them, I later changed my mind. My plan was to lie to her, lure her back to me, treat her like a queen, b paying her flight to abj twice a month, get her admission into a private university. Then before she will finish her 100level, I will invite her for my wedding!

smyo:
Mr man collect your phone back jor. but no beat o, I don't tell you my own, before I go see am for nairaland say you kill woman for cheating, na jail you dey go be that o

jail ke, hell!

Innobee99:
Who is this one?

The Whisperer

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

WHAT USELESS PLANS IS THAT? PLS DROP IT AS IT IS TOTALLY BAD, UNWARRANTED AND CRIMINAL IN NATURE. PLS LET HER GO IF U HV CONCLUDED THAN TO START ANOTHER EPISODE OF POLICE WAHALA. THERE IS NOTHING GREAT ABIUT D PHONE AND NO NEED TO HUMILIATE HER. SHE IS A bleeped UP GIRL.

Innobee99:
U won't understand bro

WHY asking for advise? You have already made up your mind to beat her.
I wash ma hands off this case.

It's between you, your future regrets/joy, her and GOD

Innobee99:
She's just 20 but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send me diz messages.

I'm so sorry to hear this, how much does the phone cost? I don't want you to get into trouble because of this girl, she don't really understand what she did. I did something like this when I was her age and I still feel sad when I remember it, it was all fun and games.I'm sure you're a young man and no sex cause that was how it use to be few years ago before the craze for premarital sex started. No, karma didn't come calling but I got the admission , grew up and grew more sense.I regretted my action each time I remember it and have never tried to take advantage of anyone's love again. People are looking for someone to love and care for them and young girls are trampling on the same love only to look for it at later years. Please don't beat her, leave her, she will come to apologize in few years after this phase of her life passes. If you can forget the phone, if not tell me how much it cost. I'm not rich and you're not a mugu or anything she might have called you, believe me.its just her age speaking.let me tell you, most girls that marry early didn't marry out of love. At that age, you don't really know or care what love is.

Bro, she played you , it's like she scored a goal in your net.

It's a game.

Don't beat her, in fact, learn from her, arm yourself with some good seduction knowledge that you are lacking and go score some goals with others girls.
Control your emotions and learn from your mistakes. This exact thing has happened to myself but now the girl that did it is my most respected person.

All i see is matured responses..

burn her, she will meet her match very soon! Is happening all over across the globe

munalight:

Please, don't stop being you. There is a woman who values your kind out there. I pray you find her soon.

well, I hardly want to believe this anymore especially if a girl who was treated like a crap by her ex could open her mouth and tell me I am too desperate and clingy, too emotional.. Because I did the opposite of her ex. They there is no hope really. No hope.

I have not replied her and will not do so now until I am done with my project and hustle... I do hope she has the energy to withstand the words I would throw at her and I do hope she doesn't commit suicide when I am done.

Sincerely, I don't believe there are ladies that value my kind, even the ones who claim that they do or have been in bad relationship previously...

If you are not bad to them, you are not attractive to them.

any way, God knows my heart.

efavour:

I'm so sorry to hear this, how much does the phone cost? I don't want you to get into trouble because of this girl, she don't really understand what she did. I did something like this when I was her age and I still feel sad when I remember it, it was all fun and games.I'm sure you're a young man and no sex cause that was how it use to be few years ago before the craze for premarital sex started. No, karma didn't come calling but I got the admission , grew up and grew more sense.I regretted my action each time I remember it and have never tried to take advantage of anyone's love again. People are looking for someone to love and care for them and young girls are trampling on the same love only to look for it at later years. Please don't beat her, leave her, she will come to apologize in few years after this phase of her life passes. If you can forget the phone, if not tell me how much it cost. I'm not rich and you're not a mugu or anything she might have called you, believe me.its just her age speaking.let me tell you, most girls that marry early didn't marry out of love. At that age, you don't really know or care what love is.

Hmmmm... This explained what my ex did back then... Yeah age thingy.

Innobee99:
She's just 20 but smarter than a tortoise. Instead of her to apologise, she called me a fool, an educated graduate, many names I don't want to recall. Using same phone to send me diz messages.

bros, you should never take any girl in that age bracket serious like someone adviced.

I bought phone for mine too back then and she did a lot of crazy things but I was calm. When she would come back, I Don wise up!

Beating of her life??, Abeg no try am bro, I know it hurts but at some point u have to consider some things, let me ask u what if she ended up dead from the kinda beating u gave her and don't say it's not possible cuz I've seen it happen before, just leave her, there's a lot of girls out there go get urself one, and if u want to have the greatest revenge just be Happy, that's the best revenge. Don't lose a diamond while searching for a rock, it's not worth it

uss25dec:
Bro, dnt beat her pls. Dnt do anything unlawfully or something dat u wud regret later. Am a victim worse than urs. We v been with her for 4yrs. Doing all manner of things to her. She was in SS1 by den n I work with a reputable Federal government agency Abuja. I treated her well. Bought her phone worth more than 40k.To b sincere abt our relationship, I introduced myself to all her family members n dey later loved me. I buy things for all d family members every December when leaving Abuja to d village cos we r from d same place. I proposed to her in 2016. We were together in December 2016 in d village. We had a good time. She was to go d university early 2017. She cudnt get d course she was given due to her low JAMB score. We opted for remedial. During 2017 Easter, she wanted to come to Abuja but I advised her not to come. In fact, I told her not travel to anywhere, stay in d sch n focus on her books for d mean time since she has lost one yr already. To encourage her, I promised her dat if she passes her exam n maintain second class upper, I will buy her a car. Before I knew it, on Good Friday, I called her in d morning, there was no ans. I called her in d afternoon, no answer, no reply. Called in d evening, no ans, no reply. Same thing happened on sat morning n afternoon. In d evening, I called, same thing happened. I asked a guy near to use his number to call so dat I will knw whether she has been avoiding my calls or something bad happened to her. But in case she answers, he shld tell her dat he wants to talk to John. He dialled d number n she immediately answered n d guy did wat I told him. For not to suspect dat d call was from me, I called her after an hour. Same drama. No ans, no reply. Same thing happened on Easter Sunday morning n afternoon. When she answered my call around 3pm n I asked y she cudnt ans n reply my calls for 3days, she said her phone was on silent. Dat was d begging of our issues. She told me dat as far as she is concerned, she didn't offend me. But if i think dat she offended me, I should find a place in my hrt to forgive her n leave her alone. I was angry n upset. I said some annoying things which I later apologise to her, despite d fact dat wat she did was suspicious. She later told me dat she has a boyfriend dat she will marry d following yr. 1month later, on her birthday, d guy posted their picture together, wishing her happy birthday, which replied "thank u my love". He is a medical doctor but I doubt if he earns more than me. I earn more than 300k in a month. With all my allowances, I earn N6.5m in yr. I thought of revenge in a lawful way but cos d way d parents love me n d respect I v for them, I later changed my mind. My plan was to lie to her, lure her back to me, treat her like a queen, b paying her flight to abj twice a month, get her admission into a private university. Then before she will finish her 100level, I will invite her for my wedding!

No need bro. Never use money to entice a woman. Women likes guys who give their heart aches and a lot of that.

SoapQueen:
What your girl did is bad. You are still very upset which is acceptable but please, don't beat her. What if something happens to her in the process?

Do you want to see your name tagged alongside stories like "jealous ex storms girl's house to beat her over a phone worth 10k? "

You can collect the phone if you want to. It's your money but I feel you should just let bygones be bygones .

Lol make I no lie... U cracked me up with that blogger line lol. U sabi dem well well

Sense wee nor kee u sha...

Innobee99:
Guy, u're one of those that understand what i have been tru in the hands of this gal. One day i went out with this gal. I treated her well, bought her pepper soup and all manner of things. When we were abt going home i assisted i drop her but she refused but with much persuasion, she agred. On our way she requested for roasted fish N1500. I got it for her. Along the line she insisted i drop her in a friend's place. Bro, na my fish she go chop with her boyfriend. And ppl are saying i shld fre her?

My worry is you have not even learned anything from this girl.. U were too forward with the gift and money and NO woman in that age of hers value such gesture.

Innobee99:
Guyz, pls I knw this might sound nasty but I just need ur candid opinion if paying my ex back this way will be good.

To cut the long story short, I met this lady 2015 and everything was going on smoothly until it turned out sour. Before I asked her out, I asked if she was in any relationship but she said no and that gave me a go ahead cuz I hate sharing my lady with any one. I always try my best financially to assist any lady am dating.

WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGAN!

Last year, I told her about the Nigeria Navy form and was happy and told me to apply for her which I did. But few days later she came with some credentials of a guy which she claimed was her cousin brother that I should help him apply too. At first I was suspicious of the whole play but still applied for the guy.

Two weeks later, I got to knw that the said guy was her boyfriend. I was damn mad but she denied and told me I like suspecting her.
Cuz of the love I had for her I let go of the past and we continued. Last year I bought Jamb form for her and she later ended up in one Poly here. Before she went, I bought Her a new phone, paid part of her bills and 10k for some stuffs. When she got to school, her attitude changed she started sending me unsolicited text messages like I fink I make her break up with her boyfriend? That she just played me. I later got a text from the said guy that he was using his babe as bait to get money from whenever they are broke.

I was mad. Haven't been myself all this while and find it difficult to luv any lady at the moment.
I resulted in begging her to tell her am sorry for everything but my plan is to lure her here to my place give her the beating of her life and get my phone back. That's what I can do to make me happy.

Do you think I am right or should let go?
Your advice pls cuz she's coming tomorrow evening.....Thanks

don't beat her, just collect your phone...
and one last kpekus ..

Sorry bro but I think arresting the girl and the guy for scam would be better than beating her up...

motherfucker:


My worry is you have not even learned anything from this girl.. U were too forward with the gift and money and NO woman in that age of hers value such gesture.

How will he learn when he is interested in starting serious relationship with teenagers.
What happened to all the ladies around him but no he wants secondary school leavers.
He should just leave her alone and find another teenager, they are everywhere and will show him pepper until he receives sense.