Toks2008:


There is no insult but simple honesty...i have lost count of how many ladies who have practically asked me out but I never made them feel bad and till date we are still good friends.

Of what use is the gender equality struggle if ladies can't approach a man or at least give him a vivid green light.

I once wrote a thread here about the vulnerability of mature unmarried men...these guys are tired of running after women and any woman who makes herself available gets them.

For instance,Seun is about 36years and still unmarried...a cute guy for that matter but I guess he is an introvert so any lady who shows him serious green light will just have him effortlessly
...

Pls can you link me up with Seun, no harm in trying

omooba969:


Don't lose courage coz it may be your path after all. Do you still have feelings for him?

it is not my path at all... no I don't that was early last year I don't force my self if I see one trying to feel big for me I back out... well Like I said it was just first trial /attempt gone wrong lol

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

stop this assumption if you haven't ask a guy out before

Colourich:
And who told you ladies don't show him greenlight, I think he knows what he wants, I know men that are scared of women that run after them or ask them out. There is a way God created this world, everything has its own procedures and methodology.

I don't really advise ladies to woo guys outrightly but at least show vivid signs and not to boys but men. If you try it with boys the lady may be taken for granted but men will appreciate it.

Colourich:
Have you ever felt like you wanted more but the person automatically withdraw?


I don't play a fair game.

My ex tried this on me and am on my own now.

Colourich:
Do you know the courage it took for her to ask him out, we were even praising her during that time, didn't know the ediot will turn her down, she even insisted on being his side chick but he refused.

Wow, what a man of honor.
He's a real catch for any woman that has him. You mean he rejected free punan.i?
He is indeed one of a kind.
Meanwhile, your friend that wants to be a side chick should stop displaying attitudes of a thot.
She deserves better than being a side chick.
Maybe if her luck shines, the guy might break up with his babe, and his specs would have changed
Meanwhile, that bobo that has been chasing and chyking her since, why she no look him face na? She should look well well, her man is right beside her

julitoch:
Pls can you link me up with Seun, no harm in trying

Start by quoting his posts and you can even PM him and having a Dp might increase your chance.

You might just be his spec but how will he know if you have no Dp?

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

This is exactly why you are still single and hopeless

Thegeneralqueen:
You earn 30k and you have the gut to quote me.....? don't try that mistake again

Thats one honest guy and him quoting you is not a crime, this is a public forum and if you don't want to be quoted, do not post at all... It works that way

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

Keep your bitterness to yourself, don't pass it to humble ladies out there wanting to learn and searching for happiness. Don't spread your frustration, let it remain with you.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

not all. My wife made same move 16years ago and we are 10years in marriage today.

Thegeneralqueen:

You and these guys eh.

Colourich:
Sorry niccur, I use men and dump them instead.

You mean boys? I hope you get lucky enough for a man to be interested in you. And when i say you, i mean 'you' not your sex organs that the boys chase.

kense88:
This is exactly why you are still single and hopeless

But you're still begging me to date you

Preshy561:

You and these guys eh.

Until they learn to respect ladies I'll continue to drag them

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

This your mentality is highly African. I don't blame you though.

dexterautonomy:
Keep your bitterness to yourself, don't pass it to humble ladies out there wanting to learn and searching for happiness. Don't spread your frustration, let it remain with you.

Lol....

mizk!!!


does this remind you of something you said and would love to take back!

bullabong:
not all. My wife made same move 16years ago and we are 10years in marriage today.

That was then when boys think like men not this broke guys we have here ......Can't you see how respectful you sound

dexterautonomy:
Keep your bitterness to yourself, don't pass it to humble ladies out there wanting to learn and searching for happiness. Don't spread your frustration, let it remain with you.

But you seems to be more frustrated than I imagine

Thegeneralqueen:
You earn 30k and you have the gut to quote me.....? don't try that mistake again

lol

Thegeneralqueen:
Until they learn to respect ladies I'll continue to drag them

more grease babe.

HRHQueenPhil:
remember my ex. i made sure that guy noticed me..was too hot..i wld go and seat at his back during PM class and wear a soft seducing perfume. ate cucumber and tomatoes for weeks to make sure i dont gain weight..my efforts paid off indeed..turns out he was AS...still pissed

I am AA.

What else can I say?

Colourich:
Not trying this shitt. They will use you and dump you.

remain there and pray menopause doesn't find you.

wow!... that's.............. interesting

david2:


Smh

this is your belief is one reason finding true love will be difficult for you.

Preshy561:
more grease babe.

You can say that again

Thegeneralqueen:
Where are the good guys ?

They are rare and are mostly introverts
Shine your eyes wella study them you'll find them

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

You don't do it and you are still treated like trash.

tunary:
They are rare and are mostly introverts
Shine your eyes wella study them you'll find them

ok

innytee:
this is your belief is one reason finding true love will be difficult for you.

What if I tell u I have found it already. Some of u just carry ur phone and write rubbish wen u don't know anything. I pity u

Thegeneralqueen:
Until they learn to respect ladies I'll continue to drag them

Internet warrior. In real life, you can't say shit to the least of these guys.