No biggi so long as the guy in question is sane. All should be well.

IamAirforce1:


Lol

Correct Goddess

I like looking for trouble sha

Lol how's my uncle Emoney

Chi59:

Seems someone has been crushing on BOYS.

B*tch don't let me start with you

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

The way u responds to topics most times do shock me
If at this stage u still believe that is a guy must be the one to make the first move then u seriously need to work on urself
Its hard time our women recognises that we are in 21st century

Ximenez:
And if you don't try it, does that means they won't 'use' and 'dump' you?

Sorry niccur, I use men and dump them instead.

revson:
First and foremost, it seems Romancelanders make inferences based on underrepresented sample data. My input is simple; speak up when you see something that resonate well with your preference.

The guy making the first move doesn't make it set in stone that the relationship will be heaven on earth. Whether the guy or the lady make the first move, the relationship is still expose to the risk of abuse and a heart break.

Personally, I have been wooed by my female admirers, particularly when I was in school, and I still love and accord to them the respect they deserve as humans.

More to that, saying that guys should always make the first move is against the tenets of feminism which most ladies are propagating with much gusto and fervency.

Just my thoughts though, I am patient for yours with bated breath.

A round of applause. Very sensible post.

RiyadhGoddess:


Lol how's my uncle Emoney

Lol , I'm just coming across your moniker for the first time ..

Are you a Newbie ?

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

Only Trash can be treated like trash,

Only an immature guy would do that. I have a lady that she has been on my matter for some months, she is from a well to do family. She gave me all the signs, but I don't want to go into a relationship with her because, I have a long way to go in life before getting married.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

Colourich:
Sorry niccus, no man has ever used me and dump me, its always the opposite.

So what are you feeling like? You both 'used and dumped'each other. Whatever that is

A guy that is hot market should be approached to be honest.

Sometimes a man wants to see a lady make the extra effort.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

when u start asking for recharge card and tp u would b treated lie trash.

Thegeneralqueen:
B*tch don't let me start with you

Bae, stop bitching up and down. Not all guys are like your crush.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Only an immature guy would do that. I have a lady that she has been on my matter for some months, she is from a well to do family. She gave me all the signs, but I don't want to go into a relationship with her because, I have a long way to go in life before getting married.

And you call yourself a man

Colourich:
Sorry niccur, I use men and dump them instead.

To the detriment of your mileage. Bimbo lol

Chimamanda and NL feminists won't like this

The babe no toast am sha. She only "facilitated" the toasting with her nice moves.

I like sharp girls like that.
Sharp shy guys will get the message and take action.

Sometimes they are not sure if the interest is mutual. When they see definite signal, boom!

Chi59:

So what are you feeling like? You both 'used and dumped'each other. Whatever that is

Have you ever felt like you wanted more but the person automatically withdraw?


I don't play a fair game.

This will only work under the following circumstances:

1. You've noticed that the guy is very much into you

2. He's super, extra shy.

And the best you can do is to give him a chance to chase you like the lady did, or just sit beside him and start talking about every other thing BUT your feelings for him.

Never ever tell him you like him or you wanna go out with him. That's gonna blow back in your face.

Speakdatruth:

Speak for yourself. Don't push your nonsense opinion down people's throat. Some still doing it and getting it right.

Please tell her.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

Dis one no dey ever get sense at all... All she care abt na guy wey get money

Julietcutie:
can't ever try this... the first attempt the man wanted to feel like a god I just started giving him attitude and stayed on my lane

Maybe he's having a bad day.

Why not try again?

Thegeneralqueen will not send me a pm and give me her number.. Yeye

revson:
First and foremost, it seems Romancelanders make inferences based on underrepresented sample data. My input is simple; speak up when you see something that resonate well with your preference.

The guy making the first move doesn't make it set in stone that the relationship will be heaven on earth. Whether the guy or the lady make the first move, the relationship is still expose to the risk of abuse and a heart break.

Personally, I have been wooed by my female admirers, particularly when I was in school, and I still love and accord to them the respect they deserve as humans.

More to that, saying that guys should always make the first move is against the tenets of feminism which most ladies are propagating with much gusto and fervency.

Just my thoughts though, I am patient for yours with bated breath.

Well said bro.

On the aspect of feminism mentioned, Nigerian feminists twist gender logics with the aid to frustrate guys. That being said, these discombobulated beings would frown when a lady's view contradicts their opinions hence tag her bad names but are sweet to praise sexists.

Look at one's comment on first page discouraging ladies not to adopt such techniques. The smart ones are getting wiser daily, using intelligent tactics to get their dream husbands while her type being dormant/passive is only good at criticising.

The so-called feminists have zero intelligence quotient and engaging them in intellectual discussion is total waste of time.

Colourich:
Have you ever felt like you wanted more but the person automatically withdraw?

Yeah. Though something must have led to that.
And that you no longer want to be in a relationship with him is not a big deal. Doesn't mean you "dumped" him. You just got off the ride.
Not all relationships end at the altar.

Colourich:
Have you ever felt like you wanted more but the person automatically withdraw?

This will always happen when

1. The girl throws herself at the guy.

2. The girl runs after the guy whenever he withdraws.

If he withdraws, don't chase him. He will come back.

wristbangle:


Well said bro.

On the aspect of feminism mentioned, Nigerian ladies twist gender logics with the aid to frustrate guys. That being said, these discombobulated beings would frown when a lady's view contradicts their opinions hence tag her bad names but are sweet to praise sexists.

Look at one's comment on first page discouraging ladies not to adopt such techniques. The smart ones are getting wiser everyday, using intelligent tactics to get their dream husbands while her type being dormant/passive is only good at criticising.

The so-called feminist have zero intelligence quotient and are practically contribute nothing when engaging them in intellectual discussion.

Another opportunity by closet chauvinists to bash feminism. Do you discredit all for one? Did she identify as a feminist?

Thegeneralqueen:
Men Love it when they make the first move not the other way round Oga

these village girls and their internet access

IamAirforce1:


Lol , I'm just coming across your moniker for the first time ..

Are you a Newbie ?

Not really. I've only just been a silent reader but got registered off recent. My regards to my uncle emoney

ElsonMorali:


This will always happen when

1. The girl throws herself at the guy.

2. The girl runs after the guy whenever he withdraws.

If he withdraws, don't chase him. He will come back.

Not always. It occurs when one, regardless of the gender, loses interest, for any reason, in the relationship. Not a big deal.

dingbang:
Thegeneralqueen will not send me a pm and give me her number.. Yeye

If you want my number you have to work for it prove yourself