zicoraads:





I have dated a lot of ladies. And if I were to say I'll reward any, then it may just be one. Cos I know how much she contributed in terms of valuable advice and concrete steps towards managing my finances and channeling it towards more profitable ventures. Same way I also contributed towards her growth as well. We did it because we loved each other.

Hanseel1:



Truer words have never been spoken.

Nigerian men and their inferiority complex have taken this stuff to another level.

Purchase gifts for her because you can afford to not because she sticked with you when you got nothing. That's bullshît

She also got nothing so what's she going to purchase for the guy for dating her when she was broke?

I've never read a post about any woman purchasing a car or any costly gift for a man who dated her when she was broke. Entitlement mentality is the major problem of Nigerian ladies.

WORLDPEACE:


I get some of what you are saying but, really, me too I don't understand the "reward" thing.
If I am broke, my wife is broke. If I become rich, my wife becomes rich. I may never become rich. But if I do, my wife is rich automatically. Which one is reward? Am I suppose to make money and she won't have money? Is she suppose to leave when there is no money?

In some extreme cases I could understand it. Like if I go into a coma for some time and she has to take care of me. Many of the cases I see just promote disloyalty. Honestly, marriage just looks less and less attractive. Basic requirements don become big deal.

It's like a woman going around "rewarding" her husband for not taking another wife. Her standard is definitely not that high.

The thing really get as e be.

IF MEN WERE AS DESPERATE FOR PRAISES AND REWARDS LIKE WOMEN,

THEY'LL EXPECT THANKS FROM THEIR PARTNERS FOR STAYING WITH THEM DURING THEIR MONTHLY PERIODS.
THEY'LL EXPECT PRAISES FOR HOLDING THE BABY.
THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE WORSHIPPED FOR DOING BASIC HOUSE CHORES.
THEY'RE EXPECT PROSTRATION FROM EVERY MEMBER OF THE FAMILY EVERY MORNING AND EVENING FOR PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY.
THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE REVERED AND GLORIFIED FOR ETERNITY FOR PAYING THE BRIDE PRICE, AND SAVING WOMEN FROM TURNING INTO EVENING NEWSPAPERS (DONSTAN18 PLEASE ALLOW ME TO USE THIS )

BUT MEN DON'T CARE AT ALL. ALL THEY WANT IS LOYALTY AND HUMILITY.
WOMEN ON THE OTHER HAND BELIEVE THEY'RE ENTITLED TO THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE, AND CAN AS WELL DEMAND FOR PEOPLE'S LIVES.

safarigirl:
you are a child mentally, that is why you are running your mouth with reckless abandon.


I don't know if your mother and your sisters are all prostitutes, but I can assure ou now that we are not all like the women in your family.

Some of us have values and we also will not allow small boys insult the entire female population of this country because they may or may not have encountered these leeches.


I don't know who fu-cked you up, but it is unhealthy to take out your anger on all Nigerian women. It is not as if Nigerian men are loyal anyway


BTW: I don't know anything about the oga and his ex, I am speaking from a general viewpoint, not from one incident. And, sometimes, a person will leave you not because you have done wrong, but because they realise they are holding you back and they want the best for you. Not all broken relationships have negativity attached to them.

BTW: Many people have progressed in this life without a woman, just like many women have progressed without a man.....but I can tell you this, there are more successful women who have no man than successful men who have no woman


Good luck with your life.

pocohantas:


Nawa. You done commot from Belgium, enter Nigerian used.

Hanseel1:


You helped from your mind. Those girls don't do any guy a favour by feeding them.


They must be rewarded? You kind of feel entitled just like the lady in acrimony.

The fools who purchase cars and other stuffs for ladies not because they can afford them but because the ladies stayed with them when they were broke can't purchase cars for their mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters.


How many times have ladies purchased cars and gifts for men because the men dated them when they were broke?.

Did you even read this your article before posting it?

Anybody dating a broke guy is also broke.. So how can you be broke and consider dating a broke person a favour that must be repaid? .


The dream is free.

carammel:
Today, girls stop chasing already made men around, why don't you date broke guys and build with them.

Tomorrow, any girl that dates a broke guy does not deserve any reward at the long run.

When a broke girl dates a rich guy, she's a gold digger.

When a rich girl date a broke guy, she's a fool,why would she stoop so low?

When a broke girl dates a broke guy, she deserves no reward..

When a rich girl dates a rich guy, she's so proud and stingy, she can't date a broke guy to help his ministry.

Confusion! Confusion!! Confusion!!!

CAPSLOCKED:



IF MEN WERE AS DESPERATE FOR PRAISES AND REWARDS LIKE WOMEN,

THEY'LL EXPECT THANKS FROM THEIR PARTNERS FOR STAYING WITH THEM DURING THEIR MONTHLY PERIODS.
THEY'LL EXPECT PRAISES FOR HOLDING THE BABY.
THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE WORSHIPPED FOR DOING BASIC HOUSE CHORES.
THEY'RE EXPECT PROSTRATION FROM EVERY MEMBER OF THE FAMILY EVERY MORNING AND EVENING FOR PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY.
THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE REVERED AND GLORIFIED FOR ETERNITY FOR PAYING THE BRIDE PRICE, AND SAVING WOMEN FROM TURNING INTO EVENING NEWSPAPERS (DONSTAN18 PLEASE ALLOW ME TO USE THIS )

BUT MEN DON'T CARE AT ALL. ALL THEY WANT IS LOYALTY AND HUMILITY.
WOMEN ON THE OTHER HAND BELIEVE THEY'RE ENTITLED TO THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE, AND CAN AS WELL DEMAND FOR PEOPLE'S LIVES.

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

Hanseel1:


You can put across a message without being utterly ridiculous and uncivilized. Are you a kid? Why insult the young man?


How will you compensate men who dated you when you were broke?

What he's trying to say is men should give out gifts because they can afford them not because a woman stayed with them when they got nothing.

frowland:


Thank goodness it was just your opinion. Women who stood by you during tough times needs to be appreciated and I can tell you this from experience. Very close in comparison only to mothers.

babyfaceafrica:
what of fathers??..working ng 8 to 5 and sending you to school from KG till you finished university.. he doesn't deserve anything abi?

frowland:


When we use the word mothers, most of us actually mean uncommon care. Fathers absolutely is, but most of them are twats. I am a father actually but I am yet to know if am a twaat or not .

donstan18:
First; There's nothing like a lady who stuck with you when you were poor, rather say "Partners who stuck with themselves when they were poor".

To your post.

Reward is a valuable prize given in return for an act or deed.

Reason why such rare ladies are rewarded is because Nigerian ladies date for money, relationship is like a job opportunity to them and an avenue for them to escape poverty, they go in a relationship for money which is one of the reasons they'll continue to be seen as write-off as long as relationship is concerned.

Don't blame them anyway. Prostitutes don't joke with their money.

The only set of female exes that should be rewarded if necessary are those set of ladies who contributed to your struggles and wealth when you had nothing.



Calling you a fool will be an insult to fools out there.

You as a lady who sees it as a favor to date a struggling man, who's your father? what do you have? What are you offering?
Are you not struggling?

Well, what do we expect from a society where women disguise as girlfriends to carry out their prostitution works.

babyfaceafrica:
most of fathers are twats,while mothers are angels... ..abi?..your opinion

Babyforever:
Yaba left patient on the lose

carammel:
Today, girls stop chasing already made men around, why don't you date broke guys and build with them.

Tomorrow, any girl that dates a broke guy does not deserve any reward at the long run.

When a broke girl dates a rich guy, she's a gold digger.

When a rich girl date a broke guy, she's a fool,why would she stoop so low?

When a broke girl dates a broke guy, she deserves no reward..

When a rich girl dates a rich guy, she's so proud and stingy, she can't date a broke guy to help his ministry.

Confusion! Confusion!! Confusion!!!

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

Cyberleets:
She deserves it...

james9932:
This is a very stupid post I must say, If this guy is broke then that means he is even more stupid. Nowadays it very hard to get a girl you call your Girlfriend that would be so loyal with you during your trying times when there are lots of guys out there to give her the best so if you find one my brother celebrate her if this fool likes make him go hand himself