AllHailBiafra:
You just ended up displaying your immaturity and dafty level of sense.

I can see maturity wants to kill u...

continue deceiving ursef...

Poverty will continue in ur life if u dnt reason well

holluphemydavid:

And d lady will not be contributing anytin rite, most of u girls commenting, do u knw Dat 60k is d salary of GL 09 in federal ministries, and u knw wot it takes to attain Dat post, and guys in GL 06,07 and 08 who doesn't earn up to Dat amount are getting married, I tink most girls need to av a rethink abt dis, and also plan hw to help d family, not Dat every problem of d home should be on d man

You must have missed the part where i said "especially if i do not have a better income" and the part where i said we can get married when "our" expenses are better.

chinchonglee:

I can see maturity wants to kill u...

continue deceiving ursef...

Poverty will continue in ur life if u dnt reason well

You see how daft you are? What made me a poor man? Or are you judging from your poverty endrained brain?

Saff:

You have sweet long legs

chinchonglee:
I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

Bro, with this statement of yours, you cannot plan. So many started small but with their hardworking spirit at work and sound planning they were promoted and also earn more.
Do NOT despise little beginning my brother. Our God of Miracle is real. Activate your plans and thoughts positively and with time you are there.

I have read all the posts here but none addressed my mind. When are we going to be fed up with endless cycle of birth and rebirth. Must we reproduce? Why can't we say no to nature or the creator that we are tired of existing? Why can't we all stop reproducing and go extinct and leave all the pains of material existence behind?

What are we enjoying here that worth it? Food, sex, money? Are these things we enjoy here more than pains humanity experience here?

I read this thread from start to finish. Very interesting read i must say. Personally, i cant marry with 60k. I used to earn three times the sum of 60k but i lost the Job. I didnt marry then and i now earn less than 100k and i am not even thinking of marriage. The issue is, i cant just suffer with a Nigerian girl in Nigeria. The girl might just kill me before my time. Maybe it is my destiny not to marry. I am now resigned to fate.


However, i can marry a Nigerian or foreign girl in a stable society where things work. I am in my mid 30s already and although i feel lonely at times, i am comfortable being single and i can do what i want. In summary, i dont think i can marry a Nigerian girl in Nigeria even if i earn 250k. I guess it is a mind set issue.

DonX001:

Where is this your location??
Is it in Sambisa forest??

North West Nigeria

Freeze007:


It is suicide...that amount is not even sufficient for me alone let alone a family....Its good to identify a potential but we must be frank to ourselves.Thank God I left her,otherwise, the next step would have been trying to put in for me

Sharp guy

[quote author=Goddyss post=69893848]I have read all the posts here but none addressed my mind. When are we going to be fed up with endless cycle of birth and rebirth. Must we reproduce? Why can't we say no to nature or the creator that we are tired of existing? Why can't we all stop reproducing and go extinct and leave all the pains of material existence behind?

What are we enjoying here that worth it? Food, sex, money? Are these things we enjoy here more than pains humanity


It is your choice.

OEChika:




yes they might be married but how sure are you they are "happily married"

Happily married is not all about money but money is very important in marriage. If money is everything,rich couples won't divorce.

Anfieldboss:


How old are you?

I'm older than you.

Offpoint:

I know you'll be here...

How far?

jeff1607:



and if he looses his job and can't get one almost immediately? you will bail out I guess right?

No. I won't.
I don't know why most persons cannot comprehend. For the fact I said that I'll love to be really comfortable before I get married doesn't mean I wouldn't stay with my man when the table turns. I'll be with him through thick and thin but seriously, he's gotta be worth the stress. We can't lose everything together. One person has gotta hold the other up.

UyaiIncomparabl:


No. I won't.
I don't know why most persons cannot comprehend. For the fact I said that I'll love to be really comfortable before I get married doesn't mean I wouldn't stay with my man when the table turns. I'll be with him through thick and thin but seriously, he's gotta be worth the stress. We can't lose everything together. One person has gotta hold the other up.

I like you. You are being really honest unlike the other Nigerian girls here.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm older than you.

If you were my age mate you would have lowered ur standards by now... I pray you find what you're looking for soon.

vicben27:
keep slaying and waiting for Bill Gates Son. don't come here crying 10yrs frm now telling us how wicked men are. If you like, you go and settle for the mountains not less.

Guy, financial stability doesn't equal to massive wealth. The certainty there is that, he has to be comfortable on his own. We can't be managing on peanuts man. I've suffered too much as a young girl to still be suffering in marriage. No, I'm not gonna be a liability. In fact, I have to also be very independent before I get married. I hope you get the drift.

Anfieldboss:


If you were my age mate you would have lowered ur standards by now... I pray you find what you're looking for soon.

No Sir. Look at the comment i just dropped above this. You'll get my drift better.

resurgent2019:


I like you. You are being really honest unlike the other Nigerian girls here.

Haha. Gracias.

Obiwiz:

Are you married? Are you very young? As in, below 25?

My age has nothing to do with what I want/seek in a potential husband. Age doesn't equal maturity.

.

frank41:


I hear....keep waiting for comfortability ok!

Thanks for stopping by, man.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Guy, financial stability doesn't equal to massive wealth. The certainty there is that, he has to be comfortable on his own. We can't be managing on peanuts man. I've suffered to much to still be suffering in marriage. No, I'm not gonna be a liability. In fact, I have to also be very independent before I get married. I hope you get the drift.

now ur talking most ladies now a days, would Just seat back waiting for an already made man.what are you bringing to the table, should be the question.no man will respect his woman if she's fully dependent on him.ecept he chooses to.If you see prospect in him, and a hope for a bright future, encourage him and let the both of you build an empire together, money will come and go. what if his earning well and later looses his job? my elder bro. his an example, and a few others too. the start of a journey may be rough, it's the destination that matters.

jolyment:
it's your choice

So is it your choice to reproduce? Did you put your d1ck there by yourself? You are just a robot being controlled by nature. You have no choice at all

Dshocker:


You sound like you've tasted poverty before

Guy see, I've suffered too too much to still want to suffer again in marriage. Haba, na only me waka come? We've gotta enjoy the best of life, man.

Goddyss:


So is it your choice to reproduce? Did you put your d1ck there by yourself? You are just a robot being controlled by nature. You have no choice at all

.

You can decide not to reproduce.

Coolgent:

Really

Like seriously man!

shatta419:

May u get d type u deserve..
they're fvckinq rare, mind u.

I certainly will. Be on the watch out.

Akpacha:
this ur red colour de deceive u abi? U de wait for private jet owners? Go and ask tboss how many don hit her up. Big rich guys are taken by intelligent babes not empty headed babes.

So, who's empty headed here?
Scoffs. I owe you no explaination.

chris31:

Marriage is not meant for everybody
Runs have re-strategized most girls don't tell me ur among
Not surprise percentage of unmarried girls keep increasing each year

Runs? Who's talking about runs here?
Is it bad to want a specific thing? Must I want what others want? I won't be a liability. We both gonna be comfortable. I don't seek massive wealth. I just need you to be financially stable.

Elder001:

Well it's good to be comfortable.

But know that you have no right to dream about rich men if you're not rich yourself,it doesn't just make any sense.

If you're broke and you're looking for a rich man then something is wrong.

Scroll through my previous comments and read. Who talked about wealth? You have to be financially stable, as I will be too. If there's no independence for me, there's no marriage.

PastorandMentor:
See this Mumu

Back to you.