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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by OurworkComNg1: 2:12am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz: hahaha. well, do you have a laptop and a browsing phone? go to web.whatsapp. com that's all i will tell you.. goodluck |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Funjosh(m): 2:20am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Nothing wrong in her ex getting her a job, but everything went wrong the moment she went to pass the night in his place on the eve of the appointment day without informing you before or after going. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Macon1212: 2:22am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Don't mind all these people that are saying she might be telling the truth. Read between the lines, how can an ex got her job without anything attached to it? Worse than this, she spent a night in ex house, is the man a wood that he would not lay on her. You better forget about her. She confessed to you because she thought you already know. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by maestroferddi: 2:24am On Aug 04, 2018 |
SexytorresE:Naivete is all I can deduce from what you have been saying. Don't fall a victim... |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by franby: 2:25am On Aug 04, 2018 |
pek: What is this one saying...? You dont make sense at all. If you are that good in English. How does it help the situation? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Donjazzy12(m): 2:28am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Another foolish young man! You love someone you don't trust! She is just using your love for her pussy against you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 2:37am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Donjazzy12:to the extend you call me foolish? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:44am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Offpoint: 2:44am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:...she slept over at her ex place without telling you.... Most commenters on page 1 are too blind to read the message here "lack of communication" Bro, a lot MIGHT have happened the night she slept over. is her ex alone the night she slept over? was there anyone living with him? The truth is shît might have happened that night and nothing might happened, either way brother.... be vigilant and watch out, get some eyes on them both. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by DansomtoC(m): 2:46am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Forget dat bae cos once de bee is always de bee ,d ex still dey chop ur bae ogbono so no waste ur tym saying ur financee.pls read d handwriting on the.... |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by nairamaniac: 2:46am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Op, u need to know if she is lying or not. And what I am about to tell you now is the wisest thing you would hear from anyone on this thread. Get her in same room with you. Then tell her there is only one way u would be convinced she didn't cheat on u with him. Tell her to call her ex on the fon in your presence and say to him; "I enjoyed the sex we had the last time". Meanwhile the fon is on speaker. Your ex'es reaction would expose or vindicate her. Wise as Solomon. Make sure u thank me later. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Offpoint: 2:49am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Macon1212:I'm a 98% sure shît happens that night... this is her ex we're talking about... shît when down that night that's why she couldn't open up to the guy cuz her conscience was tormenting her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Offpoint: 2:52am On Aug 04, 2018 |
nairamaniac:Too much sense will not kill you... you screws are up-to-date. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by LegitBoyy: 2:54am On Aug 04, 2018 |
VampireeM:Shut the crap please ....No one is saying she can't get help but you didn't read that she went to pass the night at her ex place? Nigerians and double standard. This is sad. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Offpoint: 2:54am On Aug 04, 2018 |
nairamaniac: kindly quote the op with this advice 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by rman: 3:00am On Aug 04, 2018 |
I cannot believe some posters found a way to justify her actions. The OP is not insecure at all. And the lady is definitely cheating. Haba people! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by biggie73(m): 3:03am On Aug 04, 2018 |
There is trouble in paradise. Things will never be the same again. I don't envy you a sec. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Azam101: 3:11am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Bros I feel your pains relationship is all about trust. how can she hide such things from you! to the extent of passing nights with her ex, don't lay your eggs in one basket from the looks of things she is still dating her ex. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by majormofor(m): 3:14am On Aug 04, 2018 |
following this story o,come and tell us what happened next!!! I did go with the advice of telling her to call her ex in ur front!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Azam101: 3:15am On Aug 04, 2018 |
[quote author=Bluezy13 post=69952477] The point here is that the guy is not Comfortable with her hiding it. Let alone sleeping overnight (who wouldn't think again) She should have told him.[/quote Forget those siding the chick! they can't take the nonsense oo how can ur fiancée pass the night with her ex? because of job 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Azam101: 3:16am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Funjosh:God will elevate you this month bros! |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by LordIsaac(m): 3:18am On Aug 04, 2018 |
The mere fact that she couldn't tell you everything before the "success" is the red signal. Not the success in itself. When pressure mounts tomorrow in marriage as challenges will come, she can as well do anything, I mean anything, even spitting in the face of morality and ethics to come out of the problem. Such people's mantra is: the end justifies the means. If honesty is your own love language, my brother, do not mind the myopic views of many here, trash it out with her and that will require a discipline and test of not less than 2years of observation....so that we can see her true nature especially with patience. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by majormofor(m): 3:23am On Aug 04, 2018 |
nairamaniac: This is dope and what you should do nxt!!! dnt try it twice, n make sure she's calling the number |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by lekonso: 3:29am On Aug 04, 2018 |
She supposed to have told you right from the beginning when her ex got that job for her, even before she went for the interview. This is to prevent this kind of situation of suspicion from happening. But what i have noticed is that may be because women are of weaker sex, sometimes they are fearful in telling the outright truth when it is obviously necessary. They are fearful in telling you truth when they supposed to tell you in order to avoid suspicion in future. My advice to you is that, she said she is not cheating on you, believe her because you don't have any clear evidence now to doubt her but keep very close tracks on her. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Carlmax(m): 3:42am On Aug 04, 2018 |
VampireeM: She didn't tell him earlier and so what? Are you even making sense, can you try that with your husband or boyfriend? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by lielbree: 3:46am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Auladimeji:Even if he is her husband. She should still take the job. Tomorrow they wil ask what do u bring to the table. Nonsense |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by bammy777(m): 4:07am On Aug 04, 2018 |
let me tell u this, if I contact my ex, just know it's because I want to f her again. passing the night with my ex n I won't touch is a lie.My house is close to my work place, we will touch light every time after 4. depending on the nature of the job. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by promisious: 4:14am On Aug 04, 2018 |
The way Jesus is looking at u now, Op This is sign to stop and reflect
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Daeylar(f): 4:33am On Aug 04, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: LMAO Why are you like this Lol, this just made me laugh so hard. Op as for you, dump her abeg, She spent the night in her ex house. Didn't tell you before or after. Why didn't she tell you before doing so if she didn't feel that it was a big deal? it's a clear cut issue. Moving on from that You obviously don't feel comfortable about it. So why not walk away? Don't you value your peace of mind? Is this how you want to spend the rest of your years? Always wondering about what happened? Wondering if you can trust her? Up to you op sha. If you can continue. Fire down. If you can't, walk away. We are not the ones who will be in the marriage, it's you and your bride to be 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Zsquare: 4:36am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz: If you take out this kind of argument with your girl and all she says is "am not cheating on you" then she loves you and 90% she's saying the truth. If she doesn't trust you she won't open up to you! You did same with you ex by helping if you can so see her ex as you. He just helped her with the job and that's all. Don't hurt yourself with unnecessary high blood pressure! |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Bianda24: 4:39am On Aug 04, 2018 |
I quite understand your grief, but then you cant deny her of her life and in her pursuit of better life. What matters is trust. Do you trust her? What I don't appreciate about it is her passing the night in her ex abode. However, you just need to be a man. If she is jobless, you will call her a leech. So learn to trust her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by adeniyisamuel59(m): 4:45am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Auladimeji:You mean he should believe her when the OP said she went to pass a night with ex, I am confused here. |
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