internationalman:
1 it's either you are not guy enough or

2 you re jealous.

If it's number 1 you have to learn the guy code

If it's number 2 tell the guy to tell his girl to come along with her friend next time she's coming.

What you do with her friend is up to you

He has an irresponsible friend and he is trying to discard him off.A friend that has no house but keeps bringing different girls to another person's house is not a good one.Till the day something bad happens,thats when he will know

internationalman:

Exactly Bro.
I have many that messed up everywhere after having sex but I don't complain coz I know it's just a temporary phase of life. Who knows they might b in a good position to help me tomorrow..

Plus no damage is done to me by having sex in my room.

Bro,forget that’ who knows tomorrow level’.Most of such friends that brings girls to your house at your discomfort virtually don’t take you serious and hardly they come to your aid or assistance when help is needed in future.Guys count it as fun and nothing more.It will even be better and they will respect you more if you confront and stops them for bringing girls to your house.I have done this many times and from experience such friends have no future values ,only fun fun fun.They will only come to your place when they wants to have fun,but when it’s time for serious issues they disappear nothing more.So the guy should act now and No need to displease himself because he wants to pleases is so called friends.I am Talking from personal experience

internationalman:
1 it's either you are not guy enough or

2 you re jealous.

If it's number 1 you have to learn the guy code

If it's number 2 tell the guy to tell his girl to come along with her friend next time she's coming.

What you do with her friend is up to you

na so the whole matta no pass this one na. It's simply a thing of the guy code jare. Those of us that started by renting just one room apartment understands this stuffs. it's normal so long they don't mess up the place and expect you to do the cleanup:

Just tell am say at the moment you and your family dey fast at church tins and u know d rest.. Him go definitely give u some space time..from der u will find ur way..

This happened to me while l was in Makurdi in those days even from somebody older than I am that I so much respect. I endured it for the end of the fateful year and I later told him diplomatically " Sir, I have embarked on restitution involving fasting and prayers this year. Please, give me some some break"
Through the grace of God, the fasting and prayer didn't end before I left that place. Each time, I will tell him that I was still praying and fasting and there should be no desecration of my room!

Guys/ladies, I want you to share your views here, please..Just post, no need to register...Some of my extended colleagues on the forum are really saying something saddd. Let's hear your experienced views there -

https://www.econjobrumors.com/topic/how-do-you-balance-working-hard-with-marriage

Read every post and you will be "flagabasted".

oge4real:
Guy, I don’t like it when you bring girls to my house for sex, please stop.

women can never reason like man, madam this is man's talk

tballeyy:
women can never reason like man, madam this is man's talk

Guy, please go here and share your views

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Guys, I want you to share your views here, please..Just post, no need to register...Some of my extended colleagues on the forum are really saying something saddd. Let's hear your experienced views there -

https://www.econjobrumors.com/topic/how-do-you-balance-working-hard-with-marriage

Read every post and you will be "flagabasted".

If you are ripe enough for marriage, go and marry.

bussy2020:
If you are ripe enough for marriage, go and marry.

Guy, contribute intelligently to the debate there..Support or counter views there. That's why I brought it to nairaland. That forum is where academics around the world in particular fields go to debate things

Share a view there..Well thought out view

edoman2016:

I hope you know some friends can be unreasonable when you expect them to understand you.

that is why you dont have to keep unreasonable friends

Diamond23:
Y not be open nd tell him u don’t like it instead of dying in silence....xo after dey both cum on d bedding u pick it up nd wash....#Yack# cnt even imagine dat.

lol what is #yack# if they both cum he must wash it. That’s Y dey are friends.

Confront him and tell him point blank.
The relationship may go sour but don't GAF except he is the one paying your rent

oyb:
I don't have the answer.

Because if as you said the guy is an ambitious guy going places, maybe you should look the other way. You may one day need the guys help for something on a higher level than knacking.

Lots of stuff happens when guys are broke bachelors.

I was at a reunion of sorts the other day and see as everyone done fat and big up. And these were guys who had probably done stuff like this.

However, you need to lay some ground rules - let him come with his own bedsheets, let him clean up afterwards.

Also no dodgy stuff before you get snagged in a rape case.

If you are really uncomfortable with it, you can consider pretending something was stolen from your place. That may force him to stop.

Dear thread originator, this is your answer.

Kai! But this reminds me of when my friend came to my house and I lost 20k and my Samsung tablet. That was the day that rship died.

Sometimes I think back and wonder if he was truly the one who stole them.

Enter the room naked while they are having sex and tell your guy plainly u want to DO too...and mean it dont smile

internationalman:
1 it's either you are not guy enough or

2 you re jealous.

If it's number 1 you have to learn the guy code

If it's number 2 tell the guy to tell his girl to come along with her friend next time she's coming.

What you do with her friend is up to you

You sabi wella baba mi

It is very simple. Tell him you don't want him to bring any girl to your house moving forward. If you don't, despite not been involved directly in his sinful habit, you will share in his punishment, because God that provided the accommodation for you expect you to use it in a godly way. If you fail to confront your fear , it will consume you.
Imagine either of the two of them carrying sexually transmitted disease, dropping past of the liquid that could infect you either on your bed or toilet which you may carelessly contact ?
What about you getting to know if the guy sponsored pregnancy abortion for one of the girls he brought to your house? Sharing indirectly in murder?

I have done it a number of times sha. Especially when my sister comes to stay for a while in my house.

So I just take my coded babe to my guy's house and Fucck the living shitt out of her.

And my friend has brought his babe to my house to many times.
The guy even had sex with two girls in my house once.
The room smelled of sex for hours.

Guy n3d guy.just twl him the things u need him to stop..nothing bad if ur good friend deh knack for ur side if he no deh scatter d place and a range am..one day it might be his turn to help u back in a bigger way.

Hoes will come and go but a true friend is hard to find.

AsianLoyalist:


What's your point exactly

Are you the man in question

Play the don Moen Gospel music 24- 7 in your apartment and various you will die and go to hell fire if you commit fornication messages by Holy-Holy gentle speaking pastors.
Play them very loud so that he will hear it

oyb:
I don't have the answer.

Because if as you said the guy is an ambitious guy going places, maybe you should look the other way. You may one day need the guys help for something on a higher level than knacking.

Lots of stuff happens when guys are broke bachelors.

I was at a reunion of sorts the other day and see as everyone done fat and big up. And these were guys who had probably done stuff like this.

However, you need to lay some ground rules - let him come with his own bedsheets, let him clean up afterwards.

Also no dodgy stuff before you get snagged in a rape case.

If you are really uncomfortable with it, you can consider pretending something was stolen from your place. That may force him to stop.

Best shit i ever read. -Pretend you lost money!! �

The horror evertime you sleep n dream

edoman2016:
He is based in Akwa Ibom and into palm oil business. When he comes to Lagos for supply to stores, he is a very ambitious man

Send me his details am interested in his palm oil supply business b4 you ask him to stop using your house as chalet, that your pastor says the girls evil spirit is affecting you.

How is this a problem biko? Some guys eh...just tell him 2 arrange another babe for you when his coming cuz i perceive jealously

except he used to give u money bt if not tell him that u dnt like his habit nd if he used to gv u money stop colectin the money and gray to GOD to give u grace to approach him

The guy will not even come again cause he is on nairaland now reading your post

edoman2016:

He doesn't tell me directly that he wants to have sex with his female friend in my apartment. He will just tell me they want to cuddle only. What he does is that he will flush the used condoms in the toilet and keep the condom pack into his pocket when leaving so that I won't notice.

Yesterday, he flush the used condoms after he was done with the girl but forgot to keep the condom pack hidden under my sofa. When I was mopping this morning, I saw it and opened it. I saw two condoms used up but remaining one n the condom pack. When I called him this morning about the condom pack, he denied it. But I know it's from him because he took it from my bedroom. And it's the only condom remaining in my bedroom.

its not by force to be friends. Tell him your mind and communicate your feeling

I know it hurts but you just ruined guys code.

internationalman:
1 it's either you are not guy enough or

2 you re jealous.

If it's number 1 you have to learn the guy code

If it's number 2 tell the guy to tell his girl to come along with her friend next time she's coming.

What you do with her friend is up to you

bad boy

Lock your house and go flex