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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by vincentjk(m): 11:49pm On Nov 09, 2018

Bro how could u allow such a thing to happen to u! chai.... u could have invested that money into a biz rather than giving it to a gal, now see the pain u jst caused urself all in d name of being a good bf and at the end wetin u go gain 4rm her? sex. this is ending 2018 we guys have to start using our head nao.., while if ur sis asked 4 daht amount u would'nt ve given it to her

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by invinzible1: 7:02am On Nov 10, 2018

Pureety:

Never you in your life,quote me again!!

Lol.... I have done it now...Bimbo what can you do

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by pedrilo: 8:11am On Nov 10, 2018

I bliv those two idiots wit female moniker are actually jobless guys using d F moniker to seek attention because everyone knows wat d babe did to op is very wrong n enuf to end d relationship.
This kind of woman can plan wit her family to terminate d hubby's life just to inherit his wealth.
Poor pipo always look for ways to gang up against rich pipo to corner their assets if given the slightest opportunity.

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by mhizv(f): 11:34am On Nov 10, 2018

I think she should have set up her business first. Besides if she had told op about her FAM ish, he can help what ever way he can or better still with whatever she makes from her business.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by aprilwise(m): 12:25pm On Nov 10, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend. The guy saying that his girlfriend is not responsible. He gave her money for a business and she used the money for another thing.
Stingy man

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by aprilwise(m): 12:28pm On Nov 10, 2018

I can't date a lady who does not have something doing to earn a life .

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by abagajnr93(m): 4:30pm On Nov 10, 2018

Lemme say dis for as long as u have a family there must be challenges, financial challenges or otherwise I hope after using the money for her family there won't be problems anymore from them.. She should av invested in herself and by God's grace help them out.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 4:35pm On Nov 10, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

how I wish your man and brothers could read this

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 10, 2018

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

you aren't as smart as you think

you need to be 'recalibrated

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by iceybux(m): 5:53pm On Nov 10, 2018

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

what if he had loand the sum and had a specific time to refund.. so wah would be the excuse from her? if the money wasnt sent will d family issue still not b there...? he wants a resourceful lady and not a waster.. how much was she able to raise y didn't she use it.. 500k just like tha

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Pureety(f): 5:26am On Nov 11, 2018

invinzible1:

Lol.... I have done it now...Bimbo what can you do

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by invinzible1: 9:53am On Nov 11, 2018

Pureety:

K

Oya no vex, sorry for the foul language

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by shyman03(m): 10:02am On Nov 11, 2018

you better quit...

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Pureety(f): 3:01pm On Nov 11, 2018

invinzible1:

Oya no vex, sorry for the foul language

Forgiven!!
Happy Sunday

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by ethankareem(m): 3:13pm On Nov 11, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

if he was your bother, would you say the same? Sometimes we all need to be considerate

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by nelxxy(m): 3:35pm On Nov 11, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

shut up

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by nelxxy(m): 3:37pm On Nov 11, 2018

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

shut up

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by nelxxy(m): 3:37pm On Nov 11, 2018

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

shut up

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by nelxxy(m): 3:39pm On Nov 11, 2018

highqueen:
Mtchew.
You are very stingy.
To even think that you spent months before sending the damn money after she helped you with your business and everything.
She has been supportive yet you still wanna wave that off by quitting.
Na your type deh tell their wives not to help their family members.
Mtchew

shut up

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by invinzible1: 10:10pm On Nov 11, 2018

Pureety:

Forgiven!!
Happy Sunday

Wish you same

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Mypeople2(m): 11:09pm On Nov 11, 2018

ramselly:
Hello Nairalanders!

Please i need mature advice only.

I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.

I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough.

500k ? You spent 500k on her yet all these nairaland ladies are making mouth as if they can give you 100k.Bros pls allow her to hustle for sometime on her own She still does not know the value of what you are doing for her..Please spend sometime to talk to her, it may help

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Menzy86(m): 7:05am On Nov 12, 2018

I dey pray for the day one woman will be able to command 10k at a blow from me someone is already spending 500k? Omoh some guys get mind sha. The kind of brainless ladies so many irresponsible parents are breeding these days in Nigeria is alarming. The day I will give one woman who is not my wife 500k, e mean say I wan marry her plus her two younger sisters be dat. Who do me?

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 12, 2018

Send Her Another Half A Mill Since U Love Her That Much.

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by DJInfluence: 11:18am On Nov 12, 2018

Blakjewelry:

please reread what you wrote, and this time think with your brain

assuming the brain is working grin

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by enemyofprogress: 11:19am On Nov 12, 2018

Please dump her and look for another babe. Weekend wey go sweet na from Thursday person dey know.

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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by 77up(m): 11:19am On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

I know feminist when I see one undecided

Op pls japa!

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Bizibi(m): 11:19am On Nov 12, 2018

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

if that is the reason then she is not a serious person....

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Ladokun12(m): 11:19am On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

cn u just listen to Ur self�

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by kushercain: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2018

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

You be the real definition of fish brain. So the girl now that had no vision, no plan, nothing to fall back on no? Family issues would always be there but now when you use your safety net as a fisher net, then sorry is your name.

You're also a stingy girl. Stingy with sense.

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by enemyofprogress: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2018

Menzy86:
I dey pray for the day one woman will be able to command 10k at a blow from me someone is already spending 500k? Omoh some guys get mind sha. The kind of brainless ladies so many irresponsible parents are breeding these days in Nigeria is alarming. The day I will give one woman who is not my wife 500k, e mean say I wan marry her plus her two younger sisters be dat. Who do me?

bros you bad o. grin

Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by eyinjuege: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2018

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

It was never her money to use as she seems fit. It was not money given to her to sort family issues.
It was money given to her to start a business, which is to yield dividends.
The boyfriend who gave her the money expected some returns from that money as was planned between them.
Why did she change their agreement, and do something contrary? She should have at least told him if there was a change in plans.
I'm sorry to say, but I cannot trust such a person

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