OladimejiRufai:
Very simple

Firstly, lay some foam first inside the bin or any soft material

Then dump her inside the dustbin

Lobatan! That way she wont feel hurt at all if she lands safely on the foam

Or u can dump her inside a lagoon. if she can swim, she will find her way

No, u dont av to thank me

What are Nairalanders for??

Thanks for making my day.

Gofwane:
It's very simple nah. Tell her you are now gay.
But oboyyeh, if the girl is more than 30 years, then you are in deep shii because these categories of girls are soo patient that they can cook a stone till it becomes softer than a boiled egg

Lol. This one weak me oo.

mechanics:
hahahahahah, that's on the extreme o.

i no my fellow women, do u knw d magnitude of wat we discuss during gathering ? Do u knw hw many of us who belongs?

Abudu2000:
easy! just flash her number. whenever she calls back yell at her and ask her why she didn't pick up on time. tella it's over that what if you were in a police net and she would just let em take you to kirikiri.. works everything dude

lol bad guy

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

how do we hurt you without hurting you?

As a muslim, you dont go into any sexual act without being official married, being committed is not enough bcuz of unforeseen scenarios like this that arises,im pretty sure there was some level of commitment he showed her in allowing him to sleep with her, and where did that "commitment" take her madam?

i think he owns her no apology or any sort of heartfelt explanation, they are not officially married, so in a court of law, his a free man.. the only reason he feels bad, is bcuz he feels like he took advantage of her bcuz of myth and bias notion that every sexual activity are initiated by men, as if ladies are firewood

Amhappy:


Sorry to quote you. Sex is not supposed to be engaged in without commitment. What you said is because we are disobedient children. Our Father mandated sex to be within marriage. The main reason OP is feeling guilty is because he has joined his body to that of this lady and I tell you that's why the lady will also feel bad when she hears op. Relationship can exist without sex.

ImaIma1:


It is a two way thing...you are probably right. But the lady probably gives herself with a mind that it is a serious affair not knowing that the guy has other motives.

Besides, not all ladies just have sex around for having sex sake. It is still guys that will say she has been used and imply that her value has depreciated with the number of men she has slept with.

But that same measure is not used for men. Instead, it is one more feather to his cap. So i

Nice one.

This is a social-myth that many men especially African men use in portraying women that have sex.

It's one of the most sexist word from some men.

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Turn up with a fake positive HIV result, and watch her run far away.

Matured minds will go to their gfs, sit them down and have conversation...

Triangles1:










Chai....... I'm highly proud of you..... Is only Nigeria that can lie like this without falling sick.

lol.. the Best I can come up with

Nna samguru siya na iweghi shishi ,ask her 4 cash every minute ...stoop so low 4 dat o, women ndo nu just helping a gentleman

centboy123456:



I don't know what is wrong with all this Nigeria girls self what is the big deal about sex tell me u girls take sex as a big deal what wrong with u they both had sex nobody force them to have sex and u are here saying s&hit so d guy commit crime to have sex with her what wrong with all this foolish Nigeria girls self sex is noting u hear me

Sex is viewed differently by both sexes towards the other. You need to understand that.

Isn't it still you guys that will congratulate a guy for "hitting that" and insult a lady for adding another body count.

Sex to guys is different from sex to ladies.

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Oga you die there

im not surprised the op said "feminist should keep off", bcuz the more y'al talk, the more u expose ur mentality

you said "It is a two way thing...you are probably right", what do u mean by "probably", are you trying to contradict or belie the fact that females enjoy sex too?

"But the lady probably gives herself with a mind that it is a serious affair not knowing that the guy has other motives."

*first of all, you dont know the lady,so how can u speak on her behalf
*second of all, how do you know she's in the relationship with the mindse of having a serious affair, what if she is just having fun too just like the op, or at a certain stage she got tired and wants out but didnt bring it on social media
*you said "not all ladies just have sex around for having sex sake",really! ..so its only men that go into relationship for sex sake, i wonder who will marry the ladies then

I insist, he owns her no apology or explanation whatsoever, bcuz sex is a two-way thing..it could be vice-versa and she dumps him too, non of y'all will say she used him for sex, rather his money

ImaIma1:


It is a two way thing...you are probably right. But the lady probably gives herself with a mind that it is a serious affair not knowing that the guy has other motives.

Besides, not all ladies just have sex around for having sex sake. It is still guys that will say she has been used and imply that her value has depreciated with the number of men she has slept with.

But that same measure is not used for men. Instead, it is one more feather to his cap. So i

Please take the "LOSER MEN" you used back. You dont have to generalize that.
Unless, you're stuck with one that doesnt appreciate you as a lady/woman.Either ways, you dont need that generalizing ish.

Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men.

See the kind of advice some of you were giving to somebody's story with out you even sure if there are more to what the man said.
I am not a fool , I hardly comment when it comes to this kind of issue bcs am not privilege to hear the woman's part of the story,Alas , Nemesis awaits us all.
Y all of a sudden , your eyes now opened to her flaws and you think the only way is for you to leave her not for you people to dialogue and talk like a mature adult who knows she might change.......?
You are not seeking for advice but seeking for people to validate what you have already program to do in your mind.I refuse to be a culprit.
I stand to be corrected but I want us to know that what goes around comes around. God bless us all.

ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.

wen he was sleeping with her was she moaning or crying?

ImaIma1:


Sex is viewed differently by both sexes towards the other. You need to understand that.

Isn't it still you guys that will congratulate a guy for "hitting that" and insulting a lady for adding another body count.

Sex to guys is different from sex to ladies.

guys congratulate each other for hitting it oh oh were did u get that from pls lol bae sex is no big deal pls we had sex today those means I must marry u or u had a baby for me those means I must marry pls Nigeria girls get that to ur heard pls the guy don't own her anything because they both had d sex together nobody force them pls

pcguru1:


You are not interested, you are not interested, there is no good breakup. you want to tell if it were the reverse she won't just tell you, this is the best part of being adults. Having sex is a mutual act, both parties are benefiting, it's society that attaches losing of one's value but if you sleep around too much then you are a slut lol (both guys and girls ).

too much sense will not kee you my guy. you've said it all.

Antecedent kee you there

You still de learn o. That 1 no be issue nah

alhassanyusuf29:
im not surprised the op said "feminist should keep off", bcuz the more y'al talk, the more u expose ur mentality

you said "It is a two way thing...you are probably right", what do u mean by "probably", are you trying to contradict or belie the fact that females enjoy sex too?

"But the lady probably gives herself with a mind that it is a serious affair not knowing that the guy has other motives."

*first of all, you dont know the lady,so how can u speak on her behalf
*second of all, how do you know she's in the relationship with the mindse of having a serious affair, what if she is just having fun too just like the op, or at a certain stage she got tired and wants out but didnt bring it on social media
*you said "not all ladies just have sex around for having sex sake",really! ..so its only men that go into relationship for sex sake, i wonder who will marry the ladies then

I insist, he owns her no apology or explanation whatsoever, bcuz sex is a two-way thing..it could be vice-versa and she dumps him too, non of y'all will say she used him for sex, rather his money

So why did he open a thread to ask how he should dump her?

nick50:
wen he was sleeping with her was she moaning or crying?

I think you should ask her through the op. She is in the best position to answer you

bcuz its a natural instincts for him to feel bad in hurting a fellow human being,but he doesnt own her anything, abi is it by force he most marry her?

ImaIma1:


So why did he open a thread to ask how he should dump her?

So you don't like her and you dated her for 5months. Mr man you're not going anywhere, just carry your cross.

centboy123456:



guys congratulate each other for hitting it oh oh were did u get that from pls lol bae sex is no big deal pls we had sex today those means I must marry u or u had a baby for me those means I must marry pls Nigeria girls get that to ur heard pls the guy don't own her anything because they both had d sex together nobody force them pls

It is not about getting married. Why is he asking how to dump her? A guy knows that his intentions are not sure but still goes ahead to string a girl along and now look for a soft landing.

No one is saying you should marry her. But it is better to make intentions clear with the other party to avoid stories that touch like this one.

alhassanyusuf29:
bcuz its a natural instincts for him to feel bad in hurting a fellow human being,but he doesnt own her anything, abi is it by force he most marry her?

That is why it is better to let your intentions be clear from the beginning rather than trying to play a fast one.

He doesn't need advice. He should dump her the way guys dump ladies and move on.

Send her picture to jydoo@mail.com let me see if I can take her off your hand.

Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men.

Ah...... No be me send y mk u go open leg give Mr knack and run o, farabale!

Just threaten to still her pants

yah, you should, however by law you can change ur intention midway before the official contract, which is "marriage", thats why people say their vows on wedding day to signify the contract, not while dating..bcuz while dating u can break up if u feel like, while u cant when married bcuz of the contract he sign

ImaIma1:


dont be emotional, cuz ladies dump guys too and life goes on.. marriage is not a play, u just dont jump in if not ready, he who wears the shoes knows where it pinches

are you a muslim, cuz i im one?


That is why it is better to let your intentions be clear from the beginning rather than trying to play a fast one.

He doesn't need advice. He should dump her the way guys dump ladies and move on.

Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men.

Must all relationship lead to marriage?