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Breezy90:
I love this write up, men should shoulder the responsibility of being part of a child’s life too.my parents are together and I know what I enjoy which some kids didn’t.we know the right thing to do we just need to do them

thank you

Topsyvic:

Hi

funmisticqueen:
I never hated men. I just believe in tit for tat and making them responsible for their actions. Men and women need each other to survive. Women don't take red pills but pink pills.

the Patriarchy was the perfect tit for tat, but since feminists are tearing it down prepare to be used like you have never been used before.
Remember it was the patriarchy that ordered 1 man 1 woman and man being the caretaker of everyone. Plus it is the partriarchy that is called The Rule Of The Father. And the Patriarchy is the Blue Pill.the pill the world has rejected.

ubunja:
you have been fed a lie.80% of men wish to be present fathers. Only a tiny 20% are bad boys and players who impregnate and go. When you see a man walk out of his child's life it's almost always a decision he makes with a painful heart. Women change colours the moment they give you a baby. Then they become controlling freaks who want to use the baby to control or gold dig you while denying you the power over your baby.
Women want men to shoulder the RESPONSIBILITIES of fatherhood (money) meanwhile denying them the PREVILEGES of fatherhood (you can't name the child. You can't take the child to your relatives etc) fvck that shet.

A man's job is to protect, provide and profess for his family and a woman's job to nuture that family. Men still want to be treated like men and women still want to be treated like women. That is something MGTOW and the 3rd wave feminists won't understand. Women won't want to do all u have mentioned one u prove how masculine you are.

Besides a truly masculine man never asks for fifty fifty, or shirks his responsibility.

funmisticqueen:
which ones? Who gave her. What dose? I have a feeling she took only one drug and didn't administer it well. It is quite normal to bleed for up to six weeks following abortion.

I never asked. She didn't use a proper medication. But God knows better

ubunja:
the Patriarchy was the perfect tit for tat, but since feminists are tearing it down prepare to be used like you have never been used before.
Remember it was the patriarchy that ordered 1 man 1 woman and man being the caretaker of everyone. Plus it is the partriarchy that is called The Rule Of The Father. And the Patriarchy is the Blue Pill.the pill the world has rejected.

the patriarchy denied women freedom of choice. True feminists wanted the freedom to choose their life's course, not being tied down to a man.

funmisticqueen:
A man's job is to protect, provide and profess for his family and a woman's job to nuture that family. Men still want to be treated like men and women still want to be treated like women. That is something MGTOW and the 3rd wave feminists won't understand. Women won't want to do all u have mentioned one u prove how masculine you are.

Besides a truly masculine man never asks for fifty fifty, or shirks his responsibility.

MGTOW are men fed up with being used by society as disposable work horses. in a perfect world a man sacrifices for his family while his family respects and honours his sacrifice. But with the rise of feminism men are denied any respect or honour meanwhile being expected to sacrifice for the good of everyone. Men are demonized as abusers and their masculinity called Toxic all the while still being expected to man-up like their fathers of old. It won't happen. Hence men are walking away (mgtow).

All I can say after going through this thread is "Thank you mum for the suffering you went through over me. I know I can never pay it back but I hope in your quieter times you realised that I tried really hard and all you did wasn't in vain".

Let me just say that not every situation can be same not all men suddenly just jilt life happens family happens friends happens the sooner we understand that the those who truly want our happiness are the people that can’t live without

Anyone can be misguided even men to abstain from responsibility sometimes even your lack of a contribution can make you walk away from something good because you question whether you even deserve it. I have seen situations where it’s even the woman that doesn’t want to be a devoted mother I just think it’s wrong to assume that women just open legs and guys are the typical ones to deny responsibility

We weren’t there when the babies where conceived so we don’t know the circumstances we just know that those brave women have to adjust to an unplanned life and God truly is their strength because parenthood is a job for two.

I don’t believe in trapping men neither have I in my life but I do believe Children are a Gift from God

As per my guy and I .....I feel when it’s right it’s right and God decides I want you guys to be a team it’s we humans that spoil good things because of greed

funmisticqueen:
the patriarchy denied women freedom of choice. True feminists wanted the freedom to choose their life's course, not being tied down to a man.

now you have the freedom of choice are you happy?
You don't wanna be tied down to a man yet you want a man to be tied down to your baby?

The cry of a frustrated single lady. Na them they advise pass

aswani:
All I can say after going through this thread is "Thank you mum for the suffering you went through over me. I know I can never pay it back but I hope in your quieter times you realised that I tried really hard and all you did wasn't in vain".

if you ask your father why he left you might get a different side of the story.

kense88:
Don't mind that heartless fellow. She can even settle down with a dog, so long as the owner is rich.
And what if the man is a victim of misfortune ? Can't you leave your life without a man providing for you ?
My advice to ladies is to mingle with responsible men but always ensure you can handle whatever that comes out of engaging in premarital sex

This is the best advice so far. To all those feminists coming to support the OP, hope you will follow this.

ubunja:
MGTOW are men fed up with being used by society as disposable work horses. in a perfect world a man sacrifices for his family while his family respects and honours his sacrifice. But with the rise of feminism men are denied any respect or honour meanwhile being expected to sacrifice for the good of everyone. Men are demonized as abusers and their masculinity called Toxic all the while still being expected to man-up like their fathers of old. It won't happen. Hence men are walking away (mgtow).

look sat all the centuries of oppression by the men. Neither patriarchy nor feminism is perfect, but it is what it is. Our individual stories should be different. We know what both parties sacrifice to the table. Too many dysfunctional individuals from dysfunctional families running around. So let us see eye to eye. You with your miseducations and I with my pink pills.

ubunja:
now you have the freedom of choice are you happy?
You don't wanna be tied down to a man yet you want a man to be tied down to your baby?

it's hiis baby too. Most single mothers have a baby under the false promise of marriage. I also don't agree that pregnancy should be used to trap a man

funmisticqueen:
look sat all the centuries of oppression by the men. Neither patriarchy nor feminism is perfect, but it is what it is. Our individual stories should be different. We know what both parties sacrifice to the table. Too many dysfunctional individuals from dysfunctional families running around. So let us see eye to eye. You with your miseducations and I with my pink pills.

it's funny how you call the Patriarchy a time of female oppression when women have been happiest under it. The stats will show you that as female empowerment gains momentum your peace and happiness goes down because women are more complex than feminists knew. Women are independent but depressed and suicide rates are rising.
PATRIARCHY was the best thing for you. Thats why women still under patriarchal societies like in the Middle-East dont want to hear about your Feminist ideas. And feminist women themselves are pushing their society back to the Patriarchy un-awares. They are working day and night to oppose Trump's ban of men from the middle east who will bring the same old patriarchy they destroyed. Lol it's a comedy.

funmisticqueen:
it's hiis baby too. Most single mothers have a baby under the false promise of marriage. I also don't agree that pregnancy should be used to trap a man

it's his baby too? Loooooooooll. But when you wanna abort a baby it's always "ITS MY BODY, ITS MY CHOICE". You can't play this card on us.

ubunja:
it's his baby too? Loooooooooll. But when you wanna abort a baby it's always "ITS MY BODY, ITS MY CHOICE". You can't play this card on us.

if you want to carry a pregnancy, you are free to. Or she can give birth to it and give you. Compensate her for the trouble and let her go

ubunja:
it's funny how you call the Patriarchy a time of female oppression when women have been happiest under it. The stats will show you that as female empowerment gains momentum your peace and happiness goes down because women are more complex than feminists knew. Women are independent but depressed and suicide rates are rising.
PATRIARCHY was the best thing for you. Thats why women still under patriarchal societies like in the Middle-East dont want to hear about your Feminist ideas. And feminist women themselves are pushing their society back to the Patriarchy un-awares. They are working day and night to oppose Trump's ban of men from the middle east who will bring the same old patriarchy they destroyed. Lol it's a comedy.

Patriarchy was not the bst for us. The middle east is a case of brainwashing by Islam and blissful ignorance. Women aren't allowed to even drive a car in those parts

aswani:
All I can say after going through this thread is "Thank you mum for the suffering you went through over me. I know I can never pay it back but I hope in your quieter times you realised that I tried really hard and all you did wasn't in vain".

Do it in your aactionss and not words alone. What of your dad?

funmisticqueen:
Patriarchy was not the bst for us. The middle east is a case of brainwashing by Islam and blissful ignorance. Women aren't allowed to even drive a car in those parts

yet count the number of feminists and female celebrities converting to Islam. Didnt even Lindsay Lohan once convert,?
Edit: and see the way activists in the West are fighting tooth and nail to defend Islam against Trump? Still a comedy!!!

Soo on point

solasoulmusic:
Let me just say that not every situation can be same not all men suddenly just jilt life happens family happens friends happens the sooner we understand that the those who truly want our happiness are the people that can’t live without

Anyone can be misguided even men to abstain from responsibly sometimes even your lack of a contribution can make you walk away from something good because you question whether you even deserve it. I have seen situations where it’s even the woman that doesn’t want to be a devoted mother I just think it’s wrong to assume that women just open legs and guys are the typical ones to deny responsibility

We weren’t there when the babies where conceived so we don’t know the circumstances we just know that those brave women have to adjust to an unplanned life and God truly is their strength because parenthood is a job for two.

I don’t believe in trapping men neither have I in my life but I do believe Children are a Gift from God

As per my guy and I .....I feel when it’s right it’s right and God decides I want you guys to be a team it’s we humans that spoil good things because of greed

ubunja:
yet count the number of feminists and female celebrities converting to Islam. Didnt even Lindsay Lohan once convert,?

they are still aaa minority.

ubunja:
yet count the number of feminists and female celebrities converting to Islam. Didnt even Lindsay Lohan once convert,?
Edit: and see the way activists in the West are fighting tooth and nail to defend Islam against Trump? Still a comedy!!!

No wonder you are a paedophile, you are walking in the footsteps of that epileptic prophet.

funmisticqueen:
if you want to carry a pregnancy, you are free to. Or she can give birth to it and give you. Compensate her for the trouble and let her go

in other words a man has no say whatever on whether his baby gets born or gets aborted?
Thats why we are saying FVCK THAT SHET.

funmisticqueen:
No wonder you are a paedophile, you are walking in the footsteps of that epileptic prophet.

but we we're having a logical discussion. Why do you suddenly feel the need to resort to insults? Dont get emotional na.

ubunja:
in other words a man has no say whatever on whether his baby gets born or gets aborted?
Thats why we are saying FVCK THAT SHET.

is he ready to give her what she wants parenthood is about sacrifice.

ubunja:
but we we're having a logical discussion. Why do you suddenly feel the need to resort to insults? Dont get emotional na.

forget I said that, I just hate the religion.

funmisticqueen:
they are still aaa minority.

lool feminists themselves are a minority. Far less than 50% of women identify as feminist. Its just that that movement is sponsored by big business and promoted by big media that's why its making so much noise.
Most women will take the Patriarchy any time of day.

funmisticqueen:
forget I said that, I just hate the religion.

apologize properly. Say you're sorry.

funmisticqueen:
is he ready to give her what she wants parenthood is about sacrifice.

what sacrifice when a man has zero reproductive rights?

ubunja:
lool feminists themselves are a minority. Far less than 50% of women identify as feminist. Its just that that movement is sponsored by big business and promoted by big media that's why its making so much noise.
Most women will take the Patriarchy any time of day.

if men had treated women with respect like a fellow human being, maybe there would be no feminists.