ubunja:
what sacrifice when a man has zero reproductive rights?

his reproductive rright is to sire a progeny by ejaculation. That is why they have to prove themselves worthy to the woman so she wont think twice about having a child with you.

A woman's thinks of abortion even with the father in the picture when he has not proven himself worthy and responsible. E.g He cheated or he cant take care of it. Never heard anyone aborting dangootee's child. But if you are a broke person living in a face me I slap you or with your parents then no way will she bring that child into the world to suffer

ubunja:
apologize properly. Say you're sorry.

for what exactly? What did I do wroong?

Eberechi24:
If you are not ready for motherhood, lock up... The truth is that the onus of premarital sex lies more on Women, women choose your demons/dream wisely.

If you can't take of a child, use your brains. Getting pregnant at first place is odd...

Nothing but the truth.

funmisticqueen:
Soo on point

thank you

Eberechi24:


I support women empowerment. It's nice development. But campaigning this way will cause more harm than good.
What if they die of complications from flushing?
What if they render their womb useless?
What If they have no money for Professional service?
What if, so many.

There are so many teenagers on this forum esp girls, going by your solution, they will harm themselves.
Let's empower them to have self control.
Let's empower to have self respect.
Let's empower to be contented with the little they have.
They should not make themselves available to deposit and go men
If they must get pregnant, should face the music.

Whenever I remember the responsibility that comes with children, I lock up.
Getting pregnant with aim to abort or flush won't take them nowhere.

This babe just dey make sense, back to back.

kunleweb:


This is what the oP implies,when you can't take.care of a child.independently(assuming the guy can leave at anytime), don't get preggy, and.seriously,if ladies are.more.conscious of the.consequences of.sex just as the oP is trying to let them know,there qould be fewer babymamas. Even as a man,i made it clear to myself since 21,no 7 digits,no babies and i held on to it,its abput having sound principles and sticking to it ma,not have an unplanned baby andjping in and out of crisis to take care of the child

ur punctuations tho

Kidaholic:
New Nairaland crush: Funmisticqueen Eberechi24


Note to ladies: Beware of the naked man that offers you clothes!!

Walahi, the babe dey make sense. BTW, where is missraine69.I like hearing her views on issues like this.

thebosstrevor:


i disagree that the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology.

the cause of the baby mum and baby mama syndrome is because of the emancipation of women (feminism) and also the welfare society of the western world and the African women is trying to be like them when they dont understand that how the western society works.

Nowadays, women can work and make money while need a man if i get pregnant and can take care of the child with support from the govt, in Nigeria, it is different,

many Nigerian women are addicted to western reality shows, they feel they are independent but forget thet Nigeria does not have a welfare system, once you get pregnant as a single system, your family might disown you, so it is better to think before, you allow that sperm inside you

And those men that dont take responsibility na wa for una-sperm donator, these are the bad guys the women fell for then after they have destroy them emotional, the same single mothers want to get a nice guy.

contraceptives is available, please use one. if you dont want to the pain and the stress of a single mother.

At least you made sense here unlike that your thread in the travel.......

funmisticqueen:
for what exactly? What did I do wroong?

forget it. I expected too much from you.

funmisticqueen:
his reproductive rright is to sire a progeny by ejaculation. That is why they have to prove themselves worthy to the woman so she wont think twice about having a child with you.

A woman's thinks of abortion even with the father in the picture when he has not proven himself worthy and responsible. E.g He cheated or he cant take care of it. Never heard anyone aborting dangootee's child. But if you are a broke person living in a face me I slap you or with your parents then no way will she bring that child into the world to suffer

do yo u even know what Reproductive Rights are? They are a voice.a man must be able to demand an arbotion as much as he can refuse his child to be aborted. Thats fairness.

ubunja:
forget it. I expected too much from you.

how do you xpect someone to apologise when you haven't told them the wrong they commited

ubunja:
do yo u even know what Reproductive Rights are? They are a voice.a man must be able to demand an arbotion as much as he can refuse his child to be aborted. Thats fairness.

is that what the dictionary said. He can abort a pregnancy or keep it as long as he carries it or try and reason with the woman to give him the child and go her way.

ubunja:
do yo u even know what Reproductive Rights are? They are a voice.a man must be able to demand an arbotion as much as he can refuse his child to be aborted. Thats fairness.

but the world isn't fair, and as long as fingers aren't equal and men cant carry babies or women deposit sperm, then equality can never be achievable

funmisticqueen:
let the father take care of the child.cos single motherhood is worse

let the child be with the mother..if the father doesn't want to take responsibility,go to court.dont start what u can finish...

funmisticqueen:
if men had treated women with respect like a fellow human being, maybe there would be no feminists.

is it not under the Patriarchy that men died for women,.called women "Ladies" and openned the doors for you also fighting for your honour?
What respect will you get then walking naked on Slut Walks and dressing like prostitutes?

Raalsalghul:
At least you made sense here unlike that your thread in the travel.......

you are one of those that wanna travel out i guess

Raalsalghul:
Walahi, the babe dey make sense. BTW, where is missraine69.I like hearing her views on issues like this.

Yea' until she refused blatantly to open shop I think I'd stick with my Funmisticqueen, at least after everything she'll just package a baby in a gift basket to my doorstep

funmisticqueen:
but the world isn't fair, and as long as fingers aren't equal and men cant carry babies or women deposit sperm, then equality can never be achievable

which brings us back where we started: PATRIARCHY. It's not perfect but after 6000 years it has proved itself able.

ubunja:
is it not under the Patriarchy that men died for women,.called women "Ladies" and openned the doors for you also fighting for your honour?
What respect will you get then walking naked on Slut Walks and dressing like prostitutes?

And also treated women like property and breeding mares. Have you ever fought for a woman's honour in your life?. You should be revamping the patriarchy not encouraging dusty niggas. Slut walks abound because of the simple principle of demand and supply.

ubunja:
which brings us back where we started: PATRIARCHY. It's not perfect but after 6000 years it has proved itself able.

not to the downtrodden. But yes patriarchy is not that bad. It just needs a lot of upgrading

Kidaholic:


Yea' until she refused blatantly to open shop I think I'd stick with my Funmisticqueen, at least after everything she'll just package a baby in a gift basket to my doorstep

Lol, do you want the package for Christmas or your birthday?service fees apply.

Abortions:
ur punctuations tho

Your.moniker

funmisticqueen:
if men had treated women with respect like a fellow human being, maybe there would be no feminists.

women kill respect and chivalry not men. women have made a real mess of things. we treat women as fellow human being but then women started feeling like for them to have something they must be given because they are women and not because of merit.

men have always treated women with respect but the women started their feminist movement where they tell us men that Women can open their own doors, pull out their own chairs and take care of themselves and do as they like. Men changed because women did, men naturally are born to please women. Modern woman don’t know this, the feminist movement have conditioned women to think of men as oppressors.


in between do you know how many women have passby many good guys and go for the guy that will damage them then after the guy use and dump them they start wondering why there are no good guys around.

funmisticqueen:
not to the downtrodden. But yes patriarchy is not that bad. It just needs a lot of upgrading

who are the downtrodden of the patriarchy?

funmisticqueen:
And also treated women like property and breeding mares. Have you ever fought for a woman's honour in your life?. You should be revamping the patriarchy not encouraging dusty niggas. Slut walks abound because of the simple principle of demand and supply.

and you got the freedom to breed when you want how you want. But what has been the result? UNDER POPULATION. in the west almost every country is not having enough new babies born to replace the retiring and the dying. All because women gained the right to say No to babymaking. Now to correct the population issue the west is promoting Immigration.... from nations still under patriarchy: Africa and the Middle-East.

You have no business sleeping with a man you aren't married to in the first place.

funmisticqueen:
is that what the dictionary said. He can abort a pregnancy or keep it as long as he carries it or try and reason with the woman to give him the child and go her way.

so bottom-line it's up to the woman?
Again: TO HELL WITH THAT

SECRET

DO NOT PROMISE AND FAIL TO FULFILL;
MEN, NEVER TELL A WOMAN "I WILL MARRY YOU" WHEN YOU ARE NOT READY TO DO SO.
WHEN YOU PROMISE TO MARRY A WOMAN BECAUSE OF HER BEAUTY OR BECAUSE YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER, AND AT LAST YOU DUMP HER FOR ANOTHER WOMAN, THE TRUTH IS "YOU ARE IN FOR TROUBLE".
WOMEN VALUE MARRIAGE MORE THAN ANYTHING IN LIFE.
YOU CAN PLAY WITH A WOMAN'S FEELINGS BUT NOT WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE.
WHEN A MAN DUMPS A WOMAN HE PROMISED TO MARRY, AND GOES ON TO MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN, IF THE WOMAN OPENS HER MOUTH AND CURSE HIM, IT COMES TO PASS, IT TAKES ONLY THE GRACE OF GOD FOR THE CURSE TO BE REVERSED.
MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE.

funmisticqueen:
how do you xpect someone to apologise when you haven't told them the wrong they commited

like I said. FORGET IT.

FOR LADIES;

LADIES, NEVER ALLOW A MAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU WHEN HE IS NOT READY TO MARRY YOU, SO THAT YOU WILL AVOID GIVING BIRTH TO A BASTARD.
MAKE SURE YOU GET MARRIED FIRST, THEN GIVE BIRTH TO CHILD, BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS ORDAINED BY GOD "THE CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH."
WHEN YOU GIVE BIRTH TO CHILD OUTSIDE MARRIAGE, IT MEANS YOU'RE A WAYWARD LADY, A PROSTITUTE, OR/AND A STREET HAWKER, AND WHEN THE CHILD GROWS UP, HE OR SHE WILL BECOME AN OBJECT OF RIDICULE AMONG HIS OR HER FRIENDS.
MANY LADIES TODAY BOAST OF HAVING A CHILD WHO HAS NO FATHER, WHICH IS REFERED TO "FATHERLESS CHILD OR FATHERLESS CHILDREN; SUCH LADIES SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES.
GET MARRIED SO THAT YOU WOULD BE A PROUD WOMAN IN YOUR GENERATION.
I'M ALWAYS HAPPY FOR MARRIED COUPLES.!!!

I like this...

if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. ....

PrimadonnaO:
I like that...if he gets you pregnant and won't take full responsibility, wrap up the sweet little baby and drop in his house.

Then let the script play out.

You can only say this because you're not a mother , by the time the baby drops, the love and attachment you will have with th child won't allow you give her up for any reason.