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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by okenwa216(m): 3:52pm On Jan 13, 2019
A lot has to be considered before taking ur decision babe. None of these is a lifetime opportunity. First if ur hubby is wealthy and he can send you to America if he wants, no need to consider d scholarship. Or if he has even spent so much money on d marriage. But he just ordinary Nigeria man. My dear, run for ur life. This Buhari regime�

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by alexola20(m): 3:55pm On Jan 13, 2019

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 13, 2019
the husband should allow her go to America why he goes to poland. is easy for them to visiit each other until she can bring him to the U S. poland as a nation pays lower wages and fewer jobs. bc of them being in the free movement. All across western europe they work from unskilled to skilled labours. most people once they get their european passport move to uk, canada, america (no language barrier and a lot of opportunities).

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by islandmoon: 3:57pm On Jan 13, 2019
lol , she wanted to go to Poland before , now she's ready to dump Mr Poland and move to US, lol.
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by lincs25(m): 3:58pm On Jan 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man. cool
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated. cool
Funny girl, not all men leave women the way you are looking at it. A friend of mine got same travel to Scotland make a way come back home and take his girl friend with him after paying all the payable to the girl family. #stop negative thinking#
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by GIFTD: 3:59pm On Jan 13, 2019
Rubbish op and post. All these greedy materialistic feminist wet full nairaland una no go leave us alone.. Na only to scatter una sabi..rubbish
UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man. cool
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated. cool All these greedy materialistic feminist idiot wet full nairaland una no go leave us alone....
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by teeshawt(m): 4:00pm On Jan 13, 2019
ilofy:
the husband should allow her go to America why he goes to poland. is easy for them to visiit each other until she can bring him to the U S. poland as a nation pays lower wages and fewer jobs. bc of them being in the free movement. All across western europe they work from unskilled to skilled labours. most people once they get their european passport move to uk, canada, america (no language barrier and a lot of opportunities).

You've summarized it jor.... Wife should go to US while hubby should go TO poland.... Then they will work things out from there..... If the hubby is wealthy and capable of sponsoring the wife to any length, let her reject the offer, if otherwise she should not think twice on this matter.....US straight......

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by malel1: 4:03pm On Jan 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man. cool
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated. cool

I have never seen the kind of idiots in this generation before

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by sharpwriter(m): 4:04pm On Jan 13, 2019
MissJoy29:


Worthy of note though: I hope the ex is not in the US where the scholarship was processed!

Where else would the ex be? grin grin wink

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by imitateMe(m): 4:05pm On Jan 13, 2019
Liliyann:
I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!
You are stingy.
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by JADEK01(m): 4:07pm On Jan 13, 2019
MariaLavina:
Lemme break this table!


Tell her to do whatever she can live with. grin One is a life time opportunity, the other is everyday opportunity. If you know you know. grin
thank you!those girls are dating us because we r their highest offer @ moment once giant offer show off,they got confused......father! father! father, where is the love?

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Viking007(m): 4:08pm On Jan 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man. cool
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated. cool
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by kriss27(m): 4:09pm On Jan 13, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Take whatever I say with a pinch of salt. Besides, I'm well entitled to my opinion. cool
Lol, how is your normal like self
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by doggedfighter(f): 4:09pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.
Say what? Who made this rule that men must be the one to move and not women?

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by ogongogames(m): 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2019
MissJoy29:

What if the guy didn't know she was communicating with the ex? Remember it was the ex that helped secure the scholarship.

That is indeed possible, I guess she could have just "tried her luck" with the entire scholarship and thought there was little need to tell her partner due to there being a low chance of getting it. Still seems very careless on her part not to have thought about this possibility though on her part, you would have thought she could tell her partner about the scholarship application without needing to mention her ex.

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Torontoparrot(m): 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2019
if only you know that being married itself is a sacrifice
Liliyann:
I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2019
MissJoy29:
This is a very serious dilemma. I will be very honest, I will be confused. But a lot will depend on the attitude of my ex to it. If he has been warning me in the past perhaps about communication with my ex even though he(my ex) was only trying to help, I don't think I will have the mouth to even inform him let alone cajole him to allow me go as we are now married. It will cause a lot of problems & unnecessary drama. Because it will mean I was still communicating with the said ex as he will need some info from me before filling out the scholarship form & processing it. But if I have carried him along all the while, then he should allow me go since we are already married. We just need to hurry up with the white & court wedding and off I go. Who knows, it's even possible for him to come with me(reason we need to do court wedding) and still be processing the Poland thing. He might even change his mind and settle in the US. A huge sacrifice I know!

And it makes it tricky as he said he's processing Poland. Has he started the processing thing before the scholarship gelled or he just wants to start? How long will it take? And if I forfeit the scholarship & we get there(Poland), can he help sponsor me to further my education?

Worthy of note though: I hope the ex is not in the US where the scholarship was processed!
... Thank you. Funny how most people shouting she should forget about her marriage never thought of this@ I HOPE THE EX IS NOT RESIDENT IN US.
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by malel1: 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2019
doshe39:
Please your career first,men are not reliable

What are people typing here, babe Na the husband we dey talk of ooo
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2019
What I want to ask is....what kinda scholarship is for five years........

Masters is 1year or 2 at most in many European countries....
PhD is 3.5years.... extendable to 4years...if u can't research and graduate within 4years...u get evaluated and probably issued a master of philosophy instead...

Wateva the case is shaaa..they are married what is stopping them from going togeda....a supposed 5year scholarship usually accommodates family ....
Embassy of countries even allows spouse for one year master's seff.

The story be like cooked up paroles jare....

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by donprinyo(m): 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2019
It's ur life darling, make ur choice. As for me, I think u stick with ur man other opportunities will come later.
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Liliyann(f): 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

Trying so hard to sound wise and be noticed.....May you not be a slave in your marriage, Marriage makes the couple equal, if the husband can move why not the woman? Does it mean women don't have equal say in their marriage?

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2019
fake story.so an ex who was dumped will take the stress to scout for a foreign school online for a girl that dumped him and married another man.not only that ooo..the ex also went through the stress to also secure scholaship for the same girl who dumped him.so d ex no get a younger sister or sibling wey he go do such favour for abi.all these ppl forming all these fake fake stories will not make heaven

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by kriss27(m): 4:12pm On Jan 13, 2019
Liliyann:
I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!
what of the money he has spent on you, the traditional marrige, the bride price and everything. Hope you will pay him back when dumping his sorry ass?
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Liliyann(f): 4:14pm On Jan 13, 2019
kriss27:
what of the money he has spent on you, the traditional marrige, the bride price and everything. Hope you will pay him back when dumping his sorry ass?

Is that what has been keeping your marriage?
Money?? undecided
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by optimistic1234: 4:15pm On Jan 13, 2019
Liliyann:
I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by obaseno(m): 4:16pm On Jan 13, 2019
Valerie47:
So she should leave her husband cause of the scholarship given to her by a supposedly jealous ex that wants her marriage to end, why didn't he give her the scholarship when she was single, marriage is not something you walk it and walk out when its convenient for you.
in the little story she told, I did not see jealousy anywhere...how did you know her ex is jealous? besides the ex is not even gonna go to the US with her
read to understand and not to criticize

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Raalsalghul: 4:18pm On Jan 13, 2019
Viking007:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jan 13, 2019
DEHVEHLOP:
Yoruba Ladies and virtues are inseparable...



Beauty and Brain...



They are awesome and make Nigeria proud home and abroad.


Unlike our sisters from the yeast!


A fully matured girl in igbo land is in primary School..

And even those of them with opportunity to have normal education the Yoruba way, they are usually with tiny small boobs. But their legs are as thick as Abuja yams!


The image below was captured at aroshuku abia state yesterday

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Torontoparrot(m): 4:20pm On Jan 13, 2019
two bottles of your favorite drink for you on my account ��
MissJoy29:
This is a very serious dilemma. I will be very honest, I will be confused. But a lot will depend on the attitude of my ex to it. If he has been warning me in the past perhaps about communication with my ex even though he(my ex) was only trying to help, I don't think I will have the mouth to even inform him let alone cajole him to allow me go as we are now married. It will cause a lot of problems & unnecessary drama. Because it will mean I was still communicating with the said ex as he will need some info from me before filling out the scholarship form & processing it. But if I have carried him along all the while, then he should allow me go since we are already married. We just need to hurry up with the white & court wedding and off I go. Who knows, it's even possible for him to come with me(reason we need to do court wedding) and still be processing the Poland thing. He might even change his mind and settle in the US. A huge sacrifice I know!

And it makes it tricky as he said he's processing Poland. Has he started the processing thing before the scholarship gelled or he just wants to start? How long will it take? And if I forfeit the scholarship & we get there(Poland), can he help sponsor me to further my education?

Worthy of note though: I hope the ex is not in the US where the scholarship was processed!
Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by marvin906(m): 4:20pm On Jan 13, 2019
so because she has a scholarship automatically means she has a visa many of una nor get sense at all..or are you peeps forgetting that the US embassy are stingy with visa now Even if you like get 20 scholarship e nor concern them...

buh why do I have a feeling her ex is in the US

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jan 13, 2019
Pack your bags and move with the speed of light!!!!

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Re: "She Did Traditional Marriage Last Week, Got Scholarship To US This Week" by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 13, 2019
but this na fake news ... attention seekers

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