I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

baba go and marry....if u no fit toast womam go village yr mama go epp u find wife

Bro use ashawo joor.
Look dont let anyone lie to you. Everybody self-services. Even girls. I wan. Yes bro I have a girl. And so many offers from other girls but I still self-service from time to time. Its healthy. Just not so often. Like everything in life. Do in moderation.

Bro everyone goes through this stage. Most will lie but go back and do them shit. Just take care cause its better to be a wakner than for someone to lie rape on your head.

Bros, that something do happens to many. I pray God should intervain

Really touchy.

It all starts from your mind. Learn to distract urself from sex from ur mind.

Secondly, find something else and channel ur energy to it.

Godspeed

This ajebutter man self, Girl don Dey sweet you for body! If girl do you strong thing u go come Dey lament for Nairaland

If you know what is good for you stick to your Vaseline girl wey like you go still come


So stop disturbing yourself
Whack only once at night
Excessive whacking causes low sperm count and tiredness

Lighten your worries and stop being dramatic.

Your life isn't ruined!

Dude masturbation is healthy. Don't believe otherwise.

You are just a big sack of hòrny hormones —
So go on then just do it but in moderation.

Av u checked ursef? Y do u think u cud b aving much rejection from girls?

He! who has not done this before should cast the first stone. Guy! relax oo. I masturbated till early 30. So I can relate with what you are going through. First of all, quit the porn watching things. It will go a long way to help you keep your mind in one piece. You can pull through this mess.

The best way to stop it is to agree the fact that it is unstoppable.

Stop feeling guilty, that's the only problem chronic masturbators are facing. The inner guilt that follows is the major problem here. Most people masturbate, most are addicts. It's not gender specific. It's normal.

You should be more bothered and concerned about two things right now.

>How to deal with your low productivity at work.
>How to stop getting sexually aroused at the sight of kids.

First; By all means, stop masturbating at night. Re-schedule it. You just have to, you need to, you can't stop it entirely, but you should at some point, know how to control yourself. If you have being able to go a week without masturbating, then you can stop masturbating at night if you want, because if you keep masturbating at night, you'll one day get sacked.

Secondly; Get a good and close friend, a lady preferably. She can help you savage this situation psychologically. What you lack is interaction and friendly mutual feelings from the opposite sex. That's all. I can confidently tell that you don't have close female friends, hence the reason you aren't used to interacting with ladies without getting hard boner.

Please Bruv. It is very important to deal with the issue of getting aroused unnecessarily so that you don't end up raping or abusing someone.

If worse is the case. Start patronizing brothels. It's even safer, albeit addictive too.

Goodluck!

You need Jesus

You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

WTF commit suicide over woman, you smoking crack what's wrong with you, calm down, there's no guy here in this thread that hasn't been rejected so why do you want to kill yourself as for the masturbation maybe you should limit it how much you masturbate because trust me alot of people here in this thread masturbate both men and women we just don't say it out, but yours if I were to guess I think you want to have sex so bad and you can't seem to approach women properly which causes your rejection and this fear of rejection makes you retreat to a safe zone which is masturbation. Have you had sex before? I am not trying to ridicule you.

How old are you sef

sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

Go and work in porn industry it will stop

Hmm.
The wall of text tire me.
I read a few lines then konked out.
OP, you need help.
Masturbation made my life better.
Quitting porn erased all thoughts of masturbation till anytime needed.

pcguru1:


WTF commit suicide over woman, you smoking crack what's wrong with you, calm down, there's no guy here in this thread that hasn't been rejected so why do you want to kill yourself as for the masturbation maybe you should limit it how much you masturbate because trust me alot of people here in this thread masturbate both men and women we just don't say it out, but yours if I were to guess I think you want to have sex so bad and you can't seem to approach women properly which causes your rejection and this fear of rejection makes you retreat to a safe zone which is masturbation. Have you had sex before? I am not trying to ridicule you.

haha bro I didn't mean to commit suicide oo I was just playing with words. but i really need d sex oo i just need something physical like romance kissing and some good Bleep some wonderful sex styles. not visual or visiting d brrothel. I just need some one. to ur question yes I have had sex before with a prostitute and a girl now my ex girlfriend.

this is the only help i can render

Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa

buhariski:
haha bro I didn't mean to commit suicide oo I was just playing with words. but i really need d sex oo i just need something physical like romance kissing and some good Bleep some wonderful sex styles. not visual or visiting d brrothel. I just need some one. to ur question yes I have had sex before with a prostitute and a girl now my ex girlfriend.

Well that one no be problem, sincerely there are lot of women that will do that, but it depends on how you talk and approach, there are alot more women walking around than you think that sometimes too want romance and sex just that they would prefer it in a relationship, it's just your manner of approach and how you talk. Where do you stay?

sherylbakky:
Av u checked ursef?
Y do u think u cud b aving much rejection from girls?

bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some question like why am I getting rejections and what is it I,'m nt doing right. though I have some flaws I can lie u. I no b ugly guy oo even when I was still in my state then I've had many advances from d girls. some girls confessed they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester exam a girl once kissed and romance me in the presence of over 400 students and a lecturer. she did it on the platform when all eyes was on us dat day I was not conversant with the girl. I only knew her to be a course mate. A friend to my guy girlfriend kiss and romance me in presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look .I had to make her apologize to my girlfriend dat day. today is not another story . na me come d hussle for woman I don't know if was because I change environment could it tribal differences, language barrier and some other factor I can't understand.

Not too much masturbation but alot of porn scene registered on your mind that you don't need to think...
To help you download an app to monitor your lapses
Be positive minded
Sieze your phone from adult content
I

pcguru1:



Well that one no be problem, sincerely there are lot of women that will do that, but it depends on how you talk and approach, there are alot more women walking around than you think that sometimes too want romance and sex just that they would prefer it in a relationship, it's just your manner of approach and how you talk. Where do you stay?

currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.

buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.

Ibadan has babes nau. You can't tell me you one meet one lady and make something happen, there are students I mean.

Trust me, the advent of smart phones caused a lot of damages. It took away the innocence of many of us. Now we are hooked and can't just let go.

Nudity is promoted and advertised. Sex and Sexcapades are narrated in very graphic language, images and videos, physical beauty is measured by butt and boob sizes and flaunted for fame and attention, inflaming people's passions and desires.

This is the era of big boobs, massive butts, twerking, Sexcapades, nudity. All at the tip of your fingers, your smartphone. People now take pride in exposing their naked bodies and after-sex pics and videos online like some kind of fashion statement. Nothing is left to the imagination, not even to kids.

Passions and desires are inflamed. Now demand is high for intimacy gadgets, boob's and butt enhancement creams are hot cakes. Joysticks enlargement creams and solutions are being searched for and marketed everywhere to meet the growing demand of a passion aroused and sex crazed world.

People are desperatly looking for outlets for the sexual frenzy: frequenting brothels, boyfriend/girlfriend sex partner, rapes, cheating/adulteries, masturbation etc in a quest to cool off the heat.

Bro, there's is no cure to your problem. It's an epidemic that is sweeping across the world.

But an extreme measure if you can, throw away your smartphone and avoid the internet, relocate to a very remote area away from the big cities. It will not kill your attractiion and desire, but it will curb it to a level you can control.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

My brother u are not a lonely , i think the problem is very common to guys with poor social skills couple with high speed data , i dont even know the advice to give u but i can assure u dat u are not alone for u to even come out here and say this ....... well GOD we see every one suffering from such through, feel free to call me if u ever want to talk about 090

ike24:


My brother u are not a lonely , i think the problem is very common to guys with poor social skills couple with high speed data , i dont even know the advice to give u but i can assure u dat u are not alone for u to even come out here and say this ....... well GOD we see every one suffering from such through, feel free to call me if u ever want to talk about 09050264513

thank u bro I appreciate your kind gesture.

buhariski:
bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some I,'m nt doing right.advances from d girls.they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester kissed and lecturer. she did it on conversant with the girl.mate.presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look

If dats d case, u ar sure of ur look n u knw u can take care of a woman.

Y not use dis logic? Post on NL hookup, u can also check religious dating sites. Make it clear d kinda lady u want n include ur very location. I'm sure u ar gonna get msgs or calls, do dat wit another moniker, u can post more dan once.

You dont just need a girlfrnd, u need to marry, if u ar up to d task.

Dont date outside ur location, distance relationship is not for u.

Stop watching porn, it does more harm dan good. If
it means giving som1 ur devices for som time, do dat n get a smal phone for cal.

Stay cool.

sherylbakky:
If dats d case, u ar sure of ur look n u knw u can take care of a woman.

Y not use dis logic? Post on NL hookup, u can also check religious dating sites. Make it clear d kinda lady u want n include ur very location. I'm sure u ar gonna get msgs or calls, do dat wit another moniker, u can post more dan once.

You dont just need a girlfrnd, u need to marry, if u ar up to d task.

Dont date outside ur location, distance relationship is not for u.

Stop watching porn, it does more harm dan good. If
it means giving som1 ur devices for som time, do dat n get a smal phone for cal.

Stay cool.

Thanks bro. but for d issue of using small phone I've sold many smart phone just because I wanted to stop masturbation yet it seems i'm just wasting my money on phones. The porn movies has really gotten into my brain sometimes I don't really need phone to play it. all I need do is to visualize it in my mind that's all. so using small phone can't really change anything.