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dollyjoy:
Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa

I seems not to get this useless shame and guilt u myopic people talk about some time lol. You kill somebody? Abi u stole from someone? Perhaps the person was caught In the Act? Something that makes u feel more relaxed and sleep off after a very stressful day at Work. You are here talking nonsense lol. It's absolutely safe If u can control yourself and It prevents someone from contacting all the miserable and incurable disease wey full outside now, Most especially on females genital. Na una be the Super Carrier of all most of these deadly diseases. Anytime I come across these your mumu words, I'll just burst Into laugh lol.

Bros, you have done well by confessing your problems publicly. The first step to your freedom is understanding that you have a problem. Unfortunately, I am not currently residing in Nigeria so I cannot directly help you through counseling and prayers; however, I would recommend that you get a copy of this book (the second part of the book discussed Masturbation and how to liberate yourself from that bondage):

https://www.amazon.com/Homosexuality-Explaining-Zeitgeist-Emmanuel-Ekwo/dp/1452047618/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?keywords=homosexuality%3A+understanding+the+zeitgeist&qid=1553811610&s=gateway&sr=8-1-fkmr0

Get yourself a copy of the book and you'll thank me later. Meanwhile, I will keep you in my prayers. Jesus can set you free if you really want to be free from that bondage.


O pari

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

daneni1:
I self services once or twicecin a week......tho I really don't enjoy it again haven been doing so since 2007, but one thing i have done to avoid watching porn which is what triggers the desire to self-service has been loads of movies in my phone. Once d tot(masturbation) comes up, I just watch one of d movie in my phone, this takes my mind off masturbation and by the time I am done watching, d desire to masturbate would have wiped out.

I hope this help you tho.

OP, THIS IS THE ONE OF THE BEST ADVICE SO FAR

Makaveli217:
Nigga lacks the affection of a woman, same thing happened to me. Never let the mind of your dick control you, than for you to watch porn and want to self service, try this, when ever you feel like watching porn or jacking off, try and postpone it to another day, then get yourself engaged in stuffs.

Experienced advice ��

Please, keep masturbating if you no get money or Lamba for woman so you don't turn rapist.

Get married, a girlfriend (if you are ok with premarital sex) or try r/nofap

dollyjoy:
Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa

Long time madam

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

1, Work on ur self esteem abit it’s not terrible Bt it’s bad.

2. Learn the Art of control

3. Make it a habit to be addicted to nothing and no one.(this is hard and takes sm training as depends on ur personality) it quite painful emotionally and physically bt once u get over the initial trauma spells Ure fine and fresh.

4. Change ur mentality, like refocus it. How long have u been watching porn now? Probably years. Don’t u get tired of watching same ol thing? If not, force urself to get sick and tired of it.

5. Porn and masturbation is just a habit like any other eg smoking, drinking etc. U can stop any habit or reduce it drastically by either spiritual or both physical and mental training and discipline. Its very simple once u apply it to ur urself.

6 stop it for a week, then another week then try another. U may hv a relapse bt the important thing is to keep at this. The trick here is to break the habit cycle till u have a stronger mindset.

7. Practice makes perfect. Thesame way u learned a bad habit by practicing it, same way u unlearn it by practicing the reversal steps/actions.

sherylbakky:
If dats d case, u ar sure of ur look n u knw u can take care of a woman.

Y not use dis logic? Post on NL hookup, u can also check religious dating sites. Make it clear d kinda lady u want n include ur very location. I'm sure u ar gonna get msgs or calls, do dat wit another moniker, u can post more dan once.

You dont just need a girlfrnd, u need to marry, if u ar up to d task.

Dont date outside ur location, distance relationship is not for u.

Stop watching porn, it does more harm dan good. If
it means giving som1 ur devices for som time, do dat n get a smal phone for cal.

Stay cool.

Religious dating site? Are you for real?

I have never masturbated in my life, guys is that normal?

lol all these ones advising upadan

my friend get a good job and see it fly away

annford:
You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.

So full of Garbage.

What do u expect when u name bears Buhariski.... Oyo is ur middle name

You need a distraction - a book, video game, TV series, or a friend that likes to talk. You need to overwrite those sex images in your mind with something else. That's a good place to start.

Then, try to get in bed and think about how tired you are, work stress, and productivity. You might just fall asleep while on the thoughts.

Chat me up on WhatsApp,let me talk to you and mentor you,then you will stop it 07039476669

shogsman:
I have never masturbated in my life, guys is that normal?

I suspect you are a chronic masturbater

Wao this is something else, contact me and I'll get you any type of lady you want, I never knew getting a lady is that hard for some guys though, Trust me I'll do it for you

judajix:
Quit porn and watch yourself become better

True talk.

Obainoneandonly:
different strokes for different folks they say...as its ruining your life it has made my sex life great.....I used to b a one minute guy,but because of masturbation have been able to last longer in bed which I can control myself......you just have to take charge of it and avoid the temptation of doing it excessively......mine is thrice a week,four is my limit and I don't go beyond dat no matter what....
it's a good tool in sexual enhancement if used properly,and me my friend have mastered the art of it

Gbam....You couldn't have said It any better!!!

Beautiful smally everywhere I feel ur pain bro...just learn how to control it..

[quote author=OgogoroFreak post=77077222]I suspect you are a chronic masturbater

Actually I'm not,didnt know people could get addicted to things like that, definitely gonna try it soon.

Shakushaku1:
Who's ya favorite pornsttar? Mine is nyomi banxx and channel heart, u fit check dem out, badas babes

ana foxx comes through for " coffee in the morning" for me.

Please contact me on prudentpentium@yahoo.com for solution

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Please, just move close to God.... Stop watching porn, instead turn that time to praying and studying your bible. You will be surprised you got strength to stop masturbation!

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Op so sorry for what you are passing through. Where are you located? Please send me a DM. If indeed you are tired of your present situation, I can be of help if you don't mind...

U no get work that is why if you are really busy with work you not remember when last you had erection but to solve your solution get a Calabar girl as sex mate. You can holla at me if you want

I recommend you submit yourself to God and power if the Holyspirit by attending church service regularly, and also praying for yourself always.

Most importantly, you have to renew your mind with Gods word always.

God and get the book by pastor Chris oyakhilome, the power of your mind.

It will solve your problem.

buhariski:
bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some question like why am I getting rejections and what is it I,'m nt doing right. though I have some flaws I can lie u. I no b ugly guy oo even when I was still in my state then I've had many advances from d girls. some girls confessed they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester exam a girl once kissed and romance me in the presence of over 400 students and a lecturer. she did it on the platform when all eyes was on us dat day I was not conversant with the girl. I only knew her to be a course mate. A friend to my guy girlfriend kiss and romance me in presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look .I had to make her apologize to my girlfriend dat day. today is not another story . na me come d hussle for woman I don't know if was because I change environment could it tribal differences, language barrier and some other factor I can't understand.

The reason you can't seem to woo girls and they don't find you attractive is because of porn. The only thing they liked about you then probably was your look. Now, too much porn, poor nutrition and hustling has wrinkled your fine face�� plus you're now so skinny with no freshness.

Now, fine you no fine. Great physique you don't have. Money you don't have. Nice and appealing dress sense you probably don't have. Now to make things worse, you like fine girls, the type wey get better nyash and perky boobs. See your life.

Two things, you must take one . Either you lower your standard and start dating girls way bellow your desire, who can't say no to you, or you quite porn, eat well, go to gym and work up some muscle while investing some money on good clothes. Do this for just three month and see if girls won't start rushing you

Most people make the mistake of underestimating the cost of attracting your desired woman . It's steep bruh. But the good news is that we all have what it takes prime ourselves and live a richer and fuller life.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Bros your English is disgusting