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This might be a stunt or wettin i go fit call am sef?..who cries in Public for a husband?


But if the video is real then i guess she must be having recurring failed relationships with guys...and this can be because of many factors.

Boyfriends are many out there but hardly will you find a guy that is ready for marriage..but what we have nah hit and run,kiss and tell, scammers wey go chop you chop your money join...GOD HELP THE INNOCENT LADIES and deal with the bad ones.

lexy2014:
Y should I run 2 Google when I have u. U saw d names of d "many successful women that men have ruined" on Google. So share with us what u saw on Google

Stop your back and forth argument biko. There are countless successful women that have been ruined by romance scam except you just want to hang on to your ignorance.

Someone will carry her from that road and WIPE.

Yewandequeen:
The truth is there are few responsible men out there.
As at last might 2of my female neighbors and I actually discussed this.
Not that there are no men out there but there are less of those responsible ones, who will be committed and settle for one woman. Many still wanna play around till they are 34/35yrs before they think of settling down.
As I always say there are less responsible partners out there, if you have anyone that loves you so much, stay and brush the person to what you what. Stop all these yanga and time wasting thing.

I know she will have friends that loves her but cos they are not really her spec she won't look in their direction. As my dad always says, when a man/woman has 75% qualities of your desire help him make up the 25%.
Stop looking for 100% made cos no one is!

When i hear ladies rnt about loving a man and a man being faithful to them i just laugh at their reasoning...i call it misplaced priorities.

Yes ladies need to desire the man that will be their husbands but ladies have no business with loving any man...strange but true.

The only thing that is required of a lady IS TO RESPECT THE MAN IN HER LIFE and focus on her life and that of the children if she starts having them.
1 Peter;3 ''Wives, respect and obey your husbands...''

Ephesians 5:22-33 ''Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Just get a responsible man to get married to and have kids with and forget about all this love and faithful man talks. As long as you have a guy you desire as your husband and he takes care of his kids and services you relatively well please face front and build your life and that of your kids.

The moment a woman begins to worry herself about whether her husband is faithful to her or carry love for head is the day her problem starts...cos philandering or multiple sex partners is not about a man's age...it is in their gene and any woman who hinges her marital happiness on her husband fidelity should be ready to be the best friend of sadness.

essenceplus:
The way Nairaland men/boys put our women down is just so troubling and sickening. I hope you guys grow up.

Mumu shift

Shut up

hesilo:
A whole adult na him u call dummy. Like a whole man, something that that lady is crying for. Una dey get mind o

Toks2008:
Stop your back and forth argument biko. There are countless successful women that have been ruined by romance scam except you just want to hang on to your ignorance.

Oya ), professor, name d "countless successful women" for me. By d way, is it ur "back& forth argument"? Did anyone force u 2 read d "back& forth argument"?

must you be insensitive

SmellySperm:
after hoeing,u dey find husband now

Yewandequeen:
I didn't blame anyone and I so understand the gaining feet part. Both parties have their own share on this.

Glad you agree

franchasng:
Finding a wife is difficult only to a broke or financially struggling man, and a man who has not truly made up his mind to settle down. Once a guy decides to settle down, he will settle down and wed the very day he wishes

A GOOD WIFE bro

I typed that in caps for you to see

Once money comes even Satan becomes an Angel of light

If not, rich men wouldn't be divorced or having side chicks to ease the tension of the home.


A nairalander was calling his soon to be ex wife a demon yesterday

Its nearly the same for both . It's just like you rightly said the age factor and society isn't on women's side and women can't propose to themselves.


Your assertion up there is very very wrong about the financially struggling man.

Go to the mainland and see low income earners getting married daily.

I see your posts and most makes sense. However you should know there's a difference between a financially struggling guy who has no swag and one who does.

If you have have "player" friends you would know that these kinda men's financial level has nothing to do with the women. Whether they are poor or rich they must have babes warming their beds and coming back for more ( If you know what I mean)

Some babes choose the financially stable guys and still go back to knack the so caller broke ex weeks before their wedding. Those are the once who have a conscience and don't keep up with it after marriage. The news of ladies being caught at it is only a small fraction of the once happening on the low.

One thing I've noticed about these types is whatever their financial status is , they get babes a levels higher than them

While the average guy who screams "get money and babes will want you" can only date financially dependent girls when he is younger and babes within his level as he ages ( because you know why)

So get money , but in all your getting get understanding on how women work and you'll really be at the top of the food chain.

I know the IBO man in you might think this is trash but its reality .

Peace.

This girl na record breaker e don tay way comment section reach nine pages for nairaland forum. Girl God don answer ur prayers

Admin401:
Wow, actually wanted to make fun of her till I watched the video. She's really in pains and she looks good too. Nice legs, not fat, busty, nice ass too, still not married. Well, I don't know what the problem is.

One of the problems is that nice boys who are of age to marry are unemployed and still living with their parents shamelessly enjoying free food. Boys who are over 30 years yet unmarried should go to the streets like this girl, ask God to cause a turnaround in their lives so that they too can "leave their parents and cleave to these single girls that desire to marry."

This girl na record breaker e don tay way comment section reach nine pages for nairaland forum. Girl God don answer ur prayers Sit down relax husband on his way to u. Fi okan bale

Taiyescott:
Women grab us now ooo.. We men are Limited editions oo

Naso bro

that is how one 40yrs lady refused to let me go.. to be sincere men are scares commodity.a world where we have 5billion female and 1billion male

catwalq:
Me is gallant bro... Hope you good too?

yes dearie

TreasureJunky:
must you be insensitive

farm tool spotted!

peace0813:
Have you looked at the spiritual aspect?

continue defending ur gender

I'm not judging you dear!... But this is not how to get a good man. You're not too far gone, God is still on the throne, so, go do the needful

Admin401:
Wow, actually wanted to make fun of her till I watched the video. She's really in pains and she looks good too. Nice legs, not fat, busty, nice ass too, still not married. Well, I don't know what the problem is.

please kindly share with me the link to the video

generationz:
A GOOD WIFE bro

I typed that in caps for you to see

Once money comes even Satan becomes an Angel of light

If not, rich men wouldn't be divorced or having side chicks to ease the tension of the home.


A nairalander was calling his soon to be ex wife a demon yesterday

Its nearly the same for both . It's just like you rightly said the age factor and society isn't on women's side and women can't propose to themselves.


Your assertion up there is very very wrong about the financially struggling man.

Go to the mainland and see low income earners getting married daily.

I see your posts and most makes sense. However you should know there's a difference between a financially struggling guy who has no swag and one who does.

If you have have "player" friends you would know that these kinda men's financial level has nothing to do with the women. Whether they are poor or rich they must have babes warming their beds and coming back for more ( If you know what I mean)

Some babes choose the financially stable guys and still go back to knack the so caller broke ex weeks before their wedding. Those are the once who have a conscience and don't keep up with it after marriage. The news of ladies being caught at it is only a small fraction of the once happening on the low.

One thing I've noticed about these types is whatever their financial status is , they get babes a levels higher than them

While the average guy who screams "get money and babes will want you" can only date financially dependent girls when he is younger and babes within his level as he ages ( because you know why)

So get money , but in all your getting get understanding on how women work and you'll really be at the top of the food chain.

I know the IBO man in you might think this is trash but its reality .

Peace.

You've a point baby

Toks2008:
When i hear ladies rnt about loving a man and a man being faithful to them i just laugh at their reasoning...i call it misplaced priorities.

Yes ladies need to desire the man that will be their husbands but ladies have no business with loving any man...strange but true.

The only thing that is required of a lady IS TO RESPECT THE MAN IN HER LIFE and focus on her life and that of the children if she starts having them.
1 Peter;3 ''Wives, respect and obey your husbands...''

Ephesians 5:22-33 ''Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Just get a responsible man to get married to and have kids with and forget about all this love and faithful man talks. As long as you have a guy you desire as your husband and he takes care of his kids and services you relatively well please face front and build your life and that of your kids.

The moment a woman begins to worry herself about whether her husband is faithful to her or carry love for head is the day her problem starts...cos philandering or multiple sex partners is not about a man's age...it is in their gene and any woman who hinges her marital happiness on her husband fidelity should be ready to be the best friend of sadness.

Great advice


I hope you give your daughter the same advice when she gets HIV from her philandering husband.

Yes the number of Faithful partners are reducing due to dwindling levels of morality among people but that doesn't change the fact that accountability is expected of both partners for a happy marriage.

AntiBrutus:
Continue deceiving yourselves.

Reserve psychology to keep making women think they are the ones who want marriage more. Women keep falling for it and behaving like this lady.

Wed the day he wishes? To who?
The one he wishes or just any available one?

Tell this trash to ladies without responsible welldoing young men in her circle.

you mean longstanding "besties" who now have their eyes on other women?

LilMissFavvy:
I would rather be rich and live alone happily with my children, than be married living in hell with a scum

u don't mean it...I didn't know your dad was a scum to your dad...you must be from a dysfunctional home where your dad maltreated your mom in your presence or possibly have been in abusive relationship before

I'm sure u can attest to any of this because you're actually having post traumatic stress disorder..

kindly enroll in a rehab ASAP

na wahala...

NNEWIsuper:
u don't mean it...I didn't know your dad was a scum to your dad...you must be from a dysfunctional home where your dad maltreated your mom in your presence or possibly have been in abusive relationship before

I'm sure u can attest to any of this because you're actually having post traumatic stress disorder..

kindly enroll in a rehab ASAP

You have insight.

Acidosis:
you mean longstanding "besties" who now have their eyes on other women?

I will like if you stay on course and not make unnecessary deductions. Which woman they have their eyes on isn't in contest. Neither is who they are or what subset they fit into. They could very well be anyone, colleagues, neighbours, family, acquaintances, friends of friends and friends too.

The point was, these category of men also seek desirable wives who are sometimes unavailable.

, Is it true that some lady find it difficult to get husband or are they see one but they are doing high level? Because many ladies can do shakara too much they are looking for rich boy. Because some men are ready to marry 4 wives some are ready to marry 2 or 3. But why some lady still find it hard to get husband?

Only Allah knows the best, and Destiny is in hand of God

Ritzy10:
Watch The Emotional Video HERE

this one weak me ooooo
my dear
my advice for you is.........
don't think you can't find the right man
don't wait for man to cater for everything you want, make your self happy......
don't be in a hurry, so that u won't choose wrong and be regretting you stay single.......
above all....... use this opportunity to keep urself busy with work, be prepared for your future husband b4 e comes around, don't sell ur self up and down sleeping with men's...........
Am single, searching just like you BUT am not desperate........ God time is the best

TempleHouse:
Look, there are thousand of Men looking for a decent girl also, and it's just a case of both meeting each other.
Why not dress well and go to shopping mall like Shoprite, Parties, Churches and be accessible than crying in the high Street?
No one will take her serious crying in the street, I'm afraid and every decent guys will be scared to approach her.

Do you know if she has done all these things you said if not more.

You guys don't know what some ladies go through

Toks2008:
When i hear ladies rnt about loving a man and a man being faithful to them i just laugh at their reasoning...i call it misplaced priorities.

Yes ladies need to desire the man that will be their husbands but ladies have no business with loving any man...strange but true.

[b]The only thing that is required of a lady IS TO RESPECT THE MAN IN HER LIFE[/b] and focus on her life and that of the children if she starts having them.
1 Peter;3 ''Wives, respect and obey your husbands...''

Ephesians 5:22-33 ''Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Just get a responsible man to get married to and have kids with and forget about all this love and faithful man talks. As long as you have a guy you desire as your husband and he takes care of his kids and services you relatively well please face front and build your life and that of your kids.

The moment a woman begins to worry herself about whether her husband is faithful to her or carry love for head is the day her problem starts...cos philandering or multiple sex partners is not about a man's age...it is in their gene and any woman who hinges her marital happiness on her husband fidelity should be ready to be the best friend of sadness.

Gosh!! I never knew there are deep thinkers on Nairaland.

God bless you Sir, you are filled with so much wisdom, may that fountain never run dry.

You have a total understanding of the role women should play in a marriage. You will truly have a happy and long lasting marriage with your wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

I won't say more, than to thank you for sharing this. Now, I know that there are people on this site that are filled with so much wisdom. Have bben seeing a lot of rubbish of late, but, you are a proper man that has understanding and finding the right woman will be so easy for you.

Thumbs up Sir.