May I pack well. This thread is likely to hit front page

I think op is exaggerating, he is lusting over her and imagining things, the wife can't see such and not caution the sister right in your presence.

Rednaxelot:


No reason for any alarm here, it has been in your mind to fuckck the girl, u just looking for an excuse to do so in her dressing

that is exactly what I thought. this should have not be an issue if the guy have a clear conscience, what special thing did she got his wife doesn't have?

Amuocha:
But where is lalasticlala sef

you don start.

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them.

Hahahahahaha.

the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Pep Guardiola is coaching your village people on how to put you in trouble.

So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

What?! After everything, you called her to have evening prayers with you. You sure say you are not enjoying the show and you are not hoping to press her boobs?
Hope you enjoyed the praise and worship? Hope her voice reached to the high heavens in the middle of it all? Yimu

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Only your wife and her sister know the name of the soup they are cooking for you. Are you not a man? Why not discuss this issue with your wife? Do you have children?

You dey enjoy o, you got 2 for the price of 1, ask her to do cowgirl on you

Marry one and get one free..

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

My guy, tell your wife to either send her sister home or let her cover herself properly if not you will commit adultery/fornication. Be blunt about it

Tell her you will throw her out if she continue to dress like that.if she doesn't change tell your wife about it. If your wife feels less concerned and adamant to caution her, take a bowl of water and wash your hands at the door post signifying your innocence just like Pontius Pilate then invite them for a party and bleep the hell out of them.

I find some women on this forum very ridiculous for suggesting the Op imagined the things he's complaining about.

I have seen these kind of thing the op spoke about happen in many homes and I marvel.

Women are apt to always deliberately choose to dress very carelessly and quickly label a man that complains a pervert.

You that dressed to expose your smelly secret parts are you not the first pervert.

@Op you can caution her after all she's now your sister in law so you can talk to her like you'd talk to your sister.

Just a variant of this meme is all.

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

So if you are the woman you will say your husband is silly ?If he commits adultery ,you will start blaming him .But wait, do you people even cover yourselves these days ?

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

You seem to be forgetting your position in the house.
Your wife and are sister are under you and you need to set the rules in the house.

Tell the young lady to cover up when she is in your presence.
Tell your wife to coach her sister how to dress in your presence.

liberalchick:
I find it very hard to believe that a married woman will be comfortable with another young woman parading in front of her husband in see through clothing. I suspect that’s why you don’t want to tell your wife, you’re seeing what’s not there because of your obvious attraction to her.

Your marriage is just a year old you are supposed to be in the honey moon phase. Face your front, learn some self control and get a grip on your hormones.

So she should be completely naked first before you know her mission ?

There is also the possibility of some weird shit. There were these three sisters I remeber from school. two entered at the same time. Anyway one was dating some dude in statistics. She was the junior sister. Both were hot chicks.anyway the story is that the senior sister either chanced the junior sister of her bf or she started fking the guy. Very very weird shit.


If this story is true which I think maybe someone has some unresolved issues.

Plus I have also seen situations where a guy toasted chick a and got nowhere only to find that the chicks friend or sister was down. I have also seen this happen. All this was in university though.

Anyway Oscar wilde said the best way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it.in this case, you better make something up so you can send the girl packing. If this story is true it is only a matter of time before you fall. The temptation will not go away and she may become more and more aggressive.

Lol oga, the girl is doing that to you cause she sees the lust in your eyes, u don't need to tell your wife to advice her sister to dress decent, the house is yours why can't u call her and tell her to her face that u don't like her mode of dressing it's indecent she shouldn't walk around half naked in your house when u are around

all this people self giving advice that u should tell ur wife, for waiting na!! are u not the man? give her a stare warning anytime she try that stupid thing as a man. expect u too has something in mind ni

Oyindidi:
Take your cheating eyes off that girl

H@llo

Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.

hahaha Jesus and Satan...u bad o. so pathetic. Abeg OP tell ur wife o and send that girl packing. She will destroy ur marriage

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Is there any specific reason why the girl is with you?

If no, it is time to go.

If yes, she needs to learn how to dress to the level of modesty OP and his wife has set for their home.

My brother,you are playing with a scorching fire in your marriage. Please, call your wife and report her sister to her. If you notice that there is no change, call her by yourself and tell her. But, you must do it in a very matured and wise way. You are a man of yourself, resist from every form of her temptation She is fully aware of what she's doing, its left up to you. So help you, God. Amen.

Who knows whether they both planned to see if you would cheat. Be bold enough to tell your wife about her dressing.

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

na wa o.

Tell your wife and sternly warn the sister in her presence to cease dressing provocatively. If it were your brother in your home wearing speedos up and down I'm sure your wife would be uncomfortable too. If she doesn't change after you warn her, send her out.

talk to your wife, even if its your mind playing games with you, you better talk now or remain silent when your marriage packs up

My broda, you are strong nii.
Better tell your wife, oo.
But wife sef should have noticed the funny dress code of her sister.
Unless they are planning to set you up.
Ji masun.

Apply caution bro.