samtol4:
You dont have a fiancée yet . If you marry a lady who blocked you over trivial issues . You will suffer

wise man

People funny Sha... This op funny well.

What will you do if you are being scammed?
That girl doesn't like you
She only likes the benefits.
Cut all benefits she won't stay a week before she flee.

Your guys de ginger you if I'm there I for Don begin beat you till your eye close.

Godoverevery I advice u just call it quits with her the money is gone and she doesn't plan to return it. Really from the start you should have not put your mind on getting the money back.

Samyj247:
Godoverevery
I never see mumu like u before. big for nothing without sense. I expected this thread to come up soon. I told u last month but ur big fish brain head made u do worst. Idiot...can u send me card 1k?

Lol
But this is so uncalled for.

SmellingAnus:
My annoyance with this guy is not that he was a fool inlove, everyone inlove tend to be foolish.... My annoyance with the Op is that he hasn't learnt his lesson... He will still make worse mistakes probably with this same babe...

Please loud it for him o...

Godoverevery:

why are you crying more than the aggerive ......like my matter even dey pain you pass me.......i didn't lose anything I just posted the thread so people can learn and no what going on ......Pray God really bless you and you will understand.....she is already begging me......even her parent are already pleading on her behalf.......her stupidity out of fear just caused her getting married to me and I don't think it will go down well with her because she will really suffer.

Bro, sorry to tell you this but IT IS OVER.
You are just in denial. That girl is toxic to your system. You too admitted that you should have listened to what people said in your last thread but you didn't. You are just trying to save face now. The truth is bitter as they say but you are not ready to face the truth. Why won't her parents beg you? ( that is if you are telling the truth sef).
I will advise you to just count your losses and move on. There is a special girl out there who will appreciate you for who you are but not definitely this one.
What has she even brought to the table ? You even said yourself that you hardly feck her. You are just building castles in the air. You are not in her future.

abeg make una free op jare, he knows he messed up big time... he is only trying to salvage his image here... and will not agree online that he lost guard as per mushin boi wey im be!

abeg free am, he has learnt


in the meantime, there is this friend of mine... we met in uyo way back...

she just sent me a PM on fb that she wants to celebrate her birthday and she doesn't have a dime on her....

she also said she wants to go into boxers business and she needs like 200k loan.
she doesnt also mind being a fiancee to her benefactor!!

who is interested? please indicate so I can hook u guys up!

PS she will take u to her family house to show she is legit and not about to abscond with the money!!

*** for guys that want to get married only*** not guys that are still in their parents houses!

Godoverevery:

why are you crying more than the aggerive ......like my matter even dey pain you pass me.......i didn't lose anything I just posted the thread so people can learn and no what going on ......Pray God really bless you and you will understand.....she is already begging me......even her parent are already pleading on her behalf.......her stupidity out of fear just caused her getting married to me and I don't think it will go down well with her because she will really suffer.

You didn't lose anything? You lied about:

1) you lost 150k
2) you lost 40k to organize her party
3)you lost about 60k u used to buy phone for her
You have lost a minimum of 250k

As nicely calculated for us by Chidonc as gleaned from your own post on the subject? And her parents are begging you this morning? The parents who you were unable to contact?

It's true. You lost nothing. Abeg she said to make it 1million please since you never responded and 500k sef will be lose nothing to very rich but no sense lying you! She will pay it all back last month. And she will marry you. She promises.

Godoverevery:

lol...... well D's is coming from a kid who 150k seems like a big money too......Wen God bless you bro you will see things in another way.
FYI been street doesn't mean you sud av a fiancée and not been able to assist her financially bro if you have it......only poor guys will see dat as a big deal.....it was my friends dat wanted to cause trouble not me cos as for me am bigger than that man.....I didn't lose at all.....she already no wat she has lost in her life and she already begging.

bro you're seeking advice and you still defending your short comings... I bet you'll still borrow her another money.. Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates didn't get wealthy throwing money around... 150k is not a joke.. Commot am from 1 billion and the person go turn to millionaire... Use your number 6

Op, you are not placing God over anything. Not the God of Wisdom at least. I would not myself be surprised if your next thread is "I married her, what should I do next?" Whilst you complain how she sold you cheaply in the market. Something about you immensely interests me. It's that 1M she will pay back last month, I'm sure. I'm following you for that reason.

Bro dey don’t give women money for business and expect returns especially if you are bleeping the lady

ur babe is a not a biz person. u shuld know dat by now na, some pple r just like dat. XO, instead of financing her to do biz which she obviously cant, encourage her to learn a trade instead, dats d way forward.

I dont knw wat u saw in her b4 proposing to marry her, buh u sure saw something good. This money ish shuldnt cancel out every of her goodnez. apply wisdom nd u will b alryt, dats if u r still interested in the relationship sha.

Arresting her wont produce ur money as u wish...nd from ur writeup, u sure dont think its cool, xo dont do it nd dont let ur friends hype u into it

BONUS: My mum tot me a wisdom on lending pple money; U LEND ONLY DAT WHICH U CAN FORFIET...dats if u r a peace-lover like me. Xo next tym, be guided
Gracias

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things
I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends are her's at a lounge(paid all the bills).

so the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised too produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my account as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.
this new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.
On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).
so I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

my friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
they are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly ...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Callertunez:
bro you're seeking advice and you still defending your short comings... I bet you'll still borrow her another money.. Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates didn't get wealthy throwing money around... 150k is not a joke.. Commot am from 1 billion and the person go turn to millionaire... Use your number 6

bro let me learify something .....I don't borrow her the money I only assisted her to have something doing instead of just been idle ........ she was only meant to refund the capital back for reinvestment not the gains.....I was just only trying to ensure she doesn't lose track of things.

not that am defending any of my short comings....I only clarifying the wrong narrative...she didn't lend money from me rather I gave her so has to have something doing and with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment....... I hope D's kills the statement of borrowing.

So mugu men still plenty like this

If na family member the idiot will say

Mummy since two weeks ago work never Dey

Mugu

Boy

babe is stashing ur monies somewhere wey she go use get visa plus flight ticket jakpa comot for naija.smart babe.

Amyyy2020:
ur babe is a not a biz person. u shuld know dat by now na, some pple r just like dat. XO, instead of financing her to do biz which she obviously cant, encourage her to learn a trade instead, dats d way forward.

I dont knw wat u saw in her b4 proposing to marry her, buh u sure saw something good. This money ish shuldnt cancel out every of her goodnez. apply wisdom nd u will b alryt, dats if u r still interested in the relationship sha.

Arresting her wont produce ur money as u wish...nd from ur writeup, u sure dont think its cool, xo dont do it nd dont let ur friends hype u into it

BONUS: My mum tot me a wisdom on lending pple money; U LEND ONLY DAT WHICH U CAN FORFIET...dats if u r a peace-lover like me. Xo next tym, be guided
Gracias

I don't know why everyone is saying I lend her money......I only assisted her in having something doing with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment......like is dat a bad thing to for someone you intend marrying.....fine it was a mistake but I don't think my intentions were foolish in anyway.

I have seen ladies cursing and abusing there bf for not helping them financially...and ladies will be like the guy doesn't love you or he is stingy....she sud leave him.........here I am helped one....am been label foolish by the same ladies.

like this world is really somehow.

OP, you fell into wrong hands. There is nothing bad assisting someone you intend to marry. Learn your lesson and watch carefully before you assist the next girl friend.

Godoverevery:
I don't know why everyone is saying I lend her money......I only assisted her in having something doing with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment......like is dat a bad thing to for someone you intend marrying.....fine it was a mistake but I don't think my intentions were foolish in anyway.

Your helping is not foolish. It is kind and decent. Your denial and refusal to accept the evidence and outcome after it has been pointed out to you by numerous people in numerous posts in two threads is what is foolish. Very foolish indeed!

Lend: grant to (someone) the use of (something) on the understanding that it will be returned.

Example: I only assisted her in having something doing with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment......like.

[quote author=budaatum post=79414227]
Your helping is not foolish. It is kind and decent. Your denial and refusal to accept the evidence and outcome after it has been pointed out to you by numerous people in numerous posts in two threads is what is foolish. Very foolish indeed!

Lend: grant to (someone) the use of (something) on the understanding that it will be returned.

Example: I only assisted her in having something doing with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment......like.[/quote
LOL......Ignored you but you still coming for me......maybe Wen you get to the stage you ready to be a man and settle down you will understand.... Iwas like you years back as an undergraduate with same mentality but as you grow older in life you see things in another way.....my prayer is my God bless you financially ......

Godoverevery:
LOL......Ignored you but you still coming for me......maybe Wen you get to the stage you ready to be a man and settle down you will understand.... Iwas like you years back as an undergraduate with same mentality but as you grow older in life you see things in another way.....my prayer is my God bless you financially ......

Is that what you are? A man? An older man? An overgraduated older man? A ready to settle down overgraduated older man? A ready to settle down overgraduated older man who thinks his financials entitle him to the affections of a woman? Has it made you desperate maybe, like your time is running out?

God please you know buda is only 12. When buda grows older, please don't ever let buda be a desperate ready to settle down overgraduated older man with a mentality like Godoverevery's who is trying really hard but failing to ignore the advise of 12 year old buda and very many others as given in numerous posts in two threads.

And God please bless Godoverevery with sense and intelligence along with the financials you have apparently already blessed Godoverevery with.
In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

Brother wey mumu

there is something I am not understanding.....
op are u going or coming?

*You did not lend her the money - statement 1

*you gave her so she could return it and reinvest it - Statement 2

What's your business if she doesn't want to reinvest the money you freely gave her with no intent of collecting it back
...

OP village people are singing with ur name in the village oh....

Forget the money jare.. The money has entered bear bear bank(bank of return) so move on dear

budaatum:

Is that what you are? A man? An older man? An overgraduated older man? A "ready to settle down overgraduated older man"? A "ready to settle down overgraduated older man" who thinks his financials entitle him to the affections of a woman? Has it made you desperate maybe, like your time is running out?

God please you know buda is only 12. When buda grows older, please don't ever let buda be a desperate "ready to settle down overgraduated older man" with a mentality like Godoverevery's who is trying really hard but failing to ignore the advise of 12 year old buda and very many others as given in numerous posts in two threads.

And God please bless Godoverevery with sense and intelligence along with the financials you have apparently already blessed Godoverevery with.
In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

surprisingly he doesn't know that some people here are already married!

Is this how he intends to live with a woman happily ever after?

He will "Give" not "Lend" her money, but will insist that she returns the money at specific periods so he/ she can "Reinvest" it....

As per wetin na? Even gf will find something wrong with that kinda arrangement..... let alone a wife...

well he will finally marry that girl!!! And I will be here waiting for Season 3 of this Game of Threads!

Michelle55:
Forget the money jare.. The money has entered bear bear bank(bank of return) so move on dear

move on? the parents are begging him so he ain't going nowhere.....
I personally think he should follow his heart....
he should be old enough to make mistakes for himself!

obekediamondfuto:


surprisingly he doesn't know that some people here are already married!

well he will finally marry that girl!!! And I will be here waiting for Season 3 of this Game of Threads!

His stupidity know no bounds. I'm probably old enough to be his parent, but stupidly, he thinks hes the oldest and most financial etc.

That Season 3 of his Game of Threads will not be long coming. Children of his mentality can't wait more than a few months before they compound their stupidity and we will be here telling him even if he refuses to listen, hear, admit his stupidity, learn and move on!

obekediamondfuto:


move on? the parents are begging him so he ain't going nowhere.....
I personally think he should follow his heart....
he should be old enough to make mistakes for himself!

so what would you advise him to do?

Michelle55:
so what would you advise him to do? Because the girl is obviously playing with him

I strongly advise him to follow his heart!!!

He has been advised otherwise before but it seems he is hellbent on getting married this year and she is the closest person to a wife to him now....

Let him follow his heart shikena, afterall one doesn't need a special ID card to divorce.... which is bound to happen except a miracle takes place!!!

You sef think am na, you gave someone money with intent to receive it back in installments.
when the time was right to fulfill obligation, the person blocked you.....

this was after you had bought the person a 60k phone and thrown an elaborate birthday party for this same person....

except there is a calabash in the village somewhere with this guy's picture in it there is no other rational explanation why this guy even needs to be advised.

If you give your girlfriend money and she can't explain what she used it for or how the money went, BE SURR SHE'S USING YOUR MONEY TO BUY COCAINE/CRACK/HEROINE and jam with her friends or crack BF. These drugs are done in secret so it's hard to figure it out early. True story

@ OP

important info....
note that the people bashing you are only chastising you out of the tough love they have for you....

whatever you do, make sure you don't make the headlines of any blog or newspaper!!!!

Very important info!

Godoverevery:

bro let me learify something .....I don't borrow her the money I only assisted her to have something doing instead of just been idle ........ she was only meant to refund the capital back for reinvestment not the gains.....I was just only trying to ensure she doesn't lose track of things.

not that am defending any of my short comings....I only clarifying the wrong narrative...she didn't lend money from me rather I gave her so has to have something doing and with the condition of remitting the capital for reinvestment....... I hope D's kills the statement of borrowing.

OK...