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Help her if you can. It only increases your dignity and respect but make sure you never ask her out again. She will die in silence because of the way God has decided to bless you. She will always say in her mind had I known. MAKE SURE YOU DONT DATE HER AGAIN AND ALSO RESFUSE HER SEXUAL ADVANCES.

Forgett about Una issue back den, jus help her if u have the cash. think of Aalah & help people. Dont think about human being behavior, & Allah will surely help u in another way...Goodbye

lonelygem:
If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about.

Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status.

Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil.

God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly.

Now this is someone that made sensible comment .

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

if you asked her for the money, she'll still turn u down. U don't need to think twice. Turn her down immediately!

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Na them.. its all format run away.. thats whats raining with ladies.. they have d 1k gang or 5kgang

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

Gbam.

No wonder she turned u down because she knows you are very daft. That is why she came asked to you for that help again. Prove to her that you are not o.

If you have a job vacancy in your company , you can employ her. Dont give her money. She will turn against you. A guy screwing her at the moment. He will teach her everything bad to keep getting money from you. Maybe you will be her mugu after they do cele work on your head

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

Epic

spiceadole:


The problem is that Nigerian guys cannot be friends with a lady without sleeping with her.
The lady turned him down..4 years after,they are still in touch...I can bet the day he gets to sleep with her,he will create a thread here,brag about it and gain support from a lot of guys..then cut off all link with the girl.
I only blame the girl for keeping in touch with him and worst of it,asking for money.No man gives a woman money with no strings attached

Typical Nigerian guys not all though, there are only few guys who can help a lady without expecting sex in return

Apeshy101:

Op she turned you down because of your grammar


Talking about helping her, if you have the money and you are willing to partway with any amount, then help her, it's no biggie.


Everyone must not be in a relationship with you. What if she was in a happy relationship before you stepped into the picture?

Lol
It's no Biggie
See our grammarian
What of it's no gala?

Too many funny replies, OP pick the best out and use it, cuz wisdom is profitable to direct, don't pay evil for evil, who knows she might even be your future wife.

Help her if the amount is insignificant.

If it's me, if I have the money I will help

If you have,give her. Declining your request back then shouldn't be a reason for not giving her. To me giving her shows maturity than using that as an excuse

LIFE IS MORE THAN DATING EACH OTHER, HELP HER IF YOU CAN BECAUSE IT MAY SOON BE HER TURN TO HELP YOU IN FUTURE. Life is always of double sides

So you kept in touch for 4 years even after she turned you down? You do not need any advice because you're still into her. And you know what they say about a man in love....a new "mugu" is born

DONT HELP ANYTHING,ARE U MARRIED NOW OR IN A RELATIONSHIP SHE S AWARE OF?EITHER WAY SHE WANT TO SQUANDER U,
She needs ur attention back so she can suck u like neva bfor..i know der type,they continue at ur back shouting MUMU ATM with her colleague...she must have ex too..guys she once dated and believe in,she shd face dem and leave a lowlive u because she neva bliv u could have anything not to talk of asking u anything,if she cant reason with u 4yrs ago she have no reason to tap from u now
RUDEBOY 2019

The greatest FEAR of most men is to hear the word NO. we cannot date every lady out there. The moment you realize that you can't always have what you want the better. You liked her, she cannot DATE you. Some relationships are best if you are just friends. I know you now have a GF Except if you're still waiting for her yes in 2020. As for the money, just send a token to her. You can be friends without sex. Don't just allow her to open a shop on you. You can also say NO if you don't have the money. This life no hard my nigga

2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

weakling how are u doing? continue u have been spotted

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

This is where maturity would play, help her and forget her attitude

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

I'm tempted to call u a foool. U are trying to date someone who is in school now, four years ago. Don't u think she was too small then that was why she turn down ur proposal. Just because she has asked u for Money that u may not even give her up to 10k u brought it here for discussion. Use ur head.

Bros, don't even try it. Don't part with a dime. Give her money at the expense of your integrity. She is already taking for a 'maga'

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Lol, Dating and helping. How are they same thing?
You should thank your head that u don't date her initially, right now your account balance for be zero. Then thank God that God has show you way.
U can help her, that's if you have money. U don't know what can happen tomorrow...

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Why are u still talking to her 4 years after she turned u down?

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

Well airtel can still send u airtime

Apeshy101:

Op she turned you down because of your grammar


Talking about helping her, if you have the money and you are willing to partway with any amount, then help her, it's no biggie.


Everyone must not be in a relationship with you. What if she was in a happy relationship before you stepped into the picture?

Are u normal?

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

I didn't even read the content. Just the topic and i have this to say as a guy...

Yes. Help her if you can.
Help her if toj really loved her.
Help her because she is a human being.
Help her because you are in a position to be able to.
Help her because she needs help.
Help her because you will feel happy aftewards.


Not agreeing to date you doesn't mean she should be allowed to suffer. I can tell you this for free, if any of the girls that dumped me came to me for help and i have the capacity, i will fo it without thinking twice and I'll feel happier because i put a smile on someone's face Nd saved the day.

money is powerful too much...see comments

abeg send me d girl account make i dash her 50k

Nteogwuija:


Lol. I can relate.

I sat down one day and I went through my bank records of all cash I had sent to my ex. After doing all the summation, I discovered that the money if kept together would have bought me a piece of land in a not so developed area.

Na so my brain reset.

The relationship didn't last up to 2 weeks after I had this discovery.

Now, I no want do any relationship again.

Forget any girl wey say she no dey come for your money. It's a trap.

So they sell land 15k?