jugger:
Ever seen a football match start from 1-0?

this is just funny.

SBL28:


This!!! I have always wondered, the ease with Which these people move from one marriage to another is alarming.

Hey Mama, I feel your energy. Just for sake of knowledge, are you by any chance a single mom?

I just want to reconcile your energy with the subject matter. Please don't feel offended.

khiaa:
Lets be honest, some men aren't concerned about her virginity but moreso about her character. All men aren't the same and most of you don't see virgins as someone who is pure but someone for you to manipulate and conquer. Her virginity is just a challenge for you, once you succeed it's on to the next one.

dont get me wrong sista....i (MBJ) dislike virgins like the plague, they are mostly ignorant in how to care for their men and, most importantly, lame in bed. but i have to be honest about this issue... they are mostly viewed as better "more pure" than the others. forget religion and all other BS, thats how most men would view two women (regardless of their character) that were presented to them.

Getting married to a single mom is not a bad thing but the one of hiding it from the family is not going to be good is better he tell them and face anything that come out of it

konvict0111:
Hey Mama, I feel your energy. Just for sake of knowledge, are you by any chance a single mom?

I just want to reconcile your energy with the subject matter. Please don't feel offended.

What energy? My comment was not even about the topic, read well before jumping.

SBL28:


What energy? My comment was not even about the topic, read well before jumping.

Okay, fine. My apologies please!

Leoniine:


Now, this is the part I don't like. Invalidation or dismissal. While hiding behind some obscure veneer. How all my talk take be beans? I don't call your opinions bullshit, do I?

Explain to me how it showed me to be selfish!!!! Like, dude, did you read my post, did you? Selfishness, seriously?

Heavy debt? Please, make your question clearer. What kind of debt? Monetary? In what context or situation? Because my brain is coming up with so much possibilities here. I thought up an NGO scenario. And I imagined when I'll be financially comfortable.

You talk too much. Answer simple question.

Can you empty your retirement account for that child that is not yours in the case of an emergency?

I cant settle down with a single mum for reasons that are beyond her power, and even if it makes no sense or downright antiquated, I'm a proponent of choice, and that every human should have an inalienable right to romantic freedom, and doesnt have to justify why they prefer one over the other.

Just as I wont date or marry an obese lady, I wont date or marry a single mom. I do not want to father a child that may never acknowledge me as a father, blood will always be thicker than water. If he was an adopted child, then it is a different case, but biologically, hell no.

Furthermore, there is something called sexual imprint, and if it happens that the previous partner was of a spartaculean sexual prowess, I will never be able to satisfy her, and I will be merely tolerated and settled for, creating a likelihood for her to cheat. Also, it is common for single mum to be bitter, at least from personal experience. A woman that has assumed the role of a man, such as providing and protecting her offspring will most likely be bitter, as it is a burden women did not evolved to carry alone.

Also, just as the breast and other necessary organs of the female body develop fast in anticipation of her impending childbirth, her psychology switches to resource mode. She is on the lookout for potential mate that will bear the financial responsibility of her child. The goal is not to love him, but to act in a way that will make him assume the provider role, and he will likely be discarded when he outlived his usefulness.

How about siblings fights and privilege? My biological kids may be hated by the other kid because I love them more, again, blood is thicker than water. My partner may accuse me of unequal treatment because I treat my kids better. Different family surname, galloping the parental cohesion of the family. My innocent actions, such as scolding and punishing the kid might be interpreted as hate by the kid and the mum.

For the above reasons, I'll rather stick to women without children, as it makes our lives easier.

pansophist:
I cant settle down with a single mum for reasons that are beyond her power, and even if it makes no sense or downright antiquated, I'm still a proponent that every human should have an inalienable right to romantic freedom, and doesnt have to justify why they prefer one over the other.

Just as I wont date or marry an obese lady, I wont date or marry a single mom. I do not want to father a child with a high chance that will never acknowledge me as a father, blood will always thicker than water. If he was an adopted child, then it is a different case, but biologically, hell no.

Furthermore, there is something called sexual imprint, and if it happens that the previous partner was of a spartaculean sexual prowess, I will never be able to satisfy her, and I will be mere tolerated and settled for, creating a likelihood of her cheating. Also, it is common for single mum to be bitter, at least from personal experience. A woman that has assumed the role of a man, such as providing and protecting her offspring will most likely be bitter, as it is a burden women did not evolved to carry alone.

Also, just as the breast and other necessary organs of the female body develop fast in anticipation of her impending childbirth, her psychology switches to resource mode. She is on the lookout for potential mate that will bear the financial responsibility of her child. The goal is not to love him, but to act in a way that will make him assume the provider role, and likely discarded when he outlive his usefulness.

How about siblings fight and privilege? My biological kids may he hated by the other kid because I may love them more, again, blood is thicker than water. My partner may accuse me of unequal treatment because I treat my kids better.

For the above reasons, I'll rather stick to women without children, as it makes our lives easier.

You have spoken well

Billionsclub:
are u saying marrying single mothers is right?

are you saying it is wrong?

Akanoaaa:
Cuz its likely for the single mother to bleep her baby daddy again

and non single mothers dont bleep their ex boyfriends again?

TWservices:
Trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am. Please don't come and complain when she shows you pepper

all the ladies showing their husbands "pepper" in marriages are single mothers right?

AstroG:
You see ehe,single mothers are the promiscuous beings in earth(excluding divorcees and widows) and there are highly votaile.
They are like packs of tom tom,what u see is what u get,when u open it. So its better u steer clear of them

and the ladies who have had abortions are not promiscuous? All these children sef

pcguru1:
Because of the drama involved esp with the child. I have a step brother and the experience has not been favourable, better to go for someone without much attachment. Sounds cold but it's less problematic same goes to single dad too.

very correct. Those who can't handle it should steer clear but making it seem like its an abomination because you can't handle it is stupidity

niaralandtopuser:

oga go and marry your old olosho. we all have the right to chose

you have the right to choose, do so and leave others with their choices. Calling single mothers names and pouring insult on those who chose to marry them shows you are nothing but scum.

Yinibixema:
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Senseless post. Use your head for once. Or na by force to marry single mother?

its not by force to marry single mothers, likewise its not by force NOT to marry single mothers. Leave those who wants to do it alone, you think they have low self esteem because they choose a single mother? Then you are the one with the esteem issue

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Ryan03:
its not by force to marry single mothers, likewise its not by force NOT to marry single mothers. Leave those who wants to do it alone, you think they have low self esteem because they choose a single mother? Then you are the one with the esteem issue

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Single mothers are uselsss except widows and that’s why they are single in the first place

pansophist:
I cant settle down with a single mum for reasons that are beyond her power, and even if it makes no sense or downright antiquated, I'm a proponent of choice, and that every human should have an inalienable right to romantic freedom, and doesnt have to justify why they prefer one over the other.

Just as I wont date or marry an obese lady, I wont date or marry a single mom. I do not want to father a child that may never acknowledge me as a father, blood will always be thicker than water. If he was an adopted child, then it is a different case, but biologically, hell no.

Furthermore, there is something called sexual imprint, and if it happens that the previous partner was of a spartaculean sexual prowess, I will never be able to satisfy her, and I will be merely tolerated and settled for, creating a likelihood for her to cheat. Also, it is common for single mum to be bitter, at least from personal experience. A woman that has assumed the role of a man, such as providing and protecting her offspring will most likely be bitter, as it is a burden women did not evolved to carry alone.

Also, just as the breast and other necessary organs of the female body develop fast in anticipation of her impending childbirth, her psychology switches to resource mode. She is on the lookout for potential mate that will bear the financial responsibility of her child. The goal is not to love him, but to act in a way that will make him assume the provider role, and he will likely be discarded when he outlived his usefulness.

How about siblings fights and privilege? My biological kids may be hated by the other kid because I love them more, again, blood is thicker than water. My partner may accuse me of unequal treatment because I treat my kids better. Different family surname, galloping the parental cohesion of the family.

For the above reasons, I'll rather stick to women without children, as it makes our lives easier.

So much wisdom in your write up,thumbs up man

Charleys:


Girl every man seeks a virgin, don't be deceived.
There's no stats for this one.

Not every man seeks a virgin,it wasnt part of what i was looking out for when I wanted to marry,as a matter of fact, I never wanted to disvirgin any girl in my life after my first experience

how's staicey?

2buffagain:


You talk too much. Answer simple question.

Can you empty your retirement account for that child that is not yours in the case of an emergency?

Ryan03:
and non single mothers dont bleep their ex boyfriends again?

But the single mother probability is high. No matter what, their child will always connecting them one way or the other.

Alexgeneration:

Oh,I never knew that I'm the problem of single mothers in Nigeria and not their knack for making the wrong choices.


Perhaps,I might also be the problem of prostitutes and kidnappers.



Maybe,you should be thankful to those external forces for saving you from a lifetime of misery and unappreciated servitude, cos by now you'd be raising a bastard with your hard earned money who will never appreciate you.


Why waste your resources on single mothers when you can give it to people who really deserved it (Virgins and ladies without "baggages"?

Why not start a family on a clean and fresh note?

Why not save yourself from unnecessary drama and bitterness from these folks who always play the victim?

what is your problem? Is it your money? If anyone wishes to marry a single mother, why make it your headache? Marry your virgin and leave others to their choices. haba

Akanoaaa:


But the single mother probability is high. No matter what, their child will always connecting them one way or the other.

who made the calculations or is this base on sheer assumption?

Yinibixema:
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Single mothers are uselsss except widows and that’s why they are single in the first place

what a waste!

Yinibixema:
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So you expect a man to waste his money on single mother ?

is it your money? Why the matter dey pain you specially? Is your mum a single mother? You seem pained

luminouz:


I don't seem to understand your criticism laced with insults bro.
They gave their personal opinions, why not respect that instead of calling them names. It almost seems as if you want every man here to automatically love single moms.

I disagree, most did not give their personal opinions, they insulted those who chose to marry single mothers by calling them losers with low self esteem. That us trying to force your opinion on me and insulting me because I refuse to accept it. If you can't marry a single mother, leave those who can Alone and stop calling them names

Ryan03:
is it your money? Why the matter dey pain you specially? Is your mum a single mother? You seem pained

If my mum is single mother. Then i should be the one suppprting single mothers not against. Use yor head

Ryan03:
what a waste!

E pain am

jugger:
Ever seen a football match start from 1-0?

hahahaha chai Nairaland!

Riele you need to start from the beginning of this thread and you'll know that no one cares about single mothers. They are a disgrace to society.

A menace.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
how's staicey?

Who's staicey?