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Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 8:20pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Honest opinions only please. |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by lilmax(m): 8:31pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Will date a feminist but will not marry one They're easily manipulated by massaging their ego You do not have to spend, you also have free sex too 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Because you're marrying her and not the cause she believes in.
Your question is the same as typing,
Why marry a catholic?
Why marry a latina?
Why marry a redpiller?
Movements dont define anyone.
My opinion. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Bhadgirl(f): 8:36pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Feminists are confused, can't live with one mind I rather marry a lesbian 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 8:40pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
lilmax:Hehe I need to become your student. Hehe 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Reality11: 8:42pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
OP, feminist or none But She'll have to define what her feminism is, if she didn't bastardize or abuse the word, fine! And only after when am sure she truly leave and act for the right feminist cause. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
People tend to misunderstand feminism,most especially women (Nigerian women to an extent). Marrying a feminist is like marrying your enemy. Will always have ways to hide or preserve some form of hatred for her hubby. So NO I won't advice anyone to marry a feminist. NB: I fully don't even know the reason for feminism. 24 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Cuccitini(m): 9:18pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I would prefer a lesbian to a feminist cos if a fvck d hell out of d lesbian she will be straight 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by CreepyBlackpool: 9:35pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Depends on the kinda feminist. Chimamanda kinda feminist, Bleep No!!!! white people kinda feminist, hell yeah!! Nairaland feminists, NO!!!!! Twitter online feminist that are still subservient to dick offline, maybe yes 6 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Cuccitini: We gladly dash you to our lesbian sisters 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
StacyO: I think you might be talking about one's character... I don't understand the enemy part. Maybe it's the misunderstood version. If that's the case, then go and understand the understood version, and then make a decision for yourself but not for others. This version you grasped should be avoided, that we can agree on. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21: I guess those reasons you stated matter to a lot of people. I wouldn't marry someone of a different religion, so I guess I can understand someone not wanting to marry a feminist. Thanks for helping to clear that up. We tend to fear what we don't understand. It's human nature. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Sonsly041(m): 9:54pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I can only date one but marriage hell no.. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 9:55pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Dimples0303:Hehe I will really like to know about that feminist agenda to reduce the male population to a controllable 10%, I heard fermistst are killing male children and aborting the male child too. Me I have a problem supporting anybody who supports or abort helpless babies. I know some girls that hv miscarriages and I was telling my frnd that ferminist r killing male children before they are been born. Surprise surprise, the child was male.
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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: I've never heard of such things If it exists then I don't subscribe to it so either way it's none of my business. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by LordKO(m): 10:02pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I can marry a strong-minded and intelligent lady who identifies with feminism - association/organization doesn't make the people, instead the people make association. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Cuccitini(m): 10:07pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Dimples0303:And I will accept if they are available pls |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by ThothHermes: 10:14pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Date: Yes Marry: No 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21: Sorry but I think you should think this through. If you marry a feminist, then you are marrying her along with her cause. Because it is her philosophy or values she believes in that will influence her relationship with you and your kids and how she will play her part as a wife in the house. So they are inseparable - the person and the cause! 12 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai:Agreed. But only a fanatic lets their cause define them. Feminism isnt so rule book stating how on should like. Its true majority of modern day feminist act like it is and forget the true objective of the movement. I would never encourage anyone to date nor marry an individual who enslaves theirself mentally to a cause be it spiritual, political, etc. A man can go out with a placard with the inscription, 'female child education matters', along with his sane feminist of a wife. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21: Fanatic I'm quite familiar with that word and how it's been used today which happens to be seemingly wrongly used. Belief is one thing and adhering to that belief is another thing. And one thing about belief, in most cases if not all cases, is that belief is divided into two parts of which one cannot be complete without the other. - Having that belief stored up in your heart - Acting that belief and making it reflect in actions. Just having a belief or philosophy in most cases if not all is not complete and the person who holds such belief will never be satisfied unless he makes that belief reflect in his actions. The reason is because we human beings, it's in our nature to want to follow a path or do things we believe are RIGHT. And also, when someone believes a thing, he has psychologically convinced himself to accept that that thing is RIGHT. So human beings will want to act on their belief simply because they believe that what they believe is right. So someone who does that is not necessarily an extremist or fanatic, especially when he doesn't force others to join him in his belief and does not insult other people's belief. So if someone is a feminist, then she believes feminism and acts feminism. Those two go together and are inseparable unless the person is willing to COMPROMISE! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by johnkey: 10:34pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Feminists only show themselves to broke guys, so go hustle and leave woman matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by 4ckz: 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I would neither date nor marry a feminist, and let's be practical, if we leave social media most men won't. Also most ladies aren't feminists off social media. The idea of the whole feminists is based on power tussle, always looking for a way to favor their gender. Call me old school, but I want a submissive partner, not one to struggle power with. To the ones saying yes, it's your choice sha, but una eye go clear one day when your wife will stop cooking or taking care of the children and say that if she must do it, then you must do it as well. What am I saying sef? Anyone preparing to marry a feminist should prepare to do share all the chores equally, and you can only take 50% of decisions. Since your wife is only biological different from you, but you guys are socially equal. Modified: Just to clarify people who misunderstand me Marriage is not meant to be a partnership were one takes half of all responsiblities and rewards. It is an avenue where one compliments the others weaknesses. As men we have been biologically made to take harder physical and energy demanding chores like providing for and protecting your family. However most of us lack in the area of organization and care giving. We might care alot, but we do not show it, as much as the female does. The women who have the strength of having more emotions, home management and raring of the children (as can be seen even in animals) should take up those roles which are naturally more suited to her. In this sense, it becomes equity, because equality demands that if I should cook 50% of the time, you should take care of the other 50%. You get me now? I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A WIFE SLAVE, RATHER I AM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN THAT UNDERSTANDS SHE IS A WOMAN AND SHOULD BE TREATED AS A WOMAN, AND THAT I AM A MAN AND BE TREATED AS SUCH. Believe it or not, the whole concept of the modern day feminism is hinged on women (who know that they are biologicaly women) and want to become men socially. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
You will have to first define ‘Feminist’ 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 10:52pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21:Well I don't think feminist are sane. Feminism and satenism have alot in common. The bible is vehemently against the philosophy of feminism. Feminism promotes abortion bevouse its a womans body so woman should control what stays in it. This means that she can choose to abort anytime she wants wen it sutes her Feminism incoureges promiscuity in women. You know sexual freedom. A woman should sleep with all the men or any man she wants and not let a man or any dame thing stop her. Fermistst incoureges violence against men, you know men been the oppressor and all Feminism is against traditional value in family, which this the only plus they hv but thy refuse the 50/50 ratio they proposed. That's y thy refuse to split bills at dates Feminism is war against men, there is nothing a man says that don't trigger a ferminist Modern fetmism is man hating Feminism wants to control the reproductive power and treat the man like a puppet through this process, they want all the sexual power and they want the men to do as they are told Feminism is not about equality its about female supremacy And yes they have an agenda to wibe out the males and keep handful for reproductive purposes Feminism is not an organization its a philosophy, a way of thinking, so o think getting married to a ferminist is like inviting your worse enemy in your house, given him a gun and falling asleep 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
@Theredpillguy. Read what you wrote once more. You just reminded me of chicken little. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 11:25pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21:Which of my post should I read again |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by AstroG: 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Martinez39(m): 11:28pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
RedCreme21:But you can't separate a person from their convictions and precepts. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 11:33pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Dimples0303:You can not be a ferminist then not subscribe to ferminist ideas. Anyways its like asking a Nigerian spy wea the army keeps the armory. Defntly they will have no idea 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TemmyT002(m): 11:35pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Na waste of time I have a feminist friend Trust me, na waste of time. The Nigerian feminists are full of hypocrites who are only very much concerned about themselves alone. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy:All of them. The ideas are farfetched, dont you think? I know feminism seems scary. But we can make a mountain out of a mole hill, of things we do not know. Read my post, the illustration i made. Thats what feminisms about. A movement both men and women can believe. Its not interested in payback like you claim. As for the so called feminist who make it seem so, ignore them. But dont, because of several hypocrites, bring down a valid cause. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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